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Did I loose him?
Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him. <3 In the beginnging he put his arm around me. Then he started looking down at me. I looked at him. And we started making out for 5 minutes. Then we started watching the movie again. After the movie we went to a Diner with a bunch of other friends. And he whispered in my ear when we were sitting down, "Come to my house after." I looked at him and nodded. So, me and him said bye to everyone when they walked home. Then we held hands as we were walking to his house. None of his parents were home. I followed him up to his room, and he sat on his bed. So I sat next to him. He looked at me and said, "Would you ever go 3rd base, or home with me?" And, I looked at him and said.. I don't know? And he's like okay? And he's like okay I'm tired. Bye. And I said bye, love you. And he just shut his light off and went to bed, and didn't say anything. Ever since then, he has't called me or anything. What should I do? Did I loose him? =(
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i would just talk to him about it and ask. or fuck his little cock what ever thing floats your boat lady...
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good question did you loose him? should you have lost him? i mean thats great and all that he asked you and you didnt just get "lost in a moment". He has to respect that. i mean would he want you to do that with another guy?
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He probably expected a little more to happen when you went to his house. Maybe you should talk with him and see what's up. If he keeps on pressuring you or just talking about it, then definitely dump him, because that means he's just using you. But if he really cares about you, he should respect your decision. Good luck.
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Well I dont know if you lost him or not. But stop by his house one day a have a talk or call him or something. Talk to him about. Tell him that you arent ready for it but when you are (if you feel this way about him) you would concider it. But if you dont feel ready at all tell him that you dont feel ready yet and your not even thinking about it.
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He just wanted it.
Be glad he left now, before anything happened.
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He wants sex. You said no. That's all he wanted. Doesn't care about you or your feelings...only his. I think you can do a lot better than him. :)
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When he said "Come to my house" did you think you guys weren't going to do anything sexual? and just hangout and kiss..and were u suprised that he asked that. It sounds like he just wants sex..Dont rush yourself into anything that you're not ready for, because you will regret it. Maybe he hadn't called or said i love you because he was disspointed..maybe you should call him ask him about it, or tell him what you think.. I dont think you lost him.. but i do think you need to loose him..<3 He treated you really low.
Hope i helped;)
xO0x_Jillian<3
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sorry but i think he jus wants toget some...i think unless u had a tight relationship its pretty dead...sorry best wishes for the future
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:sigh: he just wanted to get in your pants. if he doesnt like you after you arent sure if you wanna do anything like that then hes only there for one thing. sorry if thats disappointing to you. <3
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It sounds to me like he was wanting you to go farther than you're comfortable with and since you wouldn't, he didn't want to continue the relationship. Sex is a very personal choice, something each person has to make for theirselves. I applaud you for having the strength to say you didn't know rather than going for it because he wanted to.
If you have a strong relationship and he truly loves you, he'll respect your decision to wait on sex. Don't feel bad thinking you led him on. You had no way to know that he was wanting to go farther since you had only made out before.
I know it's hard but stand strong and don't have sex until you're ready. A true loving boyfriend will wait until you're ready and not try to blackmail you into it.
Good luck and best wishes.
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Well sweetie, I hate to sound mean, but you probably gave him the wrong idea. As soon as he whispered in your ear about going home with him you should have known what was up. Since he is a guy, fooling around was exactly what he was thinking. But then you agreed to go back with him to an empty house, went to his room, and sat on his bed. If I were him I would have been expecting it too...I can see why he was a bit frustrated. If you guys had a good foundation for a relationship, I'm sure it'll all blow over soon enough. I'm also sure that he's preeeetty into you. I would just give it some time.
I'm really not trying to be mean...thats just my honest opinion.
-SXL7
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I think he is just looking for sex. If yoou continue dating him and get to a point where you have sex with him, i think he will just dump you after you have sex (if it evr happens)
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wow, that was really mean and disrespectful of him. if your sure you love him but you dont want to have sex then here is my advice. call him up and tell him that you love him but your just not ready for anything like that yet. if he really cares about you then he should understand. hope it helped you out and i hope you guys stay together : ).
♥ cookierat123
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He's a dickhead. Dump him, he's being an ass because you weren't sure if you wanted to have sex with him. Anyone who actually respected you would understand and react differently. Don't be a push over. This isn't a nice guy.
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