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i have a friend that've liked me for soo long and i like him too but i never got with him because i always knew that i couldnt he lives in another state and long distance of course never works out..the past two boyfriends ive had he totally hated and btw i have a boyfriend right now...well so because he lives in a diff. state i dont wanna get with him but now hes giving up on all hope and i know for sure that when he stops he'll stop talking to me and we're gonna drift apart and i really dont want that to happen...ive tried to give him some signals that i dont like him but then other times i just cant help it because as ive said hes soo sweet and hes always there for me and he never seems to get it how else can i help him get over me but still keep in touch?!
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tell him that you would go out with him but he lives to far you just dont wanna get into a deep relationship (sp?) becauz you would wanna see him every day and stuff like that tell him that you would like to just friends Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
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well ust tell im straight out how you feel. that yes you are attracted to him but you ust dont want a long distanc e relationship right now. if hes the person he make him seem to be he will respect that and still keep in contact with you. just let him know where you stand..cause its not fair to for him to have false hope ya know? hope i helped!
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Okay I seriously had a problem like this. My friend Steven lives in maine. Well I met him on Sims Online. Well he started to like me A LOT say he loved me and goodnight and all that and then he started sending me stuff. Freaky!!! He went to disney land for spring break and he sent me micky mouse ears with my NAME sewed into the back, 2 necklaces with my name on them and then for my birthday he sent me a card with a teddy bear and 16 dollars..Stalker? YES. He only did this because I have a boyfriend..John that he "hated" (was jealous of) and would always put him down, well I got freaked out about him...He got my address because my friend lives in maine and she knows him and she told him..well i stopped talking to him so he got the hint that i didnt like him AT ALL and then he just gets mad and sends me mean emails...Thats the way it worked for me but if you want him to keep talking to him then you need to tell him that you guys are relaly good firends and you don't want ot loose that but you live in a differnt state and it wouldnt work out and he should know that. Say that he is like a brother to you and that is all we will ever be because you guys have a bond like no other..He will take this into concideratione and think about it and he will adventually get over it and all will be good. Sorry so long but I hope I helped you with your question hun. Respond with what you think? Thanks bye. xo sara
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