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My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo <333
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Try not to think about it for one. The same thing happened to me when my boyfriend went into high school and I was in 8th. He probably just wants to be single going into high school so he can experiacnce new things. It just the high school scene. It might be better for you two to take a break, while he experiances that. I know me and my x from when that happened, are still extremely close. Just try and remain friends with him, and hopefulyl when you get to high school things will work out and you'll get back together =)!
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Awww. Think about this - You're going to high school in a year right? Fresh start right there. You can find someone your age and totally forget about your jerk of a boyfriend (if he was cheating on you that is)...
There will be PLENTTTYYY more chances to get a boyfriend. Don't worry, you'll find someone whose worth it. Most other guys in high school are more matured. So you'll be able to spot whose right.
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personaly i think thats bull. your only a year apart and to use that lame escuse he was probably talking to another girl when you guys were going out. hence the fact that another girl is in his profile. just try and move on. im sure when you start school there will be plenty of hot guys. and if you cant move on, thats what friends are for. hope i helped.
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I apologize for any harsness you percieve in this answer:
I'd like to point out that he can't cheat on you because you guys are BROKEN UP! As in, there's nothing you can do about it.
As a mean and honest person, I'll tell you what he meant by the fact that he's going into highschool. He found another girl, not a better one, just another one. I know that because of the profile thing, and because that's the stupidest, most overused excuse ever. It's not like you're forbidden to see him outside of school. Er, well, now you are. I FORBID YOU!
Tons of things. Just get your mind off of it, and eventually you won't have time to think of it. School, work, friends, teams, clubs... you name it, you do it!! Don't dwell on it, and you'll find someone else. Don't wait until you get into highschool either, or else...(dun dun dunnn)
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Hmm first off that doesn't sound like a good enough reason. I pulled that off, only I was in the guys situation. Ask him why he put that girl in his profile, and if being in a different school is really the reason for your break up. If he does like that other girl and is cheating on you, then don't let it get to you. Sounds like he might be acting like a jerk, so probably wouldn't be worth it. In terms of feeling better, the first and probably best thing to do would be to talk about it. Talk to a girl and/or a guy friend you can trust. It's not important if you come up with a solution for it, but letting your feelings out usually helps. Have some fun too. isketch.net, candystand.com, pogo.com : a few sites with some games that could help take your mind off of it. Hang out with a few good friends, doesn't have to be too many; watch a movie, go shopping, a park. Try anything that will take your mind off of it and just try to have fun. Summer is almost over, so make the most of it. Feel better and good luck.
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You need to go out to places with your friends like the mall, movies, bowling etc. because this has happened to me before too n it sux :/ but soon you'll be having so much fun that you'll forget about this obviously, worthless guy and just having fun with your friends.
Good Luck and I hope this advice helps out
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Im so sorry. But look, Breakups are an important part of growing up. Trust me, just about everyone goes through them. And If he broke up with you, then hes not cheating. But just try to move on and when you're ready, meet some new guys. When you get to highschool, and you have a new boyfriend or new boy-friends and no time for him, he will see what he missed. But for now, have your own fun and look on the bright side of things. At least you have the freedom to flirt and meet new guys, or you have more time for your girlfriends. A night out with the girls may be just the thing to get you back on your feet. Or an at home spa night may be in check. Give yourself a manicure and pedicure and facial, then have a nice hot bubble bath and turn off the lights, add a few candles and relax. It does wonders. Look up recipes for the facial online, theres tons out there!
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You should go out and try to meet a guy. Meeting a new guy might help take him off of your mind. You could also try talking to your ex. But if he broke up with you because of that then he's not worth it. You can do better.
L♥VE//Tiffanie*`
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wow that was kinda like what happened to me. same age thing. but no one broke up-it just kinda went off without us saying it officially. it really just takes time. i somewhat still kinda have a thing for him, but i think waht im really missing is having someonea always there for me at 3 am to talk to, or just someone to say i love you to me meaning it and its not family. once you get a new boyfriend or move on it will all go smoother. just remember your gonna move on to hs next year, and you can overcome this. talk to your friends, and listne to music. just remember that hes not worth your tears, and your better than him. just handle it well and dont be trashy to him cus your just not handeling it well then. and if youre goin to the same highschool eventually-come back and show him wow-i shouldnt have dumped her last year. hope this helps!
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im really sorry, and i know its tough. but if he broke up with you, then he cant be cheating on you. but if he was hes not worth it anyway. and it is really hard to keep a relationship when yall are in different school, so its really for the better. but you could plan like a girls night, that might help you feel better. and just stay busy so you dont think about him. goodluck!! im sure theres someone else out there for you =]
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that 5 things:
1) hey, they are a lot more guys who are better than your ex.
2)he was just finding the reason to break-up.probably he didn't really love you (sorry..)
3)high school girls are not as beautiful as some have heard(obviously your ex fell for that thus the break-up...)
4)accept life as it unfolds, you'll feel better..
5)you know what they say, one door closes, a new one opens up..you'll have your time, be patient.
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aww im sorry hes gotta be a jerk then..that shouldnt come between you and him if hes just goin to highschool..as for the cheating part, if he was cheating, he wasnt worth your time. Sometimes guys can be complete jack-beeps to girls. You'll find a guy this year. Just don't let it bring you down because he's not realizing what a dumb choice he's making. Who knows, maybe he'll come running back to you and you can be like "haha screw you..you don't deserve me :D" OK hope i helped and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox <3
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to make yourself feel better try and keep in mind that another great guy will walk into your life and there are many more relationships in your future.
friends always always make me feel better..so hang out with them or talk to them..go out and meet new people..stay busy..it will make you feel better. it sounds like its pretty much over with you and this guy ..officially end it because hes putting another girl in his info..hes moving on to another girl..so you should move on to another guy.
relationships come and go..i know its hard..but friends are forever
-melissa-
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First of all, I'm really sorry. I know how tough break ups can be. About what to do, I think you should just try to move on. I know how hard that is, but what I always do when I'm upset is keep busy as much as I can. Keeping busy usually takes my mind off of things & I get a break from being upset. Maybe when you're in the same school as him, he'll feel differently about the situation. I hope everything works out for you & I hope I helped. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to leave it in my inbox.
x33 ;; Always,
ADViCEx4xY0U =]
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to make you feel better just find another boyfreind and lay it off with him who gives a s**** its not like your gonna marry him?
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