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ok well me and my ex-bf got back together this is the 3rd time we have gone out we always broke up for like 2-3 months and we got back together..and hes always with his friends he barly calls me just when hes at home..but hes NEVER home and when he is his friends are there..i want 2 talk 2 him just me and him..i think hes going to cheat on me i dont know what to do!! heLp me please !!!
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sweetie, TELL HIM THAT. Tell him that you would really love to just tlak to him when hes alone and not with his friends, ask him to set aside a time frame that you two could hang out or talk on the phone, and see what he says to that. If your afraid that hes going to cheaton you, tell him that too, but dont make it seem like your accusing him and you dont trust him. Make sure he knows that you do, just tell him that your unsure because of how hes never home. Also, if he doesnt make any time for you, you might want to consider finding someone that will, because whats the point of having a boyfirend if you never see him and spend time with him. its about the equivelant of being single.
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well it seems like this guy isnt worth your time. i know its hard to just forget about certain people like that but this guy honestly doesnt seem like hes worth it.if he relly liked you he would call you and talk to you no matter if his friends wer over or not.i think its time to move on.hope i helped XoXo
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hmm, you`ve broken up 3 times and you hardly see him. mabey it`s time for you to move on. communication is best in a relationship and if you dont have it then where`s the relationship? tell him that you wanna see other people becuase in my opinion, you deserve better.
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I apologize because you will percieve harshness in this answer:
DON'T COUNT THE TIMES YOU'VE GOTTEN BACK TOGETHER WITH A SLIMEBUCKET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Gosh.
Count the times you've broken up, and he's broken your heart. You know why you got back together after 2-3 months? Because he was out there, looking for another "better" girlfriend. When he didn't find one, he came crawling back to you.
You know why you never talk to him alone, or why he's never at home, making an effort to call you? Because he doesn't care about you as much as you care about him. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it's true. You could tell him about it. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe he'll start trying, but I doubt it.
I don't know what's with the insecurity thing of him cheating on you, but I'm not going to insult instinct.
My advice is to dump him. And this time, for good. I know it's hard, because you obviously like this guy a lot. But if he's not making an effort, the relationship is doomed to fail (as it has so many times before).
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woah...if this is the 3rd time you have gone out, what is the point?!?! if you are scared that he is going to cheat on you, and you are upset because he won't talk to you...END THE ReLATIOnSHIP! you already know what is going to happen, and i don't see why you are doing this to yourself. stop going out with him and find someone else or even better...stay single and have more fun.
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ok well..based on the boyfriends i've had..you seem very lucky because they'd call me 24/7 and it was annoying as HELL haha..but i mean it wouldnt hurt him to at least call once every other day. I htink that you should get him over your house and be like "i feel that we're not as close as we used to be and i really wish we can start talking to each other more" that way if you talked to him a little more you'd be able to tell if he was cheating or not. If he is cheating or will start, then dump him immediately and if he starts denying it and wants you back really bad, say "i dont wanna go out with you if i cant really trust you or if you dont talk to me that much..once you prove to me that your worth it then i'll love to be with you again"
sorry if this didnt help much but if you need anything else drop one in my inbox!
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Ok, well, for one thing, I don't think he's a really great boyfriend. You can do better! Maybe he thinks you won't mind all of this because he's gone out with you before. Set him straigh! Tell him how you feel! If he doesn't listen, dump him! Like I said, you can do better.
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talk to him about you talking to him tell him you need time and tell him that he needs to call you more often and then just make sure he doesent say ok ok ok if he does do that that means he wont call u or talk to u dont worry i kno my ways around
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Just try talking to him. Tell him that he means a lot to you, but you feel like you can never talk to him because he's either never home or he's always with friends. Maybe then he wil make more time for you & you will feel better about the relationship! I hope everything works out & if you need anything else just leave it in my inbox!
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