i have been going out w/ this dude for about 2-3 weeks.. he is REALLY REALLY into me.. but im not that into him.. i just went out w/ him so he wud stop bein soo sad.. and mad.. i wanna break up w/ him..but all his friends (that r gurls, which is ALOT!)said they wud jump me.. im sure they wud to..b/c he's really popular.. and he has ALOT of ppl on his side!! wut shud i do?? shud i break up w/ him? and how? or shud i not break up w/ him??
karenR answered Thursday May 19 2005, 1:46 am: You just tell him it isn't working out. Don't ever be pressured into dating anyone. If anyone threatens you tell you parents and teachers. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
That's a tough one. I mean no one can make to go out with someone you don't want to go out with. I say break up with him and follow your heart. All you're doing is leading him on more and that's not really right because think of it, you went out with him so you wouldn't hurt his feelings, you're still going to hurt his feelings.
Jess5764 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 3:50 pm: break up with him don't lead him on!! that'll only make things worse. uhh i doubt they'd actually jump you that would be really immature [ Jess5764's advice column | Ask Jess5764 A Question ]
angel_sarah23 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 2:51 pm: my friend was in the same situation all his mates would bitch about her and say shit so she was just like i cant handle it i have feelings for someone else so she started like not tlking to him for a while then she walked up to him and said look we havent been tlking and i guess ur not making an effort to tlk to me so i think we would be better off as friends!
if your guy cares for you that much he would be happy with whatever u do or say even if it's worse off for him good luck hun! xXx [ angel_sarah23's advice column | Ask angel_sarah23 A Question ]
girlygirl answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 2:47 pm: First you should learn how to spell. Then if you still don't like him, you should break up. Why waste time with someone you're not into... and gee what a cool, popular guy that his friends will hurt you if you break up with him? [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
cokecap_x21 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 2:34 pm: i wouldnt break up with him i'd think all the things i like about him and everything that is nice about him and like him for that. =) be real close and nice you'll love him. you shouldn't have went out with him though if you didnt like him!! but we all do that so its ok =).well thats what i would do.. [ cokecap_x21's advice column | Ask cokecap_x21 A Question ]
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