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Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: Advice4You04
Member Since: April 2, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: July 16, 2005
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Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f
One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!
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Okay, ask him what he is thinking about all of this. Tell him how you feel. Don't act different around him. He obviously likes you for who you are so don't change anything! If you need anymore help feel free to IM me at Adivce4You04 (AIM).
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I've known my best guy friend for 3 years, since 5th grade,and him and i are really "close" and at times can get really touchy, but we've never kiss, or anything like that, he acts like he likes me,and wants to ask me me out but can't,so trys to give me hints and ask's me interesting questions like" are you afraid of a boy kissing you?"or" how many guys have you made out with?" and all of our mutual friends say that one of us should ask the other out and w/e, but then about 2-3 weeks ago he asked me if him and this other girl would make a good couple and if he should ask her out, all i could say was ".. do you like her?"(dumb question i know all i could think of in the moment) and he said yes. and that was that.. and i guess i have to just deal, but as the years go on i like him more and more, and i love him to death*as a brother,nd mabe a lil more* , in the end of it all i really just want him to be happy(i know it sounds cheesy)but when ever he's around me his hands are always somwhere on me, and his tickle me constantly, and i loved that! but now he has a girl friend,somone who i used to be friends with, and i know its not real nice/proper or me or him to continue to act like that, im just really confused about his feelings for me and ever since he went out with her, he's stoped talking to me. and it really hurts..
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Okay well this is a tuffy. I am sure everything seems so confusing right now. I would be thinking "Do I like him enough to maybe lose a friend?" Well if you do, confront him about how you feel. If you want help on what to say to him you can IM me at (AIM) Advice4You04. Hope everything works out for you. Good Luck.
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I have a friend who was going out with this one girl. he's 18 and really loved her. they even talked about getting married! Then one night at a party he did a lot of things with another girl at a party, and after that she had sex with someone els. He was so mad that he cheated on his girlfriend with a "slut" and when his girlfriend found out she was puking and screaming. Now my friend wants to kill himself and im scared. Besides going to an adult, how can i help him? (link)
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Tell him everybody makes mistakes. Even though he may truely love her he will still be okay if she loses. Millions of people lose loved ones all the time and find another. Convince him there are other things to live for. He obviously has friends that care for him or you wouldn't have posted anything. Good Luck with everything.
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