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How can i help my hunnie?
Okay well I have asked a question about jailbate before but I have another problem... See my luvr has a speech inpediment. And I don't notice about that any more but when he talks to my friends or someone who dunno him ppl juss give him a smile or ask him to repeat i feel awful about it but i wish i could love him up more to get rid of the pain and all the teasing. He doesnt deserve that. Is there anyway i can stand up or be more lovely?
Thanx your advice would rlly help me out =) ~steph
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Just tell him how much you like him for who he is and it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks, because you like him for who he is and not for what others see. Just remind him how amazing, awesome, sweet, etc. he is, to give his self esteem a boost. =)
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There's nothing wrong with someone asking him to repeat unless they're doing it to be mean. Asking him to repeat will make him feel like they are truly interested in what he's saying. Just be patient with him.
If others are teasing him, then yes you should stand up for him. I would ask him first though since some guys get embarassed when a girl stands up for them.
When he will be meeting your friends or someone new that you know, let them know ahead of time that he does have a speech impediment. That way they have time to prepare. Most people are uncomfortable in situations like this if they haven't had time to prepare for it. Just tell the person to be patient with him and to ask if they do not understand something he said.
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you should stand up for him your right its not right for people to do that to someone and you should tell them that there not so pefect either and just because he may sound or look diferent hes no diferent to god and thats all that matters and if they cant show kindness to a person as special as him then they are just heartless people that are trying to build thier ego up by putting him down and if countinue to be so rude to people thell end up alone and what goes around comes around god will give them what they deserve for their unkindness.
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tell him that you dont care abuout his speech problem. the only thing that matters to you is your love for him. dont worry about wat ppl say there just being mean.hope i helped XoXo
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Aw thats horrible that people make fun of him.. well i think just being there for him no matter what is a good thing.. and if somebody gets real nasty or maen then you get like that towards them.. or maybe even ignoring them would be good.. cause i mean he knows you love him and everything dont let what dumb ass people say make you feel like your going to lose him or something.. also i think your real sweet for wanting to help him better with this.. ♥ Dez
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I think you need to tell anybody that does that to him "to go to hell and stick it where the sun don't shine"<The Notebook> The people that mostly do that to him can understand what he's saying but just have to be dicks or bitches about it and be a smartass. I think if they had that problem they wouldn't want the remarks they give toward people with that disability. If you want to be more lovely towards him tell him you love him almost every hour and care about him so much and just be there for him. Sorry to be harsh but I think those kinds of people are just looking for something to do in their poor pathetic lives. I would know I was one of those people. Hope I helped.. (Sorry if I'm talking about something totally different, but I have a friend that has that same disability called "speech inpediment" same thing that you are telling me he has. So I don't know if it's different or not.)
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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