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I can't see him anymore!
O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.
A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.
I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!
I'm depressed! What can I do?
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ok well first dont ever date a guy that much older than you..hes ateenager guy and all teen boys want is sex.. so the only reason that he was dating you was cuz he wanted to get in your pants and thats soo gross if he had sex with a person like twice his age and if he realy liked you he wouldnt have flirted with your best friend. i know how it feels when you can hate a guy but still be upsessed with him.. what you need to do is find a guy much better than him and not so much older than you maybe like a year older but no more cuz its sluty to do that. when you find a better guy you wont miss him and you shouldnt your just hurt by him and you cant let a guy do that to you. find a better guy and youll feel better.
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Omg, and you're still not over him? That's gay, because I would defintely be grossed out if I knew my boyfriend, or a very close guy friend did that, and i didn't know, and then once I found out. Gross. And it also sounds like he's a player, I mean, with what he was doing with you, and your friend. I wouldn't worry about him. I think you should try to avoid him, and if you can't-act normal, but I mean, don't try to hook up with him again.just forget about him...
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You can tell him that you know about the 47 year old woman and it's either her or you and tell him that you want to be the only woman in his life you don't want him touching on other girls like becka that's only if you two are going together if not then you can't really say anything to him because you guys don't have a relationship.
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Oh wow. If I were you I would just laugh it off. What a freak! Now that you know that, you shouldn't have any feelings for him. Focus on guys who a)are closer to your age, and b)don't have sex with anyone, let alone 47 year old women. Good luck!
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wow, that's rough...
I can truely understand that you miss him, but you don't want to see himg. what it sounds like to me is you still love you, but you don't want to. Just take it slowly, you can try talking to your best friend and just try and straighten things out a bit. I'm really sorry for what happened...
I hope I helped
Ally
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sweety you should really forget about him
find a guy who wouldnt do such stupid things and care for you
dont make your self feel miseable
go out and meet new guys
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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i can understand how you feel, but i think you should deffo forget him, he seems like a waste of time and that he is only interested in one thing... your still very young and you have years to fall in love and meet 'the one'. so i would just enjoy your childhood rather than getting involved with boys etc, especialy ones that treat you like that. hope i was some help
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Definately forget all about him, he was just going to use you and your friend!! You shouldn't love him because he pretended to like you, you should DESPISE him!!! Find another guy, one that actually cares about you girlfriend!
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