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step mom
My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless*
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make a date and tell your dad that you miss having time with just him and your brother, you deserve it.
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having a new mom is always hard i know if my parents ever got split up id do anything i can to make their girlfriends and boyfriends hate them..bt sometimes you just got to give that person a chance yeah i know its hard but like think as if you where her she probly wants you to like her soo much just try to get to know her and if shes really that bad talk to your dad cause if you tell her that shes gonna tell you dad and youd most likly end up ina really aquward potion...so just give her a chance..see what happens
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tell your dad. talk to him and tell him that u dont like his wife very much because of what happened. ask him if you an dhim can just spend sum time together with just him and your bro.he will understand dont worry.hope i helped XoXo
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Don't talk to her about this talk to your dad. Your dad is married to her so you have to be civil to her regardless of your feelings. However, I don't think some alone time with your dad and brother is to much to ask. Simply tell him that since you don't get to see him all the time you guys would really like to have some time to have him all to yourself without the new wife. Make sure you don't make it sound as if you can't stand her...you just want some dad time. Even if it is only a few hours during your visit. :)
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Wow, that totally sucks. Try talking to your dad about it and just tell him that don't feel comfortable with her being there and you don't like her for what she did to your mom and family. Hopefully he'll respect what you have to say but if he doesn't then you can try telling her (in a nice way) so you don't hurt her feelings. No matter how much you don't like some one you still shouldn't hurt them, know what i mean?
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..Sit down with your dad and just tell him..Say dad i come to see you to spend time with you..not my step mom..but you..i dont feel confortable with her around and i dont want her around i dont mean to be rude..i just want to spend time with you and i dont really like her..and have him sit down and take with all of you guys..hope i helped`
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just ask if you can have alone time ... they wont say no . just go for it !
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Just tell your dad you'd like to talk. Then when you do just say "dad, can we just have 'us' time. Just hanging out with me and you and sometimes (your brothers name)." Most likely he'll say yes and that way you guys can just be together so you wont always have to be with your stepmom also.
HOPE I HELPED!
♥ THINKPINK
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just tell your dad how you feel its kind of the same way with me and my dad except he didn't marry my mom's best friend but i don't like his wife so you have to tell him that when its time time 4 yall to do things she doesn't have to be included and that she should find something else to do while you and your brother are spending time with your dad.
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ok, so even though my parents aren't divorced...i have many friends whos parents are, and i've given them advice on the same subject.
all you need to do is tell ur dad that you want to spend some quality time with him and your brother.
tell him that its not anything against your step-mom, and just explain to him how you feel.
then, maybe another time...you could try spending some time with just her. you could go shopping...or see a movie.
im sure that they will understand.
<333PEACE<333
hope i helped
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You just need to tell your dad that you arent very fond of your "stepmom" for what she did to your mom... You just need to be honest with your feelings... Just tell her that you want to spend time with your dad and your brother without her....
Hope This Helps... Good Luck..
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I know that this sounds easier than it is, but you just need to pull her aside and explain that you know she wants to bond with you all, but sometimes you just need some time alone with your bro and dad. She should back off a little, but if she doesn't, mention something to your dad about it.
Hope that helped!
~Bee~
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Its perfectly normal its happening to my friend at the moment! you just need to say to your dad that sometimes you want to have private moments with him .. no offence to your step mum and all and that you mean no offence. Sometime reasuring that you still really like your step myum will maybe help your father think that you still do have a connection with her and its just natural
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I think you need to talk to your dad about that one. I mean he obviously knows how to talk to her I mean geesh he got married to her. Tell your dad that it bugs you when you want to do things with only your dad, yourself, and your brother and that does not include on his wife. It bugs me because I never have alone time with my own father and I think I need that. And that your not trying to be rude but can you talk to your wife about this situation I would really appreciate that. Hope I helped. It's my opinion on what I would do just remember that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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well it sounds like you have socile problems with your family so try talkin to them im sure they love you enogh to listin :)
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