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Does he like me?
18/female
Me and this guy have been friends for like over a year now and i have had a huge crush on him. I have told him about and left it at that. We are always hanging out. He tells me more stuff then he has ever told anyone. He is like a best friend to me. He flirts all the time with me and he is always holding my hand and cuddling with me but then he always is saying that he just wants to be friends well he dont act like it at all and he has gone out with my best friend and after she dumped him i started getting closer she tells me its fine and we talk all about it but i just think i need more advice everyone says he likes me but then he does the same exact stuff to other gurls and im just really confused about it if he does like me what should i do? please i need your help
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If you told him, and he didn't do anything about it, then he probably just doesn't feel that way about you. He even said he doesn't feel that way about you.
If he does all of that 'stuff' with other girls, then it probably means he's just being who he is.. a flirt. It's probably only because you're his friend that he's sparing your feelings and NOT dating you.
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You have already confessed your feelings for him and he doesn't want anything more than friendship. He 'acts' like he likes you isn't enough, I'm sorry to say this but some guys are just plain flirts and they like playing with girls. If his behavior is giving you mixed signals then confront him about it, or stop the hand holding, cuddling, etc. It sounds like your buddy is a serial flirt, perhaps he doesn't mean any harm by it, but he likes attention especially from the 'women' in his life.
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He isn't ready for commitment yet. If you like him, flirt back, and maybe you can make him grow up.
But I'd recommend finding another guy.
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It seems to me that he's not ready to make a commitment to dating you yet. Until he's ready to take that step, there's not much you can do other than be supportive and give him the space he needs to make the choice.
When he's ready to make a commitment to you, it will be worth the wait. You don't want a relationship where your partner is pushed into a commitment only to decide later that it wasn't really what they wanted.
Good luck.
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give it time..maybe hes not ready for a commitment..mayb yawl arejuss really good friends..but dont like hav sex with him for that reason..i mean just dont let things get to far
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