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Am I normal?


Question Posted Monday April 18 2005, 5:28 pm

I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal?

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o0xbrianna answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 3:06 pm:
Yea, it is a little young but nowadays everyone loses their virginity before they are 15. I think you were to young but, that is just my opinion!




-Brianna

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Poppsie answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:37 pm:
Yes it normal nowadays to lose your viginity lots of people lose at such a young age like 14, it may not be right because its kinda hard to think that you would be ready to have sex. Anyone that is lower than 14 its just not right you can definitly not be ready for sex, because its quite a big deal. You could of waited a bit longer to lose your viginty but you shouldnt worry its quite common to lose it a 14. Hope i helped.

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lilangelshan08 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 9:51 am:
honestly, i don't think that it is, i find it hard to believe that someone your age is ready for sex and believe me it's a HUGE thing. a lot of people will say that it's not right for someone to have sex before they are married. well i'm sorry but that's bullshit because with all the sex that we have in society it's hard to wait that long. but i also believe that a person should wait until they know everything about sex including the negatives to sex before having it. if you are fully educated on the subject then i don't see why it would be a big deal if not and you're not using protection then you should not be having sex at all. and if you haven't told your mom, and you still can't because you're afraid of what she'll say, then you are most certainly not ready

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piggy100 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 8:43 am:
yes it is normal for u to have already lost your virginity. why would you ask a question like that.

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helpathand answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 3:37 am:
yes,

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sunshine805 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:16 am:
Normal? There is no "normalness" in losing your virginity. If you mean,have most people lost their virginity by 14, I don't think so.
Hope I helped!
Ke

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truadvice answered Monday April 18 2005, 10:19 pm:
not really

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K2204 answered Monday April 18 2005, 9:04 pm:
it happens, but its not right, im against pre-marital sex. :)

Kelsa;)

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x3bEstOfmEx answered Monday April 18 2005, 7:50 pm:
lately it is normal but you shouldnt loose your virginity already im 14 too and im not goin to have sex so yea it is normal but you SHOULD NOT DO IT!!!!

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TheUsedRock92 answered Monday April 18 2005, 7:15 pm:
It isn't right, but the number of girls and guys having sex at a very young age is very high now. In this day and age it is normal unfortunatly. A woman or man should not loose their virginity until she or he is married. I'm not going to until im married but thats my choice. That was your choice and you should have waited for the right person. you cant put yourself down now because its already happened now just go on with your life.

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HananerBananers answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:48 pm:
Sure it's normal, but I don't agree that it's right. I'm one against premarital sex, but if you think that you and your boyfriend were ready, then, it's not as bad. 14 to me is a bit young but, it's really your choice. You already did it, so there's no way you can go back in time and change it, so that's all I can say.

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:36 pm:
do you want facts or opinion? in 2005 its normal is some places but where i live, i personally dont know anyone that has lost theirs and im 14 also. i love my bf but i dont plan on having sex until and if we get married. i friend of mine gave me part of their "talk" ..."theres a difference between fucking and love-making" so basically, i dont encourage it but i cant stop you so i hope u were safe. <3

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orphans answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:12 pm:
i dont know but i am 13 and i have lost mine

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honeybunch answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:08 pm:
it's not biblical, but in todays society totally normal. but i do not encourage it.

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icey0990 answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:05 pm:
This is 2005 and reality is..some teens have sex. people your age and little younger even have had sex so you are not the only one. I wouldnt say your abnormal..i would say your a bit young though. The past is over with so dont stress too much over it...
-melissa-

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therocketsummer answered Monday April 18 2005, 5:43 pm:
Normal? At this rate, yes it's kind of normal. The age of when you should have sex is getting lower and lower. I wouldn't have advised you losing it at 14 because you've got your whole life ahead of you, but you did. If you truely love this guy, stick with your whits because you've already done something that combines you emotionally. *steps off soap box*

I don't think you should have done it yet, maybe waited a year or so because what if that's all he wanted. That's probably not the case, but you know, just in case. Good luck in the future and be sure to use your heart and your head, they never lie.

-therocket&hearts;

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