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more than just a friend?(best answerd by a guy)
I've known my best guy friend for 3 years, since 5th grade,and him and i are really "close" and at times can get really touchy, but we've never kiss, or anything like that, he acts like he likes me,and wants to ask me me out but can't,so trys to give me hints and ask's me interesting questions like" are you afraid of a boy kissing you?"or" how many guys have you made out with?" and all of our mutual friends say that one of us should ask the other out and w/e, but then about 2-3 weeks ago he asked me if him and this other girl would make a good couple and if he should ask her out, all i could say was ".. do you like her?"(dumb question i know all i could think of in the moment) and he said yes. and that was that.. and i guess i have to just deal, but as the years go on i like him more and more, and i love him to death*as a brother,nd mabe a lil more* , in the end of it all i really just want him to be happy(i know it sounds cheesy)but when ever he's around me his hands are always somwhere on me, and his tickle me constantly, and i loved that! but now he has a girl friend,somone who i used to be friends with, and i know its not real nice/proper or me or him to continue to act like that, im just really confused about his feelings for me and ever since he went out with her, he's stoped talking to me. and it really hurts..
-Hurt and confused-
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yea i'm a guy about to answer..he probably thinks you don't feel the way you say, because you never told him..let him know that you can satisfy him, and when you asked him if he likes her it's only normal for a friend to ask questions like that... that's sorta messed up that he stopped talking to you but you should go up to him and ask why are things different..and if it makes it confusing, imagine the situation as if he liked you and you went out with sumone..and totally forgot about another friend because of the time being spent with ur b/f....
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I think that your best shot here is to tell the guy that you like how you feel. Alot of times guys will go out with/talk about other girls to get them to notice you. I know it sounds weird but it's true.
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I'm sorry but it sounds like the guy has made his choice. He stoped talking to you because he knew the way he delt with you (all the closeness and touching) wasn't right if he has a girlfriend and you knew it too.
He is trying to do the best thing by not stringing you along. For now call him up and say you miss his friendship and know that you can't be all physical and flirting but still wanna hang out with him. Accept his relationship and get close with other guys too, you never know what you might find.
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Okay well this is a tuffy. I am sure everything seems so confusing right now. I would be thinking "Do I like him enough to maybe lose a friend?" Well if you do, confront him about how you feel. If you want help on what to say to him you can IM me at (AIM) Advice4You04. Hope everything works out for you. Good Luck.
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You see, us guys, we don't pay attention really long. You should probably make the shorter version.
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awww, its sweet that you want him 2 b happy and that you are close to him(he has a good friend). You should confront him on his own and ask him what he realy thinks of you and why he has stopped talking to you. tell him how you feel and that he is confusing you. If hes your friend he should listen to you.
Best of luck xxx
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im thinking...ASK THE DUDE OUT, if he is willing to ask you those corney questions then he probably wants to you knows whats....before he becomes really close to the other girl you should tell him how you feel maybe even ask him out if you want to . . .***glad2B@yoursevice***
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