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What's going on?
Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f
One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!
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well the same thing you are going through rite now my best friend is going through to but for her the guy she likes keeps saying i hate you and says he likes one of her close friends and he was actually really nice to her for so long and then he started getting mad. well that was random i know, im sorry! well you should try just talking like normal and forget all the stuff that happened see where he takes it. just act natural even if it's kind of weird. so uhh yeah, hope i helped!
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Wait to see what heppens.And when you talk to him just be ur self
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Well, i know exactly how you feel because im the same age as you. if you see him online then just ask him whats going on with you two? ask him all the questions you are confused about. you should act yourself so at least he can see the true you. u should definetly not wait and see what happens, you should take action and ask him about it.
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Okay, ask him what he is thinking about all of this. Tell him how you feel. Don't act different around him. He obviously likes you for who you are so don't change anything! If you need anymore help feel free to IM me at Adivce4You04 (AIM).
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Well, if he likes you and you like him that is great. If he was making a big deal out of you knowing maybe that is a hint that he wants to move foward to form a relationship. You should definatly talk to him. I dont recommend online because the conversations can be edited or fowarded, but talking to him on the phone or better in person. Confront him. You could start casual and move up to the point.
I like you and I know you like me. I like you because of..... whatever reasons you have. I dont know why you like me, but I would like to know. Then see how it goes from there. Talk it out.
If you have anything you want to talk about my name is Emily.
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It seems to me like he's a little embarassed that you found out that he was crushing on you. Act normal next time you talk to him to help calm him down. Flirt a little if he seems to be reacting positively to you acting normal. Since you said he was a friend, it's possible he's worried that a relationship might ruin the friendship. The best thing to do once you get him to relax a little is to tell him you value his friendship and you look at a relationship with him as an extension of that friendship. It's always good to be friends with the guy you're with.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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That was an awesome setup if it was only followed through with a date. You got the truth out now it should be pretty easy. Since you had gone on vacation and you probly havnt talked for a while he might think you are avoiding him. You should ask him out to a movie or someplace that shows your individuality. Be yourself. That is the person he found to like. Hope to help and good luck!!!
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Just act like you normally would. He likes you for that, right? Plus, if you just act like you, your able to follow his lead on anything "extra" so you wont scar him away.
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Hey! wassup girl...well look talk to him like you need to!! Be like look since i no you like me and you know i like you then why dont we be together...sweet talk him (you know) but be like im really sorry my friend told me but you should have known and its okay cause im really happy she told me because ur a great guy and i really like you. ..you get what im saying? lol...but i really hope my advice works! Goodluck
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