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I believe in staying anonymous. I want people to be able to ask me ANYTHING without being ashamed or scared. I want to be able to answer the same way. I'm pretty good at thinking "out of the box" and I can find the positive side of most situations. I started this column because I truely LOVE helping people. I'd like to think I'm pretty good at it as well. But as a fair warning, I won't tell you what you want to hear, I'll tell you what needs to be said. In the nicest way possible of course. :) I really do care.
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are there any products that have been found to be both safe and
effective in treating excessive underarm perspiration? (link)
Certain Dri (comes in a white box, right with all the other deodorants in the store)

being a girl, i was always really self-consious about having sweatmarks on my shirts and stuff and i always felt like i "sweat like a man" lol. but yeah Certain Dri is wonderful. it's a little expesive...but totally worth it. it's like roll on deodorant but really liquidy. you put it on at night right before bedtime..it's so effective you almost don't even need deodorant the next day (not that i reccomend that)teehee. just try it!.


Ok this girl at my school has an std. she thinks nobody knows about it but obviously ppl found out if i know. Well the thing is this guy broke up with her and is now dating one of my friends. well if the chick w/std and him did anything then he might have it and he could pass it to my friend. but heres the thing He doesnt know that she had an std! i reallly want to tell him bcuz i soo dont want my friend to get one from him [if he has one] so should i tell or no?
sorry its long i rate 5's! (link)
sounds like a crappy rumor to me...with everyone in school knowing about it, but not a guy she dated?

make sure you check your facts before you do anything big.


Alright, I'm 17/m and I shaved my chest and stomach (left the happy trail, as girls call it, there).

The problem is I have red bumps now because I've irritated my skin. The bumps have been there for over a month.

I'm sure they'd go away if I stopped shaving, but I'm looking for an alternative. (link)
forget nair...it burns, it's uncomfortable..just forget it.

veet is really good though (same idea as nair, but better). it's easy, fairly fast, and doesn't hurt at all. the only downside is that it can smell like burning hair and that's a little gross...it's not that bad or anything.

also, since you do have sensitive skin you should invest in a really good moisturizer for after shaving or whatever else you decide to do. (forget the baby oil, think good lotion - like with vitamin e)

oh. and one last thing. thanks for leaving the happy trail. that's gotta be one of the sexiest parts on a man's body.


i was typeing on my computer and i hit a key and it made all the print 5X's bigger. so if i go on a website all their print is much bigger than it should be . how can i undo this ? (link)
if you have a mouse with the scroll wheel on it (between the left and right click buttons or whatever) hold down the Ctrl key and scroll up and down..that changes the font size on the sites.


I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I want to get him something great for xmas and I want to make him some stuff to. What can I do (take him somewhere or something), give him, and make him? Give me as many ideas that you can! *by the way he is a musician (guitar bass and keyboards) and he loves video games and stuff for PSP and DS if that helps* Thanks in advance! (link)
I'd go for burning a CD with a bunch of songs that are special to you or him individually, as well as songs that mean a lot to you as a couple. It's not very expensive, it's personal, and since he's a musician, it would probably mean even more to him than the average guy. If you really wanna go all out, put in an a basket with a bunch of little things that are signifigant to your relationship (tickets from your first movie, or something). And/Or...a scrapbook with pictures of the two of you is always great. Just make it personal, that's what means the most.


I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO.... i dont have a shirt to match my jeans! help.... what color looks best with jeans... FASHION IS EVERYTHING! (link)
uhhhh. What doesn't look good with jeans?

unless they're like..I dunno purple or have some funky designing then I see no idea what the problem is...or what your idea of fashion is it. :-\


is there any way to well.. reduce the size of my butt? lol. im a really healthy weight but for some reason my butt is like big, and im not anorexic. cause when i wear a bikini the top fits perfect but my butts a lil big. ill take any advice. but dont say wear a diufferent size cause if u saw me you would know i need a smaller butt? any exercises.. etc? (link)
GAH! I wish I had that problem. Lucky Devil. haha anyway...yeah just do the exercises..runnings a good one.


Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him. (link)
Well sweetie, I hate to sound mean, but you probably gave him the wrong idea. As soon as he whispered in your ear about going home with him you should have known what was up. Since he is a guy, fooling around was exactly what he was thinking. But then you agreed to go back with him to an empty house, went to his room, and sat on his bed. If I were him I would have been expecting it too...I can see why he was a bit frustrated. If you guys had a good foundation for a relationship, I'm sure it'll all blow over soon enough. I'm also sure that he's preeeetty into you. I would just give it some time.

I'm really not trying to be mean...thats just my honest opinion.
-SXL7




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