hi!
im 13/f
and ive been begging my parents since the 5th grade to get a second ear peircing. i am now in the 7th grade and just turned 13 and i asked my mom again and she said yes i can get one. the problem is my dad .He said NO because hes afraid that after i would want more piercings and come home with them all over the place. I told him that everyone has their second hole but he doesnt care. What should i do to convince him to agree on me getting one ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? MADiiNUhxBAYBii answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 10:53 pm: you can try to make a deal with him, you can say "ok dad, i`ve decided that if i get my second hole i will not get another until i get your permission, if you say no i will drop it and not ask you again." plus you can through in Oh PLEASE! i will sacrifice internet for a few days or do extra chores. this will show him you are very, very serious and really want this and he can`t say no to that.
SarahNicole answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 5:49 pm: How about doing some extra chores in the house to show him that you are responsible and wouldnt do something crazy like that. It should teach him that you are a responsible person and you diserve that second piercing. ♥ [ SarahNicole's advice column | Ask SarahNicole A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Monday November 14 2005, 4:33 pm: have your mom talk to him about it, or do it the same way i do. if your parent(s) say no, just do it anyways. ive pierced my own ear more than 5 times. if you want to do that then just ask me and ill help you with it.
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Kirst answered Sunday November 13 2005, 7:49 pm: That is so stupid.. I just wouldnt listen to him he seems really strict and everything I would talk to my mom and have my mom talk to him or somthing [ Kirst's advice column | Ask Kirst A Question ]
happy-helper answered Sunday November 13 2005, 12:33 pm: Why not promise him that you won't have any other piercings until you're out of the house (i.e. an adult)? That might stop him panicing slightly. Try it! :)
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karenR answered Sunday November 13 2005, 11:49 am: Make a written contract with him. Say in it you will not pierce anything but your ears...until you turn 18 and/or leave home. whichever will fly with him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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