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3rd times a charm?
Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving again today for another two weeks, and wants to date once he returns, he wants to get back together. I love this boy... I just don't feel like getting my heart broken by him for the third time. What should I do?
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Well seeing how you both kissed another person the first time, it was both your faults in a way. (not saying this to offend you at all). But.. if you really think it could work try it out again (because I dont know if you guys were serious or if you were officially DATING or what)... but yeah. If you think it can work go for it.
Jealousy is normal.. I go through jealousy/envy and things like that too. Just remember that he chose you. He must see something special in you so dont ever think you're not good enough. You're what makes him happy.
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well from my point of view it seems like your wasting your time on this guy. if you guys both cheated on eachother and you keep breaking up and hes gone all the time. going out with ex bf's doesnt usually ever work out.so i would say its time to move on and find a new guy. becasue this guy doesnt deserve you.hope i helped XoXo
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i dont think you should go out with him anymore tell him its over boy!
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don't waste your time. it sees that you tried it a few times and it juss didnt work. i know you love him, but i dont think the loves strong enough if it didnt keep it together not 1, but 2 times. its annoying when every1 else wants him, and that could lead into you not trusting him or them, and him being tempted and probably not strong enough to fight through it.
-hope this helped!
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I think you just need to talk to him about it & make sure that nothing like that happens again. Tell him how much he means to you & that you're worried about your heart getting broken.
If you both still have feelings for each other, then obviously you both saw something in each other that wasnt worth letting go of. & you're obviously good enough because he doesn't want any of the other girls that like him. He wants you!
I hope everything works out for you & if you need anything just leave it in my inbox.
x33 ;; Always,
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I think when he returns you need to talk to him majorly about what you just told me. Tell him that you are the jealous type and if he wants to date you then he's going to have to understand that you want all his attention towards you tell him not every second of every day just that you want it most of the time. (I'm the jealous type as well). Tell him that it bothers you being the man candy in the school who every girl loves and every guy wants to be, but you understand that he can't do anything about that. And tell him if he really likes you he'd understand where you are coming from, and that if he can't handle what you are asking (more attention towards you during school hours) then there's no reason why we should be going out. Tell him you don't want a relationship having to worry all the time what he is doing when you aren't around him. Hope I helped. (Remember it's my opinion on what I'd do. Mean you probably already know this but I'm going to tell you anyways that you don't have to use my advice.)
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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