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extremely important question!
13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?
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I think you should be honest with him. If you really dont think that things are going to work out with him then just start a conversaton with him and be like "I really like you, but I feel awkward about this relationship thing and I really dont think that its going to work out".
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first off, dont let these people tell you who to date or who not to date. yeah, it can be dangerous..but if you trust that he is who he says he is, then i see no reason to stop talking to him. if you ever do meet him, make sure your not alone, have a cell phone with you and make sure its in a public place. hang out in public until you trust him. i have a question, how old is he? i know exactly where your coming from. but if you dont want him to be your first kiss, you dont have to. dont worry about hurting him. its COMPLETELY up to you. your gonna remember it forever, so dont make it a bad memory. if you have any more questions let me know. good luck and keep yourself safe. ♥
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first you shouldnt tell someone you love them, do you even know him? sorry that was mean im just bitter about my own situation. but anyway sweetheart dont do anything you dont want to do. dont ever do anything you dont want to do, i know you have self respect because you wouldnt be asking this question if you didnt. well when you have a boyfriend you are with them because you care for them and you are attracted to them and to me it seems like you want the emotional part of having a bf and not the physical part. which is fine i just dont think you are ready for a boyfriend yet, give it a few years, months even, you never know you could find the perfect guy to have your first kiss with. dont waste that moment on someone you barely know.
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You don't have to kiss anyone you don't want to kiss. You aren't really "going" with him anyway since you have never met. No need to break up since you may never meet. Just be friends for now. If its meant to be more it will be someday. :)
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Well, first of all, you're 13 and therefore have no business dating guys you meet on the internet. That's just begging for trouble. You should break up with him because you're obviously not as into the relationship as he is. Even if you haven't met him, it's not fair to let him believe you really are in love with him when it's obvious that you're not.
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Well, first of all, you're 13 and therefore have no business dating guys you meet on the internet. That's just begging for trouble. You should break up with him because you're obviously not as into the relationship as he is. Even if you haven't met him, it's not fair to let him believe you really are in love with him when it's obvious that you're not.
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dont ever let your self be pressured if you dont want to kiss him dont ..but dont just say you dont want to because hes not cute if you really dont want to then dont cause you want your first kiss to be soo special and its ok to wait and yeah he may want to but hes a guy and thats allll they want and if you dont like him anymore then tell him you just want to be friends and if says he doesnt want to be friends he obviously didnt like you so dont keep your feelings to yourself tell him how you feel.
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Well, you haven't met him and your his girlfriend!?.. well anyways, looks aren't the most important thing, and if he's nice and everything, then i think you guys should just be friends, i mean you haven't met and you've only talked on AIM.
Your first kiss should be something that you will treasure. It should be something special, and if you don't feel comfortable having your first kiss with this guy, then you should most definetly not kis him.
I'd say that you should tell him you just want to be friends for now.
hope i helped
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I think you should just break up with him and tell him that you*d just rather have somebody you can see on a daily basis, but remain friends. I know wut online relationships are like and believe me they are easy to like stop loving//liking that person i promise!! hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea
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I think you should break up with him because first you don't want to kiss him and second because you haven't met him yet..But it's depend on you..It's okay if you don't want to break up with him..Maybe you just have to tell him that you're not ready for it..Hope I helped!
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You just shouldn't have been lame enough in the first place to date someone online who you've never meet.
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if you dont like him as much as u tell him then dont lead him on ,break it off with him. but if you really like this guiy then his looks shouldnt make a difference.hope i helped XoXo
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well if you dont want to have your first kiss with him then its not right to let him believe that you want to so i think you should let him now that you aren't really ready to kiss yet...
and if you don't like him as a boyfriend then its only right that you dump him because you shouldnt lead him on just tell him that you would just like to be really good friends because you've realized that you love him as a friend not a boyfriend...
good luck
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