|
My Finace and I
Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
That's normal. Long term relationships are very tense and hard to deal with most of the time. He's probably missing you so bad that if one little thing you do like go out one night gets him mad because he cant go out with you. Considering you said FIANCE i'm thikning it's a pretty deep relationship. If he trusts you with all his heart, nothing bad can ever happen(unless you do something to ruin that trust). I'd say you try to avoid the negative energy weather the fight is going to be big or small. Try to make him laugh and be cute with him, this will help. I was in a long term relationship, it's definitley hard. But love conqors all in the end(:
I hope I helped(:
Good Luck.
]
the reason that you fight is because you are too young to be engaged. you are too young to have this kind of relationship. do you know what love is? i don't think so. he is older and therefore is going through different things than you right now. you and him are not suppose to do this...especially at the age you are. the fights are telling you something, you just have to figure out what. i am sorry that i am being blunt about this, but its true. i would definently think about this A LOT more.
]
FIANCE?!?!?!?!? I can understand being madly in love with someone I was. We were in love for 3 years. He was thinking of proposing but he never did because he knew that I wasnt ready. If you are ready that is cool but I think you should take a step back a relax. Marriage is a big thing. But hey, if you are ready that is awsome. I think that you should get married but the fighting.... I know this might be hard but swallow your pride and stand down a few times let him win. Go okay your right. It calms down the fighting. It may be hard but if you love him let him win the argument. It will cool things down. Then write in a diary or a journal about it. Brainstorm ways to think about it. After a week or two go back and think about what happened. Write down ways you think you can prevent it next time. Good Luck.
Let me know how it turned out. You can talk to me anytime.
Instant Messaging:
social reject 71
-OR-
sWeEtNsOuR61192
E-mail:
sWeEtNsOuR61192@yahoo.com
]
ok. your only 14. if you guys are in love with each other the whole engagement thing can wait. and as for yall fighting. its normal to fight soemtimes but ALL the time isnt healthy.i suggest you take a break from each other. if you come back and still care about him then its real love.
]
Maybe you should calm down on the talking it seem's maybe that there's to much connection right now and your both annoyed.Maybe just take a break from talking for awhile or something till you both notice the love you have for each other and it's silly to fight.
]
you are 14.. i dont thik you two are ready for this relationship perhaps yuo should tal to him about it
]
Sometimes its normal for couples to fight but its not good that you 2 are constantlly fighting. I mean theres nothing that we can say that would make you not fight anymore. So when you are arguing just stop first. I mean just dont argue anymore. Say you know what this is ridicoulous so I'm done here! Good luck with your marrige.. even tho you both are too young. ll ♥ ll
]
YOU ARE 14 AND GETTING MARRIED! WHAT IS WRONG WIT U?
About the fighting thing, don't talk every day you guys are proble getting sick of each other.
]
You are both so young, im not going to tell you that you got engaged too young or that you arent really in love because i know from personal experience that you can love at that age.
Your engagment is a sign of comitment, a huge comitment, and for it to work out and last forever which i know you really want then these fights have to stop.
You are both frustrated from being apart for so long and that can make you argue and get abit snappy with people but fighting as often as you do isnt good for your relationship. if it keeps happening then one of you will end up walking away because it gets too much.
Instead of arguing, talk things through rationaly and calmly just to keep tensions low and keep the peace. you dont need to shout at eachother and annoy eachother and make eachother angry, talk it through and come to a compromise, that way everyone happy.
]
I think you shouldn't get in to marrige but its up to you. Well fighting means you care about them so it is perfectly healthy. Well i am not to sure sorry but just talk to him and since you love him its healthy!!
]
wwwwoooowwwww your 14 and ur getting married?
]
fighting is healthy for a relationship, its not bad. but when you fight, talk about it.. try and leave all of the yelling and screaming out and also dont inslut, just talk about the problem thurrowly.. hope i helped<33
]
Every couple has its problems. Because you are so young you will probably have more problems than most. See a consular or every night before you go to bed list 10 nice things about eachother and 5 things about why you are glad you have met. Hope I Helped!
*!ClAiR!*
]
More Questions: |