Member Since: July 26, 2005
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Last Update: August 10, 2005
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Okay well I have asked a question about jailbate before but I have another problem... See my luvr has a speech inpediment. And I don't notice about that any more but when he talks to my friends or someone who dunno him ppl juss give him a smile or ask him to repeat i feel awful about it but i wish i could love him up more to get rid of the pain and all the teasing. He doesnt deserve that. Is there anyway i can stand up or be more lovely?
Thanx your advice would rlly help me out =) ~steph (link)
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you should stand up for him your right its not right for people to do that to someone and you should tell them that there not so pefect either and just because he may sound or look diferent hes no diferent to god and thats all that matters and if they cant show kindness to a person as special as him then they are just heartless people that are trying to build thier ego up by putting him down and if countinue to be so rude to people thell end up alone and what goes around comes around god will give them what they deserve for their unkindness.
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my sis broke up with her bf last night and she is 21 and im 13 and i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better i really want to help her cuz im sure she would help me if something like that happened to me please help me (link)
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i have the same thing and you know what you can talk about anything random thats a happy talk make her laugh just let he know that you care trust me your the only person thats gonna make her feel better you her sister and she loves you and im sure you love her just talk about anything other than that or tell her that its ok and she shouldnt make her self soo upset over a guy... tell her shes stronger than that and ask her if she wants to do something like go somewhere ... if your her sister you know her the best out of anyone im 13 too and my sis is 18 almost the same as your problem and i always talk to her and she always feels better youll know what to say trust me.
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My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me? (link)
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dont ever let your self be pressured if you dont want to kiss him dont ..but dont just say you dont want to because hes not cute if you really dont want to then dont cause you want your first kiss to be soo special and its ok to wait and yeah he may want to but hes a guy and thats allll they want and if you dont like him anymore then tell him you just want to be friends and if says he doesnt want to be friends he obviously didnt like you so dont keep your feelings to yourself tell him how you feel.
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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money? (link)
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love is always more important than money and as long as you both are happy and in love what else do you need at least you still have food and stil have a home ... sometimes like and be hard sometimes realllly hard but thats what you have each other for to make life a tiny bit eaiser cause think about it money cant buy happyness but love can...
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless* (link)
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having a new mom is always hard i know if my parents ever got split up id do anything i can to make their girlfriends and boyfriends hate them..bt sometimes you just got to give that person a chance yeah i know its hard but like think as if you where her she probly wants you to like her soo much just try to get to know her and if shes really that bad talk to your dad cause if you tell her that shes gonna tell you dad and youd most likly end up ina really aquward potion...so just give her a chance..see what happens
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ok i no that this is not in the friendship categlorie but im really having a hard time trying to find out who i am ... like i change my mind alot about things i like and my friends and i want to be original and kool but i always seem mess up ok well i gotta go but all 5 ratings if you answer good! thanks
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you shouldnt try so hard to be something your not.. nobody really knows who they are thats what you have to find out by not trying to be anything else it may be hard but dont think about if your gonna look stupied everybod messes up like sometimes its even funny when people mess up and youll find it way eaiser to be your self than to be something your not...
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well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all (link)
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well if she ddi something to you, you shouldnt apoligize to her she should be apoligizing to you but you might want to give her a call and tell her that what she did hurt you and that you still wan to be friends and then she may apoligize to you..im a girl and sometimes we dont really like to apoligize first.
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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
thanks and advace (link)
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i know it may be hard but sometimes when you get a really bad friend you have to get ride of them and from what you said i dont think shes avery good friend to you so i think you should dump her and trust me you will make new and better friends!
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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do? (link)
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i have the same problem i think its cause i feel like they would say something like oh your a bad kisser or something but im sure if you find a guy you really like then you should kiss him cause like ive had chances too but i say no cause i know alls their gonna do is either dump me or tell everybody and then il be a "slut" but when you feel comfortable enough witha guy youll know and when that happens do it.
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It has been 2 weeks and 2 days and I still have my period. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need to go to a doctor? I am kinda sexually active, I have done it with my boyfriend only 3 times, only him, did he give me something, but we use protection can you please help me? Rate 5 for all good useful answers. (link)
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i think you should go to the doctor cuz maybe if your having sex on your period then something could happen.
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OK... i babysit 2 boys... 5 and 8 years old.. they are crazy!!!! and when i tell them sumthing, they just ignore me and keep on doing whatever they r doing... how do i get these kids to listen to me!?!?
*ignored babysitter* (link)
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try putting them in time out and if they are crazy make a oweson up and tell them that he is like a monster and if they dont listin to you he will come out of their closet and eat them alive. sometimes you have to scare them or just talk to the parents.
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okay so i had sex with my boyfriend last night and ever since then i have been throwing up and i keep needing the toilet i no im not pregnant and there is no chance i could be cuase im on the pill and he used a condom, ive had sex before and never felt like this whats wrong with me have i got a desease or something im gettin really worried please help i will rate high (link)
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if you drink or smoke when you take that pill things like that can happen so think about the things you did.
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Last year I moved to a new (catholic) school, and last year at Homecoming I went with a group of the jv cheerleaders and I didn't really have anyone to dance with. This year I am a varsity cheerleader, and mostly all the girls in Varsity are in their own clicks,and I only have one very close friend on Varsity. No one is gonna have a party like they did last year, and I don't think any of the boys will ask me. Should I call this kid who asked me to go to the festival last year and ask him to go, should I wait and see of anyone asks me, what should i do?!!! (link)
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I think you should wait cause there could always be someone better but if no one asks you 2 weeks before then maybe you should give that guy a chance but just wait you never now what you might find.
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Okay so there`s this boy and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with him a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me and him. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help! i rateee =D
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i think he does like you and the reason why he is being different is cuz hes liked you for a while and when you made the first move he felt more comfortable to treat you like a girlfriend. he probly wants to ask you out but you guys should talk about it he might be a lil shy so try making the first move again.
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Since its summer I never see my boyfriend. My mom doesnt want us going out on dates actually she doesnt even want me having a boyfriend. Im 13!!!!!! It is so unfair. Anyway how can we see each other more without my mom finding out? (link)
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well you can always e-mail and if you have a cell phone go out with your friends and call him and tell him to come...and the only reason your mom is being unfair is cuz she doesnt want you getting hurt or doing something youll regret one day cuz your at the age where your gonna want to do more things and experiance alot but dont wait till your atleast in high school ... im not telling you to not take a chance but think about your reputation or what would it be like when your older ... you can even tell your mom that you want to see him and if shes so worried about it have her meet him and let her see hes a nice guy... dont worrie if your mom doesnt stop this ina year just tell her straight up that your old enough not to makea stupied choice ive made many and i totaly regret ever thinking about it ... if you do want to see him just remeber dont do somthing youll regret!
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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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well you should tell her cuz she deserves to know. And to say it nicly tell her that you guys feel in love and that you would never want to hurt her but you think she should know and tell her that she needs to go out cuz she could find somebody better than him she may never know if theres someone better if she doesnt stop liking him. And if she still liked him, wouldnt she want him to be happy? And when you tell her that yall are engaged say it in a way where you care that she has feelings for him im sure shed understand and yeah she will be bumed out about it for a long time maybe but she will get over it.
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O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.
A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.
I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!
I'm depressed! What can I do? (link)
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ok well first dont ever date a guy that much older than you..hes ateenager guy and all teen boys want is sex.. so the only reason that he was dating you was cuz he wanted to get in your pants and thats soo gross if he had sex with a person like twice his age and if he realy liked you he wouldnt have flirted with your best friend. i know how it feels when you can hate a guy but still be upsessed with him.. what you need to do is find a guy much better than him and not so much older than you maybe like a year older but no more cuz its sluty to do that. when you find a better guy you wont miss him and you shouldnt your just hurt by him and you cant let a guy do that to you. find a better guy and youll feel better.
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ok i have this really good friend(we will call her sue) who really likes this guy(we will call him joe) and has liked him for like 5 years and is seriously obsessed wiht him. but the problem is that i now like Joe and my other friends want me to go out with him but i dont want Sue to get mad at me. and i no for a fact that Sue would hate me for life for she wanted to kill this other girl that was going out with him for a while. Also my friends who want me to go out with Joe have been talking with him and they said that he said that i should not care what Sue thinks and i kind of have the feeling that He will never go out with sue anyway. advice on what i should do please? thanks. (link)
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Well if sue is your really good friend and she liked him first then i dont think you should go out with him cuz you have to look at it like if you liked a guy fora really long time and what if one of your friends liked him for a lil while and then they went out. wouldnt you be mad? maybe you should talk to sue and tell her how you feel about joe and tell her that you know she likes him and you dont want to mess anything up and if she realy is a good friend she will be fine with it and be happy that your not goign to do anything unless she says you can. and you will feel alot better that she knows that you like him and that your not goign to do anything...and in time your feelings for joe wil go away.
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