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ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like..and i talk to him online a lot and tells me im really pretty and stuff..and i think he's really hott but i dont know what to say back to him? because instead of telling me im hott he says that im pretty and beautiful and stuff which i really like because its not insensitive like saying im hott is..so whats a sweet way to tell him he's "hott" or fine or whatever?? (link)
basically say he's handsome..i'm a guy..so i hear these things a couple times...the main word i hear girls say is HANDSOME


I've known my best guy friend for 3 years, since 5th grade,and him and i are really "close" and at times can get really touchy, but we've never kiss, or anything like that, he acts like he likes me,and wants to ask me me out but can't,so trys to give me hints and ask's me interesting questions like" are you afraid of a boy kissing you?"or" how many guys have you made out with?" and all of our mutual friends say that one of us should ask the other out and w/e, but then about 2-3 weeks ago he asked me if him and this other girl would make a good couple and if he should ask her out, all i could say was ".. do you like her?"(dumb question i know all i could think of in the moment) and he said yes. and that was that.. and i guess i have to just deal, but as the years go on i like him more and more, and i love him to death*as a brother,nd mabe a lil more* , in the end of it all i really just want him to be happy(i know it sounds cheesy)but when ever he's around me his hands are always somwhere on me, and his tickle me constantly, and i loved that! but now he has a girl friend,somone who i used to be friends with, and i know its not real nice/proper or me or him to continue to act like that, im just really confused about his feelings for me and ever since he went out with her, he's stoped talking to me. and it really hurts..
-Hurt and confused- (link)
yea i'm a guy about to answer..he probably thinks you don't feel the way you say, because you never told him..let him know that you can satisfy him, and when you asked him if he likes her it's only normal for a friend to ask questions like that... that's sorta messed up that he stopped talking to you but you should go up to him and ask why are things different..and if it makes it confusing, imagine the situation as if he liked you and you went out with sumone..and totally forgot about another friend because of the time being spent with ur b/f....


Okay. Here's a little background info. Okay. Me and this kid named, lets just say "Mark" went out for about 5 months. We talked on the phone everyday, and hung out almost everyday. I was soo in love with him. But then we broke up a couple weeks ago. But I really regret it. We talk sometimes now, but I really want to go back out with him again. I miss him soo much. We went to some party last night, and he told my two best friends that he still liked me. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know. I'm just really shy about telling people how I feel.

Here's my question.

1. Should I tell him how I feel? If yes, what should I say?

I rate high!! But please, I just need advice. Thanksss bunches.

Heart-broken and in love (link)
you should tell him how you feel..if he told your two best friends and your bestfriends are true to their word, then it's real. You should tell him and see what happens, do it before it's too late, and u lost ur chance to be happy again...


i was in love once. with my ex bf of over a year. we broke up cause i found out he cheated on me. well its been 4 months since we broke up. and every bf ive had i compare to him and i cant let him go. we were SO close and i was so comfortable around him. well weve been hanging out lately. and i still get butterflies so much and i love being around him. we were at my house last night and he started holding my hand. and we just talked about how things used to be with us and all our little inside jokes and stuff. i dont know how to tell him i want him back. cause i do. and i know i shouldnt but everyone makes mistakes and i really love him. and my parents love him..and his parents love me..its just perfect..help..what do i tell him without sounding all weird?? (link)
it's normal not to forget your first love, but if he isn't then there's really something..come on were all humans people change we all deserve a secon chance..i think he deserves a second chance...it's not weird to express how you feel, if he thinks it's weird then theres sumthin wrong..but you should never hid your feelings especially if a connection between you two is still strong. It's rare that your families get along so make it worth sumthin,


(15/f) Ok when ever I like a guy, I always want to spend time with him and talk on the phone and stuff like that but when I end up dating them all I want them to do is leave me alone and I never want to spend time with them. Am I just tired of them or what? (link)
your not tired of boys..ur only 15, what your being honestly is selfish..you want guys to beg on their knees..i kid you not..i had a girl do the exact same thing..dont' mess peoples feelings cuz one day ur gonna meet up with sum1 who will do the same back and you will then see how it feels to wanna be with someone..don't be interested in anyone if your gonna show disrespect..


Ok...goin out wit dis guy he is just turned 16 and i have bin 14 for a couple of months we have bin together for a while, he is so spesh i had my first kiss with him and he told me he didnt care if i was rubbish and sed help me, but after he was so mazin, nw we kiss all da time and are crazy bout eachova, but my parents r so phyco, well if they found out they wld FLIP MEGORLY!! i duno wt 2 sy 2 dem, hw cn i break it 2 dem 2 let them knw we r seroise n wld never have sex underage coz he isnt like dat n evry bad time iv had he has bin there...i am like my dads little princess..and wen my mum found out i was txtin a 16 yr old she fliped imagine wt she wld do if i told her!!PLEASE HELP I BEG OF YOU!! I JUST WNT A GIRLY CHAT WITH MY MUM BUT I DUNO HOW!!! ITS AWKWARD SHE HATES ME!! I WNA TELL HER BOUT MY BF!!! Plz help xx upset girl xx (link)
you know age is a number and if your mother and father can't accept the fact that your happy and the only way to stay happy is to stay with him then you need to do sumthin about it..parents should want their kids to be happy not sad...i know a situation like this but the age is not different. you need to step up and stand up..let your parents meet him let them see for themselves what kind of a person he is..


13/f


hey i just really want a guy. im attractive and pretty popular but i cant get a guy! im in 7th grade.. ive asked out a couple of guys in 8th and they automatically say no because i think they think its a joke. one time i gave a guy a note saying it wasnt a joke and he never wrote back.. i guess he wasnt interested but idk what to do! idk how to apporach a guy that i dont know, and want to go out. i've had boyfriends before and all but its been real hard lately. could you help me please? i rate 5 on anything that answers. ~thanks~ (link)
You know I don't mean to be hurtful, but it's better to hear the truth and get hurt than to lie and feel the pain later. Your in the seventh grade, concentrate on school! You don't just go up to a guy who you dont know and ask for a relationship, you don't just want any guy, you should want a special guy. TO let you know i'm a male 16 years old, but i know how things go both ways. You want someone who will treat you right, and give you things you want, maybe not physically give you everything but the things that should exist in a relationship. Find the right one, not the cute one,

16/m


I really like this guy and we went out about a month ago but i still really really like him. He is still sweet too me and he still says he love me like he say "love ya" at the end of most e-mail. We talk all the time on the computer but he never calls me. but he likes another girl in a town about 30-50 miles away from ours. He is still single and so am i.. what do i do.. should i get over him and be just friends or try when school starts? please help me. thanks so much (link)
I think that you two should talk it out and figure out why the separation. There should still be that love connection because of the sweetness and positive communication between you two. Your both single, maybe he too is thinking about what he should do. It's really up to you on how you should pursue it. It isn't us who answer your questions to decided what you should do, we are only here to guide you through your difficult situations. Follow your heart, but at the same time listen to your self, don't be a fool.




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