ALRIGHT PEOPLE! I need your help! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if i ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him! and I have a crush on him.. and hes funny and everything! but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me for me and not just for sexual stuff!!
NikNik answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:43 am: Hey, well one way to find out if he's not just useing you for sex is if he's always wanting to do it like 24/7, then you should know that hes just in the relationship for sex and if you dont want that then make him wate for a long time befor you do anything with him besides kissing and huging and everything, and if he wates for you and wates untill you are ready to do anything sexual then he will wate and that would mean he cares and that hes not just in the relationship for sex....believe me thats the best way no matter if you want to do it or not, make him wate. I hope this advice helps,...Please rate. [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
Belladonna answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:33 am: Most teenage guys are horny, just a lot know how to hide it around girls..lol. I doubt, though, he'd get into a relationship just to use you. Most people don't bother with that effort, as they can get sex from elsewhere if they really want it. I guess you can't ever know someone's intentions, but he does deserve the benefit of the doubt, doesn't he? Unless there's a logical reason, assume that he really does like you and is not using you. You have no reason not to trust him.
Try getting one of your/his friends to ask what he thinks of you, and see how he answers. That'll give you a clear indication on where you stand with him, and whether he sees you as more than just a "peice of ass" (so to speak!)
SaraLee answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:32 am: Easy. Play hard to get, guys hate hit but they chase you and realize your more than a sex toy if they would waste their time chasing you. Get what I am saying? It is easy, so don't say it is hard. I know from experience. Try it. It my be a little hard cause you do have to kind of ignore him a little bit cause that is the point of the chase. But I hope I helped you hun. Please respond with the out come?. XO sara [ SaraLee's advice column | Ask SaraLee A Question ]
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