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Hi...i was wondering how mary-kate does this style of hair? like how do i get my hair to look like that? are there any products your recommend? thanks! (pics below)

http://i.timeinc.net/people/i/2005/startracks/050117/olsens.jpg

http://www.robthurman.com/weblog/archives/olsenstyle.jpg

http://rds.yahoo.com/S=96062883/K=Mary-kate+Olsen/v=2/SID=e/l=IVS/SIG=13akdd2gi/EXP=1122161427/*-http%3A//www.stimme.de/storage/pic/eigenebilder/verschiedenes/197069_olsen_mary-kate.jpg (link)
um..try waving your hair and then moussing it??!


should a person with diabetese drink any kind of alcohol beverage? (link)
No way


O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.

A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.



I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!

I'm depressed! What can I do? (link)
Omg, and you're still not over him? That's gay, because I would defintely be grossed out if I knew my boyfriend, or a very close guy friend did that, and i didn't know, and then once I found out. Gross. And it also sounds like he's a player, I mean, with what he was doing with you, and your friend. I wouldn't worry about him. I think you should try to avoid him, and if you can't-act normal, but I mean, don't try to hook up with him again.just forget about him...


ok i'm 16 f and me adn my girlfriend( yes i'm a lesbo) want to do something special for our 2 month anniversy.is there anything that we could do. the crazyer, the better! (link)
You are discusting. I hate gays and lesbos..


i know that so many people have probably asked this question but do you have to pay to use this? because i havent?? thanx lucee xXx (link)
nope, you dont. If you get the other type of advicenators, then you have to pay, but for this, its free.

Jess


well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.

Do you think hes using me? (link)
Heck yea!! What do you think he's saying those kinds of things for??


hi, one of the friends i hang round with is really moody. my other friend lashed out at her because she was like moody all the time. what can i do to stop her being moody all the time?!
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was she pms'ing?!! Maybe she was that day, or maybe she has something going on at home or with other people around her. (not you of course). Does she know she's like this? I don't think she's doing it on purpose, but maybe try talking to her. It may help. And don't talk behind her back or anything. Maybe if you did, (im not accusing you) or one of your oher friends did, she may have found out about it. Just ask her about it. Hope I helped, xoxJeSsxox


is it bad if your a porn addict (link)
god yes?
what are you thinking?!!


Does anyone know of any artists or songs that sound a bit like Missy Elliott?
I can't find anyone that's famous at the minute.
I don't mind if they're new or old school :D (link)
Heavy D and the Boyz
Wyclef Jean
Brand Nubian
Kanye West??


I'm a 15 year old girl, he's 17. We both like eachother. But he's not sure if he wants to go out with me. He's worried about our age difference since he's turning 18 in like 5 months. Even then we'll have 2 years between us still. He's told my friend that he does want to go out with me, but he's concerned about the age thing. Should I just give up on him, or still try to hook up with him? Help? :) (link)
Hook up! Who cares, wow, 2 years. Hook up hook up hook up!!!!


Since it's getting hotter and I'm starting to sweat a little more I'm getting more zits popping up. Does anyone have any not expencive (and actually work) products, or any home remadies? Ill rate 5's!! (link)
pro-active works.


i have been going out w/ this dude for about 2-3 weeks.. he is REALLY REALLY into me.. but im not that into him.. i just went out w/ him so he wud stop bein soo sad.. and mad.. i wanna break up w/ him..but all his friends (that r gurls, which is ALOT!)said they wud jump me.. im sure they wud to..b/c he's really popular.. and he has ALOT of ppl on his side!! wut shud i do?? shud i break up w/ him? and how? or shud i not break up w/ him??

signed.. confused gurl (link)
Ooh, this is a tough one. I think you should maybe leave a note in his locker or something.


Does anyone know any websites that would have music you can listen to - without downloading? Thanks a bunch! (link)
u have aol im? go to music.channel.aol.com (w/o www.) jess
silent_end


or www.ejams.com


ok my period isnt completely regular..sometimes i would get it on the same day a month later..other times i would get it 5 days after i started it the previous month. (that was the case for this month) I have an important party in exactly a month and i reeeally dont want to be on my period then..i hear stress and weight loss can delay you..should i stress myself out over the upcomng finals and should i start to lose a lot of weight..and will this delay my period? (link)
When did you start? Are you saying it likes teeters every month? I mean, it seems like thats partly what your asking..so, yea. If you just started this year, it can be like that. I'm the same way, because i just started in Oct. So trying asking your doctor if they do have pills or anything.


Okay i know that all scary movies are fake and stuff. It's just that at night when I'm in my bed i always think about the grudge, freddy, jason, micheal myers, and all that stuff. And i don't know how to stop thinking about it. And one time I was at a party and I did Bloody Mary which scared the crap at of me. And after i did it I got so scared i had to sleep with my parents for like 5 months and at school someone would have to come to the bathroom with me(not in the same stall though) But anyways.. I don't know how to not be scared any more.. Does anyone have ideas? (link)
Omg, me too. Halloween scared me for like 3 months. I just saw The Grudge,a nd it scared the freaking daylights out of me. One simple thing that you need to know and not do anymore: Don't watch scary movies,and dont do stuff like that. Bloody Mary is sooo fake. Don't worry about it-when it comes into your head, think about something funny that happened to you once, or think of your crush, like thinking you are making out with him. This teqnuique worked for me. Try it out, and let me know how it goes.
Hoped i helped,
Jess
Silent_end


Can you wear a skirt when you have your period? Is it safe to? Because I have my school picture tomorrow and I'm due to get my period tomorrow too! So I dont know what I should do! Help me out here! Thanks (link)
Definitly! Maybe as long as it's not white or anything like that, white or anything really bright that the blood could possibly leak onto.
hope i helped
jess


does anyone know a good breed of dog that is low maintenence and cheap (link)
Golden Retriver!


my girlfriend is mad at me because i was mad at someone and wouldn't tell her who. i wasn't mad at her and told her that but she wouldn't believe me so what should i do. i am 14 (link)
I think you should try talking to her. And if she won't, I don't think she's a very good girlfriend.


My friend was raped by a bunch of guys. Now she's pregnant and she also has AIDS because of them. She's anemic which means she's already really tired all the time and gets short of breathe really easily. Well lately she's been really tired, like more than usual and it's really scaring me. Her parents don't know about what happened to her, they really don't care about her she's basically living with me. My parents take care of her and we give her a place to stay. She has a job but lately she's been skipping it and she just seems really tired. It's like she's a completely different person. She'll usually try to do things and not let the fact that she's anemic stop her but she hasn't been doing anything lately and she seems really sick. She says that it's just her anemia but I'm not really sure. My question is could she just be like this because of the anemia or could it be something else? I don't know that much about AIDS so could she be dying from it and that's why she seems so exhausted and sick all the time?
Please help me I'm really worried about her.

Sarah (link)
Do her parents know about this? If they don't, I think it would be a good idea. If your friend is afraid to by any chance, tell her its okay. The doctors know, right? It seems like they do. To tell you the truth, I don't know much about AIDS, or anemia, but there's a possibility that it could be the AIDS. That's why it is a good idea to make sure a doctor knows, and your parents counting. I think (if you havent done so already), try talking to your friend. Maybe she could let you know how she's feeling and see what she says.
Hope I helped,
~jEsS~


okay...i am 13 f. my bf tried to french kiss me, and he bit my tounge. did i do something wrong? do u know a way that i could help him be a better kisser? thanks -olga (link)
Your only freakin 13 and u have a bf that wants to french with you? yur disgusting you are too young




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