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my hair is pretty straight and i want to have curly hair like the mary kate and ashley ( not permanently though ) so what can i do to make it curly.. i dont have a hot iron curler thing so im not gonna go and buy one.. any tips? \

ps. i have those like curling things that you wrap your hair around .. if i were to use those, should my hair be wet or dry and how long should it be in there

one really really easy way to get your hair in that like boho wavy look is to just shower and take you wet hair and like get our excess moisture. then start scrunching it (just like take a handful of hair and smush your hand together as you get toward your head) do this a couple times all over..then use some gel (loreal lassting curls works wonders and repeat the scrunching...then if you use the loreal stuff there is also this like moose type stuff thats called springing curls and scrunch with that...then finnaly take the mega mouse...another loreal product and finally scrunch one more...i know this soudn like SO much product in your hair but this particular brand you can hardly tell its awesome!! i hope i helped!

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okay.. well i think i started my peroid lol.. okay well .. i had this reddish brown discharge since saturday and now today and yesterday its been pure red.. did i start ? and its only noticable when i wipe and theres alot on the tp.. but none comes out in to the toilet .. can you explain that?

Yes mam you have had your period. something the color of it is affected by say how long its been exposed to oxygn or what not. but you dont necissarily have to have accually blood out in the toliet. that is kinda weird. i mena unless your a really heavy flower and all... but anyways i hope i helped! you just probably have a light period since im guessing its your first time?!

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I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥

the soultion is simple. just tell him that you are starting to get feelings for him. if he doesnt feel the same way well that sucks but dont ruin your friendship over that..if he does like you though then i mena what better than a boyfriend who was your bestfriend eh? anyways since he is like your best friend i doubt he would try to end the friendship or anything like that..hope i helped:)

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i know romance novels like Barbara Cartland and Jude Devereaux and Nora Roberts are crappy...then why do they get published? How do they actually get it approved?!

well first off they arent crappy books. i love each and everyone of those authors. just because you may not be like the "romantic type " or w/e doesnt mean the books are crappy. i mean when you truthfully read some like Jude for example there is SO much history in those books. like real things that happened in time. and personaly i like learning about that.you can see how people lived back then..and stuff of that nature. thats just like im not a fan of murder mysteries but i dont go around calling them crappy. because thats kinda mean haha but they get published because there are so many other females in the world such as myself who appreciate the literature they provide. dont be so judgemental about them though. i mean if you took the time to read one youd see that they are worthwhile

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Ok I'm 13/f and I have a crush on someone. I never have in my entire life. I refuse to tell anyone because I feel really guilty and I'm worried people will make fun of me because everyone thinks I'm a nerd. I should be focusing on getting into the Honor Choir and straight A's, not boys! Is it a bad thing? It would be really cool if someone can give me some info! thx

darling its alright! we wouldnt be girls if we like guys..i deff know what you mean because my grades and my spot on my drill team matter so much to me. but guys are great to have..so just dont dwell on it. i mean unless the guy is keeping you from pursuing your dreams go for him! you never know, he could make you feel like happy and complete and stuff..and dont worry aout populrity it is so gay..for example..my BEST friend is the most popular girl in school. and the so called "nerds" have all done stuff before her and stuff like that. so yepp hope i helped :)

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okay...i'm a huge harry potter fan...i'm like obsessed with the movies and books. especially after reading the sixth book, i'm like falling in love with the character, scary but yes. on the videos i watch the comentaries and read in magazines and know and like alot about daniel radcliffe and stuff... now straight to the point. am i in love with the character or the real person? lol stupid question but i'm so confused! i've always wanted to meet danial especially after i saw the first movie. he's gorgeous and he's a really good actor! help me!!

haha dont worry i know how you feel. only you not obsessed with the real person. only harry. cause well he seems amazing..even tho im kinda in love with ron over him haha..but all is well..i always becoem obessed with characters from books so it works, dont worry about it! its just part of being a hopless romantic like myself :)

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i have a crush on a guy that everyone thinks is cute an dhe knows but he doesnt like me anymore than just a friend he says im pretty that i have a nice body but he still says that he only likes me like a friend and every time i see him with another girl i get mad. do you guys have anything to offer something that will make him like more or anything good will rate a.s.a.p

well first off dont try to change who you are because then if he starts to like that other person you arent being truthful to yourself or him..and putting on a act is alot of work. all i can say is just flirt with him. show him all your good attributes and make sure he knows that your there. just try to show him your good side then he might like you back! if not, well i guess you could be liek hey ill you head! then they kinda like you cause you know youll do with them..but i really dont recomend that. only for EXTREME reasons. hope i helped :)

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i have a friend that've liked me for soo long and i like him too but i never got with him because i always knew that i couldnt he lives in another state and long distance of course never works out..the past two boyfriends ive had he totally hated and btw i have a boyfriend right now...well so because he lives in a diff. state i dont wanna get with him but now hes giving up on all hope and i know for sure that when he stops he'll stop talking to me and we're gonna drift apart and i really dont want that to happen...ive tried to give him some signals that i dont like him but then other times i just cant help it because as ive said hes soo sweet and hes always there for me and he never seems to get it how else can i help him get over me but still keep in touch?!

well ust tell im straight out how you feel. that yes you are attracted to him but you ust dont want a long distanc e relationship right now. if hes the person he make him seem to be he will respect that and still keep in contact with you. just let him know where you stand..cause its not fair to for him to have false hope ya know? hope i helped!

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I'm sure you guys are really sick of period questions. Heaven knows there's a lot of them.

Anyway, I've had my period for about 6 years now, so not much has been new to me. Okay, so today is the day I should be getting it (seeing as how I keep a calendar)... and I noticed some blood, but then it kind of ebbed off. I'm not sure if it's completely stopped, but what's up with that? I've been exercising lately, something I never do, so could that be why it's weird today?

Yeah... no idea what's up.

its probably because yor physical active..like im a dancer and i know i have iregular period because of how hard my body works..its probably only cause your working out

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awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks.

well hoesntly i cant tell yo if you do or not seeing as all your saying is that you gave him head and thats about all t he info you gave us. but if your that scared or whatever then go get tested it sthe only way to be sure

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I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance to?

Ah im a dancer as well lol andthe best song ever that just make syou wanna get up and dance is how we do by mount sims or syms? i dunno but its amazingly upbeat and you just feel like dancing your heart out! also heartburn by whats her face keys...lol thats awesome! oh and you can never forget the Ice ice baby by vanilla ice! hope i helped! have fun dancing your heart out!!

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ok i really like my bf..but last week when i was a lil drunk i had sex with his cousin..that he really doesn't even talk to..and i haven't even had sex with him yet..we were goin to but we got interupted. his cousin was really good and i kinda wanna do it again..but i dont know i really like my bf..i dont know what to do. i mean i want to stay with my bf my everytime we wanna have sex we cant because were either gettin interupted or im on my period..and i kinda have feelings for his cousin err i need help..ill rate fives all around!!

it seems to me like your basing everything off of sex. and thats not what a relationship is about. if all your looking is for a good tumble or whatever then maybe you shouldnt have a boyfriend....rather you just have a guy you do stuff with..though i dont recomend it because its not really a healthy relationship. But whatever floats your boat. But just make sure your boyfriend is aware that all you seem to be looking for is sex because he might and probably does have feelings for you and it isnt fair for you to leas him on.

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Well im supposed to get my period tomorrow..but sometimes its late. and i need to go swimming all weekend and next week. but i dont use tampons..so is it ok to swim with Pads? thanks

NO NO AND MUST I REAPEAT NO! im sorry hun but unless you want red floating around by you and random pieces of pad coming out of your swimsuit i highly do NOT recomend it! either just dont go swimming or try and get over your fear of tampons! i promise they are amazing and so worth it! i love them! i promise you wont regret it. hope i helped dear!

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Whenever I'm alone, I keep thinking about how bad the world is and writing dark poems and stuff. Once I nearly cut my wrists with a sharp knife. Do you know any way to help me have a brighter outlook on the world? Thanks. -Elie

okay well first of all i dont suggest cutting. i used to do it practicly everyday and it doesnt help. it seems like once you start you cant stop. so please dont follow my footsteps..stop yourself while there is still time. Secondly if you are feeling this down you are probably suffering from depression. tell your parents about it. make them understand that your sick and you need help. then try and find a psychiatrist.. i know this seems like weird or whatver but trust me once they get you on proper medication its like you have a whole new outlook on life..if not then go talk to a counselor or pastor from your church or something..get the feelings out..sometimes just being able to talk about it helps..i know when im feeling down it just helps when i go to confession (im catholic) but no matter what..no matter how hard it gets never try to end your life..i dont know if youve thought about but trust me i tried to end mine and i regret it every day...i almost had to go to a mental hosipitol and such and trust me you dont want to wind up there. finnally if you cant seem to get yourself to talk to anyone else just IM me at Kitkat53190..i know what it feels like..so i hope everything turns out alright for you my dear.

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hi people

i want to get nair this four minute lotion thingy. its when you rub it on you and wash it off four minutes and your hair comes off? does this work

no no and once again no! that stuff is so bad! i used it once and got a rash! so unless you want to look like a tomatoe with horrid bumps on your legs i recomend just the regualr old shaving!

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I have a really thin figure and I have trouble finding pants that fit in the thighs does anyone have any recomendations on where to shop?

My friend has the same problem..have you tried American Eagle? i mean thats what my friend tried and she look amazing in them! im sure you would too!

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why do guys just look at your body and not your personality! i mean i know looks matter but still! why? im curious!

thats just how guys are made..they dont feel like they can have a relationship with someone unless they are attracted to them..its just like the laws of nature of whatever..just cant help it. they like to look at hot girls. its just the way they are made.

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