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Did she miss me?
I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on?
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Hey! This normal for a friend to do. You haven't been there when they needed to call you or whatever so they feel like you might talk too much about your vacation and they can't talk to you so whatever you do, don't talk about your trip, at least not too much. Be like, "I had a great time but i really missed you." That way they can ask you questions if they want, if not, drop the subject. Invite them over, don't talk over the phone cause then it looks like they aren't good enough to be seen in person. Hope this helps!!
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what could be going on is maybe you've bin gone so long that she's tired of missing you and moved on. you should sit her down no matter what is happening. demand that you to need to talk. ask her what is the deal with not missing you. except be a little more gental
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Maybe while she was hanging out with some other friends someone might have told her that you were saying things about her behind her back..it happends..you should talk to her if she is really your friend you'll work it out.
hope it helped
heather
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Confront her, if she's your friend, she'll listen. It doesn't do good to keep this feeling inside of you. If she insists that she didn't ever ignore you, she's not a true friend.
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Well try talking to her aout it tell her how you feel.And if it still goes the same way then mabe yall arnt as close I know it is a asd thing but it is the truth.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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None of us can tell you ecacly why your friend wont call you. Maybe her other friends have been calling her and asking to hang out but you havent. Just callher one night and see whats up. I mean did uyou do anything to make her mad? You just need to talk to her && see whats up. Just ask her to hang out or something and seee ho she respnds and stuff. ll ♥ ll
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its okay if she has other friends she likes to hang out with because you probably have other friends you like to hang out with too, but you should try inviting her to go shopping or something so you can talk and be around her. maybe she just doesnt have much to say, and you shouldnt be mad at her for not calling you unless she promised she would. if you still feel tension you ought to confront her about it! let her know you still want to be friends!
hope i helped!
anne givings <3<3
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Well there are two perspectives:
1) Well, why didn't YOU call her and ask her if she wanted to hang out? You said she's been hanging out with HER OTHER friends. That's understandable. Maybe her other friends have been calling her and actually asking her to go out. Maybe if you actually planned things with her you'd actually be going out too.
1) Sounds like she doesn't really care whether you've been back or not.
The best thing to do is to talk to her. Tell her you don't care if the truth hurts you, but you just want to know the truth. If she makes an effort to include you in her parties and hang outs more you'll know she's trying. If she doesn't really do anything you'll know she's not trying too hard. If that's the case just dump her. You don't need friends that treat you horribly.
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ask her. does it look like we kno, does it look like we are her. no so why are you asking us. you just have to ask her about it and if she doesnt want to be your friend then fine she's not worht it. end of story, now was that that hard?
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girls are so damn catty. give it up she doesn't want to be your friend. get the hell over it and find friends that AREN'T bitches. there are many other girls out there that are willing to be your friend. you'll live, i promise.
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Well you should call your friend and see if she wants to hang out. Once you are together face to face, ask her what she did and who she met when you were gone. Tell her that she has seemed different ever since you got back and ask her if she is sick of you or if she needs space or something. The bottom line is to talk to her and she wut is goin on.
Hope this helps
Ge xoxox
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Ask your friend if you guys can talk. See whats up and why she's been acting like this. Hope it helps.
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wow this is definately weird..i wish i knew what was going on but it sounds like the only way for you to find out is to talk to her..theres no reason for her to be mad at you so i dont get it? girls can be moody sometimes..definately..so i would call her up and just ask what the deal is
-meliss
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