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why does he have to be so friggin mean?!!?!!?
ok well this might be long but please stay with me.
in the beginning of last year i made a knew friend. he was popular and so funny. we got close.and then at the end we got in a argument about the stupidest thing. and now he hates me and even if i tell him sorry it doesnt even work. and hes just so mean to me like always talking behide my back and i cant stand it cause i never talk about him.and like he'll even comment my myspace pictures and go EWW or something and if im in my friends he'll do the same thing cause im friends with a alot of people who he is friends with except for some and like i cant delete the comment either =[ and its not like im ugly, im really not. like i had boyfriends and i have alot of friends and now like he is turning everyone against me and when i try and talk to him .. like you just cant..hes just so friggin mean and i dont kno wat to do. like hes close with my friends and all and when he hangs out with them and im invited i wont go just cause i kno how mean he'll be to me and its embrassing.
please help..and please dont leave mean advice..i hate when people do that and i already had that done to me on myspac =[
thanks<3
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First of all this kid is a jerk. He is immature and isn't worth your time if you were mature enough to say sorry in the first place. He wasn't ever a real friend is he's going to be like that. I say you go out, make out with his best friend and shove it in his face. Be ruthless, remember; you ALWAYS want what you can't have.
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A true friend would never trash you, especially behind your back. If a true friend had a problem with you, they would tell you face-to-face so you could work through the problem.
The best thing to do since he won't talk to you is just stay out of his way and ignore him. He'll get tired of the bs and games once he realizes you're not letting it affect you.
Talk to your friends. Be sure to let them know that you're not asking them to take sides, but to please not invite you and him to the same things. True friends, even if they're friends with both people, will do their best to 1) get him calmed down, and 2) not put either of you in a potentially embarassing or uncomfortable situation.
For abuse on your myspace, you can report it. The moderators take reports of abuse very seriously and will deal with the problem. The page for reporting abuse can be found below.
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Lastly, don't let this jerk get you down or ruin your friendships. Eventually he'll realize he's being childish and stop.
Good luck and best wishes.
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aww im sorry about the way hes acting to you thats really messed up
hes just probably doing that because he knows it was a stupid thing to fight about and maybe he doesnt want to admit it when he says something to you just ignore him
if you havent told him off already i think you should because you shoudlnt let him treat you like dirt
hope that helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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I am sorry that you have had bad advice left for you. But I have had this problem before. He is being mean because of a stupid fight that is reasonable.... guys tend to get mad over stupid things. But when he says mean stuff just go yeah sure whatever you say. For instance if he says your ugly go yeah sure whatever tell that to my boyfriends. If he calls you fat go yeah so what food is my best friend. If you talk about your self you begin to either think that but the thing is keep your self esteem high. If you know that what he is saying isnt true than just think that to your self. You are doing the right thing by not talking back. If you admit to things he begins to run out of things because it isnt funny anymore. It loses the fun and eventually he stops talking. But if he doesnt stop then just tell him in front of everyone. You are being me and leave me alone I didnt do anything to you. And walk away.
You can always talk to me in person if you want. If you have anymore questions or just want to tell me how things turn out you can. Or what you think of my advice. You can contact me.....
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this is pruff that popular people are just plain ass holes. dont waist your breath on this guy. he'll find out sooner or later that you're not there to hear him insalt you around his friends. he's probably just doing this to become more popular. i also had the same thing happen to me back in grade 6 she said the fucking shitiest things. but i fucking beat the shit out of her because of it. it could also be in his zodiac sigh. is he a sagitarius? well if he is inbox me please.
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you seem like you are in a tigt perdicament...and i no how that feels..but this is what i did....i pulled my friends aside and i talked with them saying like.....y does he hate me or everything he's saying is a lie. you want your freind to tell you everything that he says about you so that yu can tell her the truth if anything is a lie and you want her/ him to not tur against you. when he is hangin out with your freinds and you get invited...you need to go, and if he is being meen to you, you need to stand up for yourself and say you know what, i have had enough of this crap, you can say all you want about me but you cant make me feel in cofident of my self. jus because we got in to auguments about studip things does not give uyou the right to turn my friends agaist me. you can hate me all you want but if i had true freinds (likw i think they are) they would not turn agaist me. and then walk away!!!
he doesnt know what he is missing to be with a girl like you
have a great day
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