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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
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FIANCE?!?!?!?!? I can understand being madly in love with someone I was. We were in love for 3 years. He was thinking of proposing but he never did because he knew that I wasnt ready. If you are ready that is cool but I think you should take a step back a relax. Marriage is a big thing. But hey, if you are ready that is awsome. I think that you should get married but the fighting.... I know this might be hard but swallow your pride and stand down a few times let him win. Go okay your right. It calms down the fighting. It may be hard but if you love him let him win the argument. It will cool things down. Then write in a diary or a journal about it. Brainstorm ways to think about it. After a week or two go back and think about what happened. Write down ways you think you can prevent it next time. Good Luck.
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ok well this might be long but please stay with me.
in the beginning of last year i made a knew friend. he was popular and so funny. we got close.and then at the end we got in a argument about the stupidest thing. and now he hates me and even if i tell him sorry it doesnt even work. and hes just so mean to me like always talking behide my back and i cant stand it cause i never talk about him.and like he'll even comment my myspace pictures and go EWW or something and if im in my friends he'll do the same thing cause im friends with a alot of people who he is friends with except for some and like i cant delete the comment either =[ and its not like im ugly, im really not. like i had boyfriends and i have alot of friends and now like he is turning everyone against me and when i try and talk to him .. like you just cant..hes just so friggin mean and i dont kno wat to do. like hes close with my friends and all and when he hangs out with them and im invited i wont go just cause i kno how mean he'll be to me and its embrassing.
please help..and please dont leave mean advice..i hate when people do that and i already had that done to me on myspac =[
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I am sorry that you have had bad advice left for you. But I have had this problem before. He is being mean because of a stupid fight that is reasonable.... guys tend to get mad over stupid things. But when he says mean stuff just go yeah sure whatever you say. For instance if he says your ugly go yeah sure whatever tell that to my boyfriends. If he calls you fat go yeah so what food is my best friend. If you talk about your self you begin to either think that but the thing is keep your self esteem high. If you know that what he is saying isnt true than just think that to your self. You are doing the right thing by not talking back. If you admit to things he begins to run out of things because it isnt funny anymore. It loses the fun and eventually he stops talking. But if he doesnt stop then just tell him in front of everyone. You are being me and leave me alone I didnt do anything to you. And walk away.
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Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him. (link)
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Well I dont know if you lost him or not. But stop by his house one day a have a talk or call him or something. Talk to him about. Tell him that you arent ready for it but when you are (if you feel this way about him) you would concider it. But if you dont feel ready at all tell him that you dont feel ready yet and your not even thinking about it.
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What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world? (link)
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To make me feel special I dont need much. I mean for a guy to get my attention he has to do something out of the ordinary, or be different. Not so much look different but act different than the others. He can be the best but not brag about it or even talk about it. When he sees me give me a hug and talk for a little. When he is at practice as he runs his laps to try and talk while he is running. When he is standing with all the popular people and the girls are all over him to just stop talking to them for a mintue and talk to me. To joke around with me and have fun. I dont need to feel special because I know if he is taking his time to talk to me that I am special
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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Well first off being Wiccan is really amazing. I am a wiccan myself. I think that you shouldnt tell your mom bluntly that you are a wiccan. It took my mom a while to adjust to the fact. You should leave your mom suttle but not so obvious hints. Like a book or something out by "accident". Let her catch on then when she questions you tell her the truth. I suggest a conversation such as Yes mom I am a wiccan. I know that you are a conservative Christian but I like who I am. I dont think that it is fair that I cannot see my boyfriend because of his beliefs. Isnt it true that people should be tolerate of others beliefs? Let her think about everything and try to keep calm.
If you want to tell her straight on. Maybe you should prepare a small speech with reasons on why she should be tolerate and why you have the right to see your boyfriend and everything.
Good Luck!
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Hi umm i need a little advice i like these to boys but they r best friends ther names r Jimmie and Elijah. Jimmie is cuter but Elijah is more my type which one should i go wit hwhen school starts because they both like me. what should i do
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Well, if you like Elijah you should let Jimmie know and not let there be any chance for a misunderstanding. But dont be mean about it. Try to consider his feelings in the most sensitive way possible. Also a relationship isnt always based on looks. So try making a pro and con list for both of them.
Good Luck....
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Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f
One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!
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Well, if he likes you and you like him that is great. If he was making a big deal out of you knowing maybe that is a hint that he wants to move foward to form a relationship. You should definatly talk to him. I dont recommend online because the conversations can be edited or fowarded, but talking to him on the phone or better in person. Confront him. You could start casual and move up to the point.
I like you and I know you like me. I like you because of..... whatever reasons you have. I dont know why you like me, but I would like to know. Then see how it goes from there. Talk it out.
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