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HEY! uhm.. i`m madina, i love, love, love helping people and uhm yeah, ask away!


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hi!
im 13/f
and ive been begging my parents since the 5th grade to get a second ear peircing. i am now in the 7th grade and just turned 13 and i asked my mom again and she said yes i can get one. the problem is my dad .He said NO because hes afraid that after i would want more piercings and come home with them all over the place. I told him that everyone has their second hole but he doesnt care. What should i do to convince him to agree on me getting one ?

you can try to make a deal with him, you can say "ok dad, i`ve decided that if i get my second hole i will not get another until i get your permission, if you say no i will drop it and not ask you again." plus you can through in Oh PLEASE! i will sacrifice internet for a few days or do extra chores. this will show him you are very, very serious and really want this and he can`t say no to that.

hope i helped!

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I need to to lose weight people keep telling me to diet and exercise but its not that easy even when i do do that i dont seem to lose any and when i do crunchs or situps i can never do them right HELP!!!!

well.. you are probally big-boned, and if not that than i guess you can always try drinking aleo vera water, it's a very natuaral way to lose weight fast, just drink a cup every few days, you can find it at henry's ((the produce store)) or at trader joe's.

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How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me? or should I just want untill he comes to me what should I do help.

well if it's your ex and HE broke up with YOU, then i hardly doubt he'll come back unless you ask him. if YOU broke up with HIM then there is a STRONG possibility he will come back. i don't think making him jelous will help but if that's the way you want to go than you can go ahead and do it. i think you can try to do something new with your make up and hair to make him just say WOW! you should go on a shopping spree! or you can just get closer to him and show him that you are still really fun to be around to draw him back..!

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Ive had this best guy friend for a while. We went out a few years ago, and it lasted fr over a year, things got rocky, and we're still very good friends.

But recently it's been obvious that theres been attraction between the two of us. We hung out the other day and one thing led to another and we got to the point of almost having sex. I stopped it and went home. Tomorrow we are hanging out together again, and i know the same is going to happen. The thing is, i REALLY want to have sex with him because we had such a great relationship, but it just feels funny.

Would it be be wrong and "slutty" of me to do so?

no it wouldnt be slutty at all bcs you two did go out for a while and you obviousally know him real well. i think you should go for the sex! ♥ ♥ ♥

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I was just wondering how some of ya'll get those lil' stars next to ur name. Like when ya'll respond you do somthing like "BLAH BLAH BLAH Hope i helped!!! (insert heart here) Candy." I just wanna know how ya do that.

& h e a r t s ;
without the spaces. if you put spaces it wont work. also if even one letter is capital it wont work.

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I'm trying to figure out how to get CUSTOM colors on AIM. I know how to get to the color chart with all of the squares and you just pick a color, but on the very bottom there's a button that says DEFINE CUSTOM COLORS. But it won't let me click on it. How do I get that to work? Thanks!


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i use applesauce, it's really easy to use, here's the site, http://radkitten.nu/?page_id=44!

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Hi, I shave my lower area but somehow it always get irritaed with bumps and everything. Is there any other way not to get these? Please help.

try waxing

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Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f

One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!

I'll rate for good answers.

well the same thing you are going through rite now my best friend is going through to but for her the guy she likes keeps saying i hate you and says he likes one of her close friends and he was actually really nice to her for so long and then he started getting mad. well that was random i know, im sorry! well you should try just talking like normal and forget all the stuff that happened see where he takes it. just act natural even if it's kind of weird. so uhh yeah, hope i helped!

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What is this "&hearts" thing everyone is saying? Is it from a movie or did one person just say it so now every other stupid girl has to go along and say it to.

no and no, haha. it's actually & h e a r t s ; , no spaces. if you don't put the spaces than it makes this cute little heart, see ♥ i guess some people forgot the ; and it seemed weird to you, i noe bcs i've done it a few times. but yeah, hope i helped!

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ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!

well you can call one of your friends and ask them for a ride and money or you can ask your bf to pay. (:

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I want to use Nair for my bikini area (i think they have a special one out used just for that area) and I wanted to know before I used it, has anyone here tryed it and what was it like, did it burn/did u get red bumps? also how long did the hair stay off for? would u suggest i use it or stick to shaving? also ive heard Nair stinks but they have some now that smell like vanilla and cucumber melon, should i get that instead of the regular? thanks so much for your advice!

i think you should use it, it stays longer than shaving. try the cucumber melon it smells ok, i didnt know they had vanilla, lol. if it doesnt work stick to shaving. nair does make you itch alot tho, it's bcs when the hair grows back out of your skin it itches.

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has anyone tried the veet rasera bladeless kit? does it really work? is it worth it? thanks
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yes it does work, you leave it on for 3 minutes and take it off with the bladeless blade lol. it lasts much, much longer than shaving! i love it lol. it also gives your legs a natural glow nd wont leave your legs ashy. it makes your legs really soft.

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what are symptoms of herpes..can u get outbreaks like around your face..not even that close to your mouth?
how do i know if its herpes and what do i do if it is

i think the only place you have outbreaks is around your mouth if you actually have herpes. you should go to your doctor or a private Clinic.

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I'm about to move into my first apartment and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for how to decorate it.

well if it's an apartment of your own you can do anything you feel like! you have to make sure you can actually paint on your walls first lol, i think you should do a island sort of them and make everything sort of beachy and you can get a table that has glass on top and a regular table with a like drawer you can see into and put sand nd shells in it. lol but its up to you, tell me a few things you really like and some colors and we'll talk some more. (:

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when i moved here in 5th grade i met my best friend. and i know i did the first day we talked. and through the years we were so close. like i could talk to this girl about everything and anything. i went through so much with her. in 7th grade her brother died. in 8th grade her parents got divorced. and so much more but i know both of those changed her a lot. last summer my best friend introduced me to her other best friend. lets say her name was ashely. during the summer me and ashely talked a lot and she was EXACTLY like me. and before you knew it me and ashely were together all the time. so the school year went by and me and my old best friend stopped hanging out. we were sitting in study one day.. ( me and my old best friend ) and i found a note to herself in her planner. she was writing how she was afraid she lost me to ashely and that she missed me a lot. i read it without her knowing and it made me feel like shit. i dont think i have ever been so sad. the thing is, ashely is moving in less than 3 weeks 700 miles away from here. and i wish i didnt lose my old best friend for this other girl whos leaving. i feel so alone and i just dont know what to do =/ the last time me and my old best friend hung out was at her party in april and when we were signing happy birthday i cried. cause it just brought back all the other years doing that. and i think i cried for a really long time. i miss her =/ and idk what to do. help me someone =/

o wow, im sory. well you should definately tell her how much you miss the old times nd tell her how sorry you are for almost losing her to this other friend. you need to keep the relationship with her bcs she was your bestfrend first! (sory if i sound so mean rite now!) you should also tell her you're not just crawling back to her like an old cat that lost it's owner bcs ashley moved. you need your friend to noe you really do want to be friends with her nd be close to her agen nd that you miss nd cherish the old times!

hhop i helped!
sory if i sounded mean!
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hey, i had my period like 15 days ago and today i noticed that there was a little blood on my underwear and kind of coming , out but it was brownish( didnt look my the usual blood) and it kept randomly coming today, it was grosse... whats it from?

thats how mine was when i first started it and when i didnt eat rite or had pressuare. maybe it's the same problem with you. see if it is.

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alright well,to get straight to the point, I'm paranoid and an insomniac.. is there a connection between the two?

yeah i think there is a connection, you have insomnia which leds you to being paranoid, lol jp. try thinking of blue or white nd let it drift you off to sleep. whenever i cant sleep i think of either pink, blue or white. dont think of any patterns just the color see where it takes you and if you fall asleep faster.

hope i helped!
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if you put homemade strabery milk in the freazer will it make ice cream? i rate 5s no smart asses please
[[its w/ strawbary suryup nd milk]]

eww no dont try it! i tried it in like 3rd grade nd it was soo gross! it was like frozen milk(which tastes bad enough as it is)nd some weird pink stuff. you can try it if you want but i just wanted to help you save some time, it's not worth the milk nd syrup lol.

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If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.

I rat high for accurate answers ;)

no hone, your a little bit confused, you need a guy's sperm to get preggie. without sperm there is nothing to make the baby! lol, so dont worry nothing will happen. go ahead nd enjoy yourself nd finger it lol.

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I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks

well how long ago was this? bcs if itz between i think 48 or 72 hours you can tell the police nd they will have a doctor of some kind take urine samples nd will see his sperm nd make sure its really him.

good luck nd hop i helped!
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