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My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?

Well, first of all, you're 13 and therefore have no business dating guys you meet on the internet. That's just begging for trouble. You should break up with him because you're obviously not as into the relationship as he is. Even if you haven't met him, it's not fair to let him believe you really are in love with him when it's obvious that you're not.

okay my boyfriend n i are both virgins....but we do fool around n last night we did and he fingered me n went down on me and that night i noticed i was bleeding a lil which i didnt think much about because i figured he just kinda ripped me cuz i know thats normal well today it was like i had my period but i jus had it not last week but the week b4 that and my periods not like that im 17 yrs old i think i would know. n the botom of the tampon is the only part that gets bloody and the string and its a REALLY dark color blood. N i was wondering if a guy goes down on you n he kinda sucks on you when you orgasm...can that cause you to bleed? Or should i be concerned?

ask him to do u and see how it goes or see a doc

Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother

Rachel

ask him if he will mary u that will surprise him

I`m at home right now, and i really dont have anything to do. I cant leave the house or anything. Does anyone know anything fun i can do inside ( websites, arts & crafts, etc.) thanks ♥ i will rate

yes i kno the best thing go on www.streetfighterz.com

is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?

oh hell yea theres no porblem

i wanna make my myspace pretty. so can someone give me like two really good colors that blend really good and it would be really pretty! thanks so much!

pink and and light blue

Okay so I'm 14 (girl btw) ...5'0 and I'm about 85 pounds. I obviously have a high metabolism and I have to gain 95ish pounds before xmas or... I'm going to the hospital because my mom thinks I have an eating disorder (i dont) How do I gain weight and actually "keep it up" ?

go to miky des and say u want a year suplyes of big macks!

Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do?

i dont kno about that one. try sleeping with one hehe

Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving again today for another two weeks, and wants to date once he returns, he wants to get back together. I love this boy... I just don't feel like getting my heart broken by him for the third time. What should I do?

i dont think you should go out with him anymore tell him its over boy!

i love Cumbers. i eat them all the time. my friend said if i eat them all the time as i do i can get cancer is that true? im scared now

no you cant eat more

i'm just wondering, who would you guys recommend as giving the best advice??? like you could say people on the top rated columnists but i want ones from other people's personal opinions. thanks!

i dont see what your talking about

ok well me and my ex-bf got back together this is the 3rd time we have gone out we always broke up for like 2-3 months and we got back together..and hes always with his friends he barly calls me just when hes at home..but hes NEVER home and when he is his friends are there..i want 2 talk 2 him just me and him..i think hes going to cheat on me i dont know what to do!! heLp me please !!!

talk to him about you talking to him tell him you need time and tell him that he needs to call you more often and then just make sure he doesent say ok ok ok if he does do that that means he wont call u or talk to u dont worry i kno my ways around

whats a good way to sorta spice up my hair? My hair is about an inch or two below my shoulders, i have sideswept bangs, and i wear a sidepart. I usually wear my hair just striaght or up. Any ideas to make my style a little more interesting and different?

spike it upp as mcuh as u can and then u wil be pimpin

OK i've never worn eyeshadow that much but i sorta wanna now..is it true that a brown or tan shadow goes with hazel eyes? if not, then what color goes with hazel?? thanks!!

i dont kno about that but i do wish i can put some makup on one of these days hahah im just joking try that and see how it goes

okay, me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. i moved because none of our family ((or sum "friends")) wanted us going out. my mom hates him and his mom hates me. then was in november. well all of the sudden he's stopped talking to me. it's been 5 weeks and i've left him messages and e-mails. he hasnt responded to any of them. whut do i do next?
*heartbroken..

tell him his a fag

My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do?

dont stay up later and dont eat and eat before u go to sleep!

My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo

to make you feel better just find another boyfreind and lay it off with him who gives a s**** its not like your gonna marry him?

SO SORRY THIS IS LONG

Ok so i just turned 13 last month, im the youngest person in my whole grade ! and my friends are turin 14 soon .. and they are all have their periods and have regular size boobs .. but they got their in like 6th or 7th grade , and im going into 8th ! you know that checkup thing when your like 12 , well they said i wouldnt get my period till im about a freshmen .. like 2 years and this was about like going into 6th grade. I have pubic hair under my armpits and on my vagina .. and i sometimes ill have white stuff on my underwear and this has been like this for about 3 months .. and to let you know im really small and i have no boobs ATALL im flatchested.

i dont kno you like confuzed me by the question but i guess its all what the doctors say its nothing on you , life is a b*** you cant have everyting you want

Hey- im 14, nd i black. i jack off bout 1 time a day. Is dis a lot? how many times a week do u jack off? and my cock bout 6 inches. Is dat small or what?

i dont kno its good enough

Hey- im 14, nd i black. i jack off bout 1 time a day. Is dis a lot? how many times a week do u jack off? and my cock bout 6 inches. Is dat small or what?

you need to strart doing that 4 times a day hahah im just playing around

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