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Is he using me?
well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.
Do you think hes using me?
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i dont think he is! i just think he is genuinly interested and you shouldnt be worried unless he gets too clingy with all the i love u stuff! i think he was just want to know if you had because maybe he wanted it to be him.
hope i helped!
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he wants to be friends with benefits...not boyfriend and girlfriend. so in other words...yes he is.
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i wouldn't read too far into things, the best thing id say is you can use this as a major tease and a great way of flirting, dont throw yourself at him, but make him work for it, actually called making him chase after you, this way you will have the power, you can say no, and you would never feel pressured... all men love a little bit of a chase ;P
rate me dude xx
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yes i know its not what you wanted to hear and im sorry but ask him strait up what do you want from me sex kissing cause im to young for any of that
[hopefully your not to old ]hopfully your not hurt
god bless you ,
katie
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No way. It is just the opposite. The reason he is being super nice to u is because he doesn't want u to use him or leave him. Don't be freaked out by this he really just loves u.
ROCK ON!
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Yes, I think he is because he is asking you if you've made out with anyone and he probably has behind your back and he's probably not telling you the whole truth. See, my boyfriend would ALWAYS tell me the truth and he would NEVER cheat on me.
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i dont think he is, but you might want to hang around him more and see if he asks for anything else. im actually going through the same thing right now. my bf seems too perfect and its always about me, and im just expecting any day for him to ask for something like a bj or sex or something of the sort, and i just dont know if he really cares for me or just wants to do me, maybe you could help me too! haha
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Heck yea!! What do you think he's saying those kinds of things for??
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There's a very easy way to find out:
Tell him you have decided to save yourself for marriage. Or if you're not a virgin, that you decided to not have sex anymore until your wedding night.
He may act like he's cool with it at first, but you should know within a few weeks if he really means it.
If he's still with you after a month or so, and isn't trying to pressure you to change your mind, you may have a keeper. ;-)
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My last boyfriend was just like that. He turned out to be a freak but he wasnt using me. It depends on how you look at the situation. He might be just using you, or he might really like you. But in my opinion, I think he's using you.
ex | oh - amanda
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No i dunt think he is using you b,c i mean if you havent ever mad out with any one.. and he still loves you and everything.. once he found out that .. then he knows for one that you arent FAST.. and then if he is really nice what more to ask for - Rate me Katherine
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You should ask him if he's ever made out with someone and if he hasn't then ask him the same question who would he want to make out with. Maybe he's always asking you because he wants to make out with you, but isn't sure if you want to.
-Manda
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I don't think that you can call it "using you" Maybe it was just a simple question he asked. If he has asked it more then one time then say "I'm not sure who the first person will be" and move on. Apparently, he really likes you. Hope I helped!! <3 Peyton
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well theres no definate way to tell...say you dont want to make out with him & see what he does. if he says, ok ill wait...hes not. if he freaks out and dumps you, he was & he isnt good enough for you. <3
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It's hard to say. He sounds nice. He does sound like he really likes you. You are young though, everybody thinks about making out and stuff.
Hope I helped! xoxo
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