I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥
jcsgrlthe1st answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:39 pm: if you loved him you wouldnt question it first thing. but i mean i dont think theres much you can do...heh i know how you feel...right now im going out with my bestfriend and its just amazing...but just tell him how you feel! the worst that can happen is him say no right? or just say..."do you ever see us going out in the future?" or something along those lines! or maybe just flirt with him alot like touch him when you talk to him and maybe he'll get the hint and just see what he does back!
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JandB answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:15 pm: Take It from a girl whos knows.. I know how you feel. All I did was tell him how I felt and tell him that i dont want anything to feel waied being around him. If he is ur bestfriend he will understand. Who knows he may have feelings for you too. But if he doesnt like you dont let it get to you. It will be fine and he WILL understand..
cookierat123 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:12 pm: its ok to be afraid to like your best friend, i know, i have before. and you know waht? i didnt affect our friendship at all. i think you should tell him. i mean. life is way too short to wonder wat would have happend if you told him and you didnt. right? well, good luck. ♥ [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
Dakmor answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:07 pm: I'm in a similar situation, I'd just start a conversation (in IMs or emails, if you're shy) and then after a while, ask him if he likes you. If he does, yay ♥ if not, he'll probably go on about how he likes you so much as a friend, you're one of the coolest girls he's ever met, you're really cool, he want to stay friends with you, etc. Then, after he knows you like him, he'll realize in due time that he likes you as well!
Good luck, hope it works =D [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
SWANKiFiED answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:03 pm: I've been there & I know exactly how you feel. You have 3 choices. One would be to come straight out & tell him how you feel. This would be if you're really confident he'll like you back. Most people don't do this because it takes a really bold girl. I wouldn't do this either. Your second choice is to wait it out for a while, ask other friends to find out how HE feels & try to see if any signs point to him liking you. Then once you feel good enough, you can admit to how you feel. The last choice is to not do anything & just wait for him to ask you out. If he doesn't, just wait for the feeling to pass. I don't reccomend this because it can be painful to wait around & he might feel the same way you do. He might like you but be afraid to admit it. Good luck hon!
katlyn5319 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:01 pm: the soultion is simple. just tell him that you are starting to get feelings for him. if he doesnt feel the same way well that sucks but dont ruin your friendship over that..if he does like you though then i mena what better than a boyfriend who was your bestfriend eh? anyways since he is like your best friend i doubt he would try to end the friendship or anything like that..hope i helped:) [ katlyn5319's advice column | Ask katlyn5319 A Question ]
Ekaterina answered Thursday July 21 2005, 7:57 pm: You need to tell him its better now than later on . Dont be shy just be like you know i was wondering do you like any one around here and if hes like yes who is it and you .Just say i do and he is really dear to me he will get really curious and would want to know. Good luck ♥Kate [ Ekaterina's advice column | Ask Ekaterina A Question ]
horsesare666es answered Thursday July 21 2005, 7:47 pm: You may like him i doubt you love him. but if you don't want to like him i dont see why you should then. distance yourself from him for a bit. and if your really close, mention it to him, but make it into a joke so you two can laugh about it and not get weird. I use to like a couple of my guy friends and i told them, and usually i stopped liking them quickly cause nothing changes and we are still friends
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