Hey! My name is Candace... um i love to help people with here problems!! so if u need anything just let me know! Love Always ``Candy
Gender: Female
Age: 13
Member Since: July 14, 2005
Answers: 25
Last Update: August 17, 2005
Visitors: 1633
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I dont think you should be telling 13 year old girls that they are old enough to have sex... they arent... thats not true... you dont even know what you want when you're 13... its obvious that you are not mature enough to be giving all these other people advice. Can you imagine what their parents would say if they read your site?... It's unnecessary... and they arent old enough to decide about having sex. I realize that you're 13 too and thats just to young. I know that what I say is probably not going to affect the horrible adive that you're giving these people... but this is just my opinion. None of the people that are older then you approve of the advice you're giving out. You really should re-think what you're telling people. And i mean that in the nicest way possible. But its just not something that they need to be making their hobby as a 13 year old. Keep in mind im not telling you to wait until marriage... just older then 13. (link)
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dont tell me what i can tell!! it was a person i knew durr thats why i told them that and they actually older then 13 they just said that so mind ur own buisness
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Hey my name is Ashley and I weigh 115 pounds well im only in the 8th grade and people pick on me but I cant get it through there head that it is mostly mustle becausen I run and play softball and stuff like that....wehat should I do....I mean I have like a six pack and I have mustles but they still pick (link)
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Hey Ashley,
thats a good weight at 8th grade... babe you shoudlnt worry about them your in shape and you work out!! So just find something to pick on them haha!! But just dont worry about them!!
Love always,
Candii
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omg i was just thinkin today what if i get raped i mean it happens to most teenage gurls what should i do?? (link)
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Hey...haha i never really thought about it..it dont really happen to many people but i mean you might need to get some pepperspray or something... but has someone been trying to like rape you or something?!?! But just dont worry about this stuff
love always,
candii
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was up?? my name is Catlin I have never had sex before but i want to but i dont want kidds going around but then im sceard the rubber might tear what should i do??
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Catlin,
hey if you wanna have sex than just have sex!! your probally old enough to decide!! And if you dont tell anyone about it than kids wont go around telling people!! And just wear protection and dont worry about it tearing!! Have fun!!
Love Always,
candii
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Hey Candii well Im having problems bad well my "LOVER" is acting like a jerk 1 day he is my friend the next he is ohh baby baby i love you and then the next day he says fnck you and loose my didgets but then he will be callin me back .....what should I do??? I mean I love him to death but then he blames everything on me like me and him were sopose to do some things then he said well it was your fault that we didnt well it want it was him friends and they are getting on my nerves!!!!!! and me and my "LOVER" talk to night and he like totally blamed things on me that didnt happen and I like got a bad additude with him because its kinda sorta my time of the month again and that is part of the reason.....well can you help me?? Love,
Peanut (link)
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Hey Peanut,
i think that you should dump this guy if he is acting like a jerk!! because he shouldnt treat you bad and lie to you and be like that!! You need a real guy!! So just tell him straight up!! I mean you can get a great guy!! And every girl goes threw there months( haha u know ) and if this guy doesnt understand then bump with him haha!! But have fun
love always,
candii
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I have this friend who likes me but I like another girl. I want her to know that without her felling bad so can you help?
from Pola_Bear (link)
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Hey pola Bear,
umm if you dont like your friend and you like another girl just be like im sorry but i have feelings for someone else..i mean maybe sometime later..or something like that ya know!! But goodluck!! Have Fun!!
Love Always,
candy
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Hey its KiKi again,
Ok I have this ex friend that I wanna b friends w/ again but i dont kno if i can trust her!! I mean she is tryin 2 change again *&* im lk the only 1 that believes in her!! I told her that im here 4 her *&* if she needs 2 talk 2 me we can but idk! Its hard 2 build trust again.... what should i do?? (link)
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KiKi,
hey darlin.. well it depends in what kinda change!! Well thats good that you believe in her. i mean yall should become friends .. cause you seem like a great friend.. but i mean you dont have to tell her anything big i mean if you cant really trust this person!! And tell her if whatever she has done bad before and if she does it again than yall cant be friends cause you cant trust her that good... well have fun
love always,
candy
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Hey..um..see like i have like this friend..who totally thinks that she is hott..but shes not..well this girl isn't really a friend.She thinks all the boyz like her and she is wrong.All they do is talk about how she has no butt..and she stuffs her bra..and even one boy said that he fingerd her and she stunk..i believe that to.And i just wanted to know that if me and my friend Debra should tell this girl..so..like write back as soon as possible..thanx babydoll..Rachel..
or u can i.m. me on PreppyBaby4u16 (link)
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Hey!! Well get this girl straight! Tell her wassup!! Tell her she aint hott and that the guys talk junk about her behind her back!!I mean if your not really that girls friend than just tell her!! But have fun!!
Love Always,
Cmk
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Candy,
My name is KiKi & I need help on my luv life! Ok I rly lk this boi & I go w/ him but c we never talk *&* I never c him but on Fridays durin the summer. So I mean is there a point in goin w/ him? I rly lk him & I broke his heart b4 & i dont want 2 do it again! Wut do I do?? I c him durin skool but wut do I do durin the summer?? (link)
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KiKi,
Hey chick...well i mean you never talk to him?? and you dont get to see him but on fridays??In my point of view.. well theres alot of guys out there that probally like you and i mean your only seeing this guy one day a week? Your kinda not having fun..ya know haha...But just do what's best for you.. I mean summer is almost over... but theres a lot more of guys so you never see and talk to him so you are kinda wasting time ya know .. sorry to say that.. but do whats best!! goodluck
love always,
candy
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Ok I have this friend and all the guys say she has no butt what so ever and they always pick on her about it behind her back and they also say she is kind of smelly Do u think i should tell her what all they are saying...I really need help on this one i mean i dont want to hurt her feelins but....i also think she should know (link)
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Hey!! Look what there saying is probally not true! But i mean still you should tell her because you want to be a good friend! So just tell her so this will get off your mind.. but i mean just be with your friend.. stick up for her(if you want) But let her know... goodluck telling her
Love Always,
candy
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Hey Chick...well anywayz there is this guy I like or what ever and everything but me and him are gonna do stuff or what ever...well I mean SHOULD I swollow?? I mean every body says it is romantic to but i dont know well like do you think about thigs that could happen like what if the rubber tares and what will happen if the white yucky stuff like gets in my under ware and it like shows?? I mean I want to do stuff so bad but when I get there I like FREEZE or what ever and get sceard well this time im going to face up and grow up ok well sne d me 1 back luv ya like a sister,
April~Danielle (link)
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Hey Danielle....well ummm you shouldnt be scared about when you want to have sex...your probally old enough to decide! But dont freeze i mean some people are scared there first time and there some people are excited! But dont worry about the rubber just dont even think about that.. i mean just say to your self i hope i dont get pregnant!! But i mean you can always throw the underwear away haha i mean if you want to do that to just be safe about this stuff ya know .. haha but i mean just be grown up ya know but anyways IM me at countrybooty6410 okay...
love always,
cmk!
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I have dark brown eyes, somewhat olive/tan skin, and medium brown hair with honey blonde highlights. My hair is about 8 inches past my shoulders with long layers. If anyone could suggest hair styles (down preferred) and makeup looks for the first day of school...or just anyday, I would be so grateful! I want a sexy flirty look for back to school, please. Thank you!
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Hey!! um you could straighten your hair..or either wet your hair and like put gel in your hands and make your hair curly!! So that shines it up...and then for the makeup i mean you lets say theres some light pink eye shadow i mean its really glittery you can put that on and then put some eye liner on but not on the top.. not to much ya know.. but you will be shinnin haha.. but goodluck
lots of love,
cmk
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hey how are you...i have a problem with jocks picking on me. i weigh about 100 lbs. and im in the 10th grade. i mean i just dont understand why they have to do that can u tell me PLEeZ (link)
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Hey chick..im doing good... ummm there picking on you?? i dont see why.. Maybe there picking on you to get your attention..maybe they like you... but your skinny for only 10th grade.. eat girl haha... thats all i got .. i mean is there more to this? just let me know if you need ANYTHING!!! love ya chick...
--cmk--
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OK there is this guy who i like and he likes me and everything but Friday me and him are gonna do something like all the way and mess well should I?? I mean I want to so bad because me and him went out for along time like last year and were plannin to do stuff but something happend and everything.....But see im on 13 years old and he is bout to be 16 but anywayz can you help me??.....please dont tell anyone about this (link)
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hey chick...well i just think that you should do it if you want to and everything and i mean just wear protection haha cause we dont want no lil babys haha but ya know what i mean but i mean just do what you feel like you should do... yes actually your old enough to make the decision so if he wants to then go for it!! have fun!!
love ... cmk
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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone? (link)
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Hey chick...umm its normal to not tell your dad that you love him but its good to say it because you know one day maybe he wont be here .. so share moments share life .. lol.. but you should if you want to.... goodluck
love always,
cmk
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hi um me and my bf were making out and his bro walked in on us(btw he was wearing a towel!!)..we were kinda lying on the couch makin out and he came in and just stood there and kinda started to say something and then just ran out...now every time i see him he just stammers and walks away- i asked some of my friends about it and they told me that he has a crush on me...which i dont think is true but it would kinda explain all the weird behaivior...do you think he likes me or do you just think it was weird for him to see his bro making out with someone? oh and now my bf wont kiss me when were @ his house(which is where we are a lot) cuz he says that he dosnt want another "incident...help...i rate high... (link)
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Hey Girl...um...i think your boyfriend brother is trying to break yall up and then he is gonna try to go with you to make your boyfriend mad!! i know what you been threw! But just tell your boyfriend that his brother is trying to just make him mad so yall just go along with what yall are doing!!! Yall dont have to stop making out for your boyfriends brother!! And if yall can then just lock the doors or something...but dont worry about your boyfriends brother!! But hope everything goes good!!
Love always,
xox-cmk-xox
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I have a social to go to soon, and I was wondering if someone can give me a couple websites or stores with really nice dresses. I don't mean prom dresses, but like a nice strapless black dress. Thanks (link)
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Girl.. go to the mall!! all the stores... umm goodies, belks, sears anyways . umm you can go to any stores.. rainbow? anywhere!
Hope you have fun at your social
xox-cmk-xox
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hey im haveing a promblem. i really want to kiss my g/f but when we are alone i just stiff up and my head gets full of ?.so wat should i do.imean she said she wants to to so wat should i do. (link)
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Hey!! umm you want to kiss so i mean say if ur alone at the movies i mean just start to hold her hand and just lean over and french kiss her and then i mean you can move on threw the night..but i mean i was nervious my first kiss but everything will be okay when you just get it done with..i mean just take your time!! everythings okay!!
Good luck with the kiss!!
Love always... xox-cmk-xox
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I was wondering if anyone knew the name of the song that plays on the movie: "The Girl Next Door" when they kiss for the first time.... (link)
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im sailing away...
``Love... Cmk!
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This guy i reali lyke emailed me sayin we must meet up coz we need to catch up and that he reali wants to meet .. but then he had to cancel and he showed his mate all the emails i had sent him and he acts as if there iz nuthing wrong. and then he emails me sayin we will deffo meet. is he just trying to get me worked up and then reject me and use it as a joke to show his mates? hes confusing! (link)
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Hey Chick!! look srry to say this but yea he is just gettin you worked up!! Because if he is gonna cancel on you all the time and show his mates then he is using you! So u know you can do better!! but if you really wanna get him then just play along.. .like make up things!! :-D
Love Always,
CMK
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