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So Confused!
13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..
Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.
I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.
And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.
If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column
Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..
Thanks in advance for any helpful advice.
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aww..hunn..i even went through this. i would compare other girls to myself and think i was so ugly. just look at the positives of yourself. think of what you have..that no one else does. You will find someone..trust me. i found this amazing guy a year or so ago now and when he said he liked me..i was shocked because i thought i was ugly. every guy has a different opinion..trust me..they aren`t all the same. good luck n i hope you find someone soon!=) if you ever need anything else..drop one in my inbox.
♥ Michelle
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i go throught that all the time..like i dont want anyone to feel bad for me but im just plain out ugly..in your picture on your column you look really pretty..just the people in school are immiture..aand i hate it..just because your popular doesnt mean you can act like an asshole..you probably dont no what i talking about but i think you have to be popular by being pretty/hott and sometime stuck up like just because they are popular they have no right to pick on you or something..as you can tell im not popular..yeah im getting off subject but anyways just believe in yourself..people will like you for that and just be yourself
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Guys don't like girls that are always calling themselves fat and ugly. They like confident girls. You are very self conscious and you probably have no reason to be. Just accept yourself for who you are, ugly or not. There isn't much you can do about it. Don't let others see that you are inconfident.
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Hey Sweety. O.M.G I honestly think that you might be going through some kind of depressional phase. Don't let the assholes in your school wear you down and make you feel like shit. I know exactly how your feeling though because I'm 16/F and I don't have a bf and sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong w. me too. Like am I not pretty enough or am I not thin enough?? I think that maybe if you had more confidence in yourself other people would have more confidence in you. There's a saying that goes something like "Everything happens for the best," and I've come to find that its true and really useful. Don't look onto your past and don't think about how people view you. As long as your happy with yourself, thats al that really truly matters. There's a sight called www.meetspot.com you could meet some really cool people. If you decide to join my sn is xobeachbabexo.. I-M me sometime so we could talk. I hope everything goes ok with your situation. Xo>
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I feel like this all the time my dear.
One thing you have to ask yourself. When your doing your hair in the morning, getting ready, do you feel ok with yourself when your alone? And when you pull up to school do you then start feeling bad?
Then you know, your ok with yourself. Just think about whether your willing to give up who you are for a guy who (at your age) is a total asshole, who won't be your soul mate anyway.
Hope that helps. Contact me further if you want more help.
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Just because you don't have a boyfriend does not mean you are ugly.I mean I'm single too,a lot of guys like me but most of them have girlfriends,the other guys are afraid to ask me out because they think they'll get rejected.If you really think you are unattractive well why don't you try changing something about you that you don't like about yourself.You are probably feeling this way because you have like an empty space but you need to start hanging out with guy friends you like,see if they like you by the way they look at you or ask a friend to ask them if they do.Don't feel down by the girls you think are better than you.You have to be strong,go on with your life,find the one guy that likes you and respects you like it should be.
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heyy i know whtchya mean like when i was 13 (around two years ago) i felt like really ugly and w.e but if you have enough confiendce like i did guys will love you! and you know i doubt your ugly...you just need a boost of confiendce..and if you pray to god and beleive with your wholest heart that you will one day find that guy ( soon) you will! just like i did when i was 13...and me and my bf have been datin ever since then...HoPe I HElPEd!!
<33 aSHER PUFF
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Hey!
Every girl is pretty inside and outside. Even though you might not think so it is true. There is someone that likes you but you just don''t know yet. besides there are plenty of guys out there...one of them is for you! it just may take a while. So keep your head high and trust your inner self.
wish you luck!
xoxo lindsay xoxo madeline
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im in the same situation. you feel like that because you see everyone else with boyfriends and wonder why you dont have one. im also very self concious and fewll the same way about myself as you do. but the time will come when someone comes up to you and tells you they like you and it will probly be one of the best moments of your life. make sure your first boyfriend is someone special, and not just someone you took so you could say youve had a bf.
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*hugs* Sweetie, I felt that way for a long time! Like from when I was thirteen to when I was sixteen! That's like...*counts*...THREE YEARS! I'm not entirely over it, and I'm seventeen now. Don't worry, it's normal to be insecure, but you have to work to get over it! =) Good luck!!
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