hiya folks..ok so im young but im gud at giving advice esp on sport
i enjoy swimming spend 12hours of my life each week doing it so..yeah sports ma thang
i tend to get hyper and in my future want to take after my dad by going into law, so im thinking of going to the university in Charlotte North Carolina (America) i tend to have a few problems of my own though!!!... but im gd.. and ill always answer as truthfully as i can
Gender: Female
Location: Manchester England
Occupation: still have to go to school
Age: 14
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ok well i'm not really a gossip girl i'm 13 i dont have a boyfriend and all that stuff...i had never heard of masterbating(sorry i'm not sure how to spellit)until i got on this site. I completely froze when i saw what it was, i've been doing it since like first grade. Just one day it became an obsession, i was going to stop but decided not. I was thinking of talking about it with my mom becuase i have all those stretch marks and things...does anyone have advice?!? (link)
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It isnt bad at all, its a way that gurls explore themselves. Dont get yourself so worked up about it
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my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty? (link)
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What is your friend going on about? she has no idea at all!!.. being sluty is sleeping with loads of people i should know all my mates are sluts! they have skirts up their arse and they dont wear knickers so you see all... thats sluty!!
i wear low rise jeans and tight tops.. and its fine.. everyone where i live in Manchester dresses like that!
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless* (link)
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Its perfectly normal its happening to my friend at the moment! you just need to say to your dad that sometimes you want to have private moments with him .. no offence to your step mum and all and that you mean no offence. Sometime reasuring that you still really like your step myum will maybe help your father think that you still do have a connection with her and its just natural
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How can I get guys to like me....Im 13 and have never had a boyfirend...is that like abnormall? (link)
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certainly not!! it's totoally normal!! .. think you have till your about eighty to find a bf .. and ur only 13!! .. anyway i went out wid loadz of ppl in one year and got told i was slut over it.. so it's not always good to hve bf's just think you have your whole life.. and theres always a boy you know who likes you more than a friedn even though you dont now it.. and they dont think you feel the same. And i promice you as you get older you'll have loads of boys racing after you. Just wait
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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
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you are 14.. i dont thik you two are ready for this relationship perhaps yuo should tal to him about it
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Does anybody know any good songs by Oasis (the person that sings wonderwall) (link)
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yeah one is called "The importance of being Idol" and " A bell will ring" and also "let there be love"
all from there new album Dont believe the truth
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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do (link)
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your pernst dont hve to know.. most children do this.. i snuck out of the house saying i was going out with a mate to make out with my bf.. but this is your life not your parents and they may never find out
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I'm petrified of the dentist and I have an appointment tomorrow. Im getting a tooth filled. Ive always been scared, but I always end up walking out saying that wasnt so bad. I realize that the only pain I will feel is the novacaine needle. Is there a way I can be less scared? I know the fear is worse than the actual procedure but Im still terrified.
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lol actually in ten mins i hve a dentist apppointment andi hate dentists too! i jsut think to myself.. there is no pain and when its ova and done with my teeth will look amazing
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people are pressurising me into sex .. i want it to b 4 love not just for the sake of it!!! i dont know what to da i dont want to loose myself respect but my friends do it all the time even together and im the on left out (link)
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you should not have sex if you dont ewant it!! you dont have to do it for the sake of it!!!1 i believe iin having sex for love and if your friends are pressuring you.. if they really are your mates they wont actually pressure you any more.. ask them nicley to stop!!
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When we do our work in class, he eavesdrops and tells me and my friend to shut up because he can't concentrate...then sometimes, he looks at me and smiles and says "oh my god you guys" and then after class he WALKS with us...and he lets me push him down the stairs...kinda cruel yes...but i do it because I like him...=D does that mean he likes ME? or not...is he just being nice? And in class, we were in groups, and it was a trivia game for lots of extra credit, and I needed it..and at my table, i was facing him, vica versa...and when he saw I wanted to win...he told his team the wrong answer and then he looked at me and smiled...as my table dissed their table, I sat there smiling like an idiot at him...haha...funneh times...but like, he smiled BACK...HELP!!!
-Clueless- (link)
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he deffo lykes you!!! sometimes people can show their effection by physical actions ( pushing down the stairs) and letting you win was the biggest hint he cud probably have given you. This is deffo a relationship happening here!!!!!!!
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I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal? (link)
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yes,
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I have heard that you should try and reduce the amount of calories you eat gradually (like, one week go from 2000 to 1800, and then the next go to 1600, instead of going from 2000 to 1000) to encourage the body to burn fat and not protein from muscle. Is this true? (link)
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yeah!!!!
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i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help! (link)
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you need to use moistriser for your hair or even sirum this should stop the friz in some stors you can get heat proof stuff which stops ur hair getting hurt by da heat
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I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
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you shoudl keep with him!!!!! is there a local bus which goes down to his area or cane he give you a lift???
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okay. well i have been best friends with the same three people for 4 years now and we do everything together and i love them to death but now they have new friends and they will talk about plans right in my face and not invite me and so i do other things with my other friends but i cant help but get jelous. its like sometimes i dont want them to be happy unless there with me. I hate feeling this way. I hate being jelous, but i cant help it. Things have changed and i cant take it. I try to take my mind off it and do other things but none of my other friends are as close as they are. i cant just give up on out friendship. How do i stop the jelousy? and Should i tell them how i feel? cause they would probbaly laugh and get mad at me...
sincerely,
Sojelous (link)
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i had the same problem about 2 years ago, and now im having one of the best times with my bessie's!!! Try getting to know your mates friends and try and fit in with them!!!! you could end up with soem new bessies!!
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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????
Please help me?????
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this isn't an obsestion, you just have a very rare realtionship with ur bessie, 1 in 100 find their true bessie mate and it sounds like you have found her. Ithink that you are getting to paranoid, if your friend does like you the way you do to her then she will not go from you. Just relax and enjoy the company you are with
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Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy? (link)
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recently i have started to fancy a younger guy too! i went out with him and no one made fun of me, at first people were telling me i was too old but when they got to know him they liked him too! all my mates thought he was really kind and nice and we all became the best of mates. Your not stupid for wanting to go out with a guy below, when you are older it is quite likely that you may even marry a younger guy ( there are 6 years between my parents) so why should it make a matter now? The reason why girls go out with older boy's is because boy's start pubity later and don't get into gils till they are around 14 (as an average) so just because this other guy may be more adult doesn't mean you are stupid. There is nothing wrong it is perfectly normal
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I ADORE MY MOTHER! and i feel a little bit bad about writing this, but i think i should because i dont noe what to do anymore. let me begin... i go to an all girls school, and towards the end of last year and over the summer was when i really started meeting guys. so, the first times she would sit right next me and watch what i was saying. and she still duz that. she doesnt sit by me when im on the phone anymore, but this summer i was on the phone w/ my first love, she would sit there and listen to everything we said. but, she still sits by me when i'm online and i dont noe what to do. cuz, now its beginning 2 feel like a security to hav her there because i dont noe what to say to guys. and when im on the phone, i do! and she updates my profile and goes to places for quotes and puts them in my profile while im @ school and makes me invisible. and i dont even like the quotes sometimes. i've tried talking to her. and ive tried to get other people to talk 2 her... like my aunt, and a friend of mine. and when i tell her, "im gonna tell tia," she goes, i'm not afraid of ur aunt. and she duznt listen to my friend either! i dont noe what to do anymore. when i talk 2 her, she says she'll stop and then she doesn't. i cant change my passwords b/c she'll get mad. but, she's a single mom and i'm her only child. i understand that we're close, like best friends, but i'm 14 years old and i need a little privacy
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explain to your mum how as your getting older now you need your privacy and your own private love life. If you do change your password, then she may be angry at first but soon enough parents do get over it. Your mum has to realize that being a parent lets her look after you and love you but she doesn't live your life you do. just sit uour mum down and talk to her about what has been worrying you. Tell her you are v sorry and apologsie (parents love that) and tell her how you feel. Also if all your friends know what is happening to you then they will understand that the profile isn't yours and it isn't best to phone at your house/mobile your friends should understand and your mum might even forget about monitoring your calls and profile. Hope i helped :)
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
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yes it is it's like another version of having sex, just not as pleasurable and u can't get preganant so all round fun!!!!!
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Is there any good brand of masacra that anyone knows about that makes your eyelashes seem longer and doesn't look clumpy and flake under your eyes? Im currently using Maybelline mascara and by the time half the day is down some of it flakes and lands under my eyes and makes me look like I'm dead...which is not good. Can anyone help me? (link)
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i find all mascaras do this but as soon as i started using waterproof mascara it didnt seem to be as clumpy, just make sure you dont put loadz on!!
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