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well im 16 and willing to answer any problem you have. all my friends come to me for advice and i thought why not offer my services to everyone! if my advice is good please rate so i know if im helping and if not i can improve my advice! anytime!
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I'm moving into a much smaller apartment at the end of the month and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to how I could make it look bigger and how could I make it look more homely since my walls will have to be white and most of my furnature (incleading comforter) is black.
well the white walls will automatically open the apartment and make it look bigger. a good colour to go with white and black is red. white and black are quite cold colours so by putting red with them it will warm the room up and make it more homely.
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these two guys (one is my X who i never liked) think that i am a slut now because of a note that they misunderstood or something. i really dont care about theyre opinions but now theyre telling the whole school im a slut and thats theyre away message! what can i do?
guys like to immature, especially if you've dated them or hurt them. the best thing you can do is not let it bother you and show that your more mature and bigger than them! they'll soon get tired if its not bothering you!!
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okay I was veiwing your column and it says that you only have a 4.92 and I wanted to know why dont you have a five you give good advice if I was this sight I would give every one that has five that show up give them a average rating of a five is this sight just messed up or what please answer and I am not trieng to sound noisy I am just browsing through and i saw that you answered my question about the food thing but I was wondering if this happenes alot because I am new to this sight and I was wondering if you dont want to tell me the reason because it is persinal that is okay all you would have to put is (personal) and submit it and I would still give you a 4 or 5 but thanks if you answer this question it is okay if you dont it not really a big deal I was just wondering and you seem like a really nice person but when I was browsing through the columns I saw alot of columns like that and you were the last one that I saw and I thought That I would ask you sorry if I botherd you and I will give you a five just if you tell me if this is nomal and if this happens all the time
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love brittany
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sorry so long
but I really needed help
well im not too sure why to be honest with you but i think it takes all you rating and then make an average of them. so to get a rating of 5 i would have had to have got all 5's for my ratings. but your ratings only last for 30 days i think before they are classed as too old and are not used to calculate your average!
it confuses me too a bit! lol!
hope i helped (although i dont think i actually did) sorry!
hiya
recently i have been getting deeper feelings for my best boy mate (liam) i want to do stuff with him like give head, kiss etc.... but i dont know how to seduce him what to say or whatever. any help would be good.
oh by the way we always talk about sex and stuff like that.
the next time you two are together just be really close to him and then lean in and kiss him. the shee how he responds. if he doesnt kiss you back and pulls away then you know where you stand. if he does then just slowly move you hand down his body and rest it on his groin and again see how he reacts. and take it from there!
but you've got to decide if you want it to be a relationship or just friends with extra and let him know.
p.s if you like talking about sex then talk dirty to him it will make him sooooooooooo horny! i duno why but guys love you to talk dirty to them!
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My 16 year old female best friend is dating my 17 year old male cousin who just moved in with her because of family problems! I am okay with all of this but I am not okay with the fact that they have been having sex for over a year now. The problem is she hasn't had her monthly since May, but she hasn't been sick or anything. Is it true that having a lot of sex can mess up your monthly? Also: should we buy a test to see if she is pregnant or tell her parents before we do that?
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ok id go out n get a test i mean it cant hurt to be sure! and then see what happens from there. if its positive then its got to be up to them to tell her parents and if its negative then dont worry, lots of factors can mess up your monthly. but just to e sure id do one test now and another in say a week or two weeks time just to make sure!
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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥
just smile and look into his eyes. kiss him softly and say it mean so much to you that he thinks that and say that it wouldnt matter if anyone else said it! you only care that he thinks that and kiss him again!
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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?
well thats what i like to think! theres someone out there thats perfect for you. you just need to find them thats all. but dont spend too much time searching for them b/c it will happen eventually!half the fun is trying to find them and finding out what you like in a person and what you dont!
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what's pop a cherry mean?
its when a girl looses her viginerty becuase her hypem is broken by penitrative sex!
hope that answered it for you!
wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?
its basically oral sex on a girl where (guy or girl) stimulated the girls vagina n clitorus with their mouth!
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ok im sorry if this is going to be long..and this is more like a girl quiestion..
well i have been going to the bathroom..and when i wipe all this stick nasy white stuff comes out..and its like nasty..my mom says its discharge but i dont think so..and its like chunky and stuff...(sorry for the details)and some times its brown..so it comes out in brown chunks..but any ways i told my mom and she said its just left overs from your period..like left over blood..and i said i dont think so because its brown not red..and she said shell take me to a cudor doctor..and i said hell no..and shes like fine...and yes i take a shower everysingle day..morning and night..and i do wash down there..and its not when i plat with my self..i dont think so!!
need help bad..ill rate 5's to all!!!!
dont worry! your mum is right! its just discharge thats gettin rid of left over blood. its kind of like a natural cleaning process. so dont worry about it! we all get it, maybe some worse than others, but theres nothing wrong with you!
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does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help
yea it does hurt the first time you have sex but its nothing bad. its more uncomfortable than anything! and you may be sore for a few days afterwards but its nothing major!
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
dont worry about it! you a teenager, its only natural for you to experiment with you sexuality! so just go with it and see how you feel as things progress!
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?
well you shoul explain how you feel but ifthat doesnt change nything then if you really do love him then you have to respect his decision!
sorry but thats the way it is!
Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now..and for somereason I just can't get wet anymore...why not?
it may be that your getting used to the sex and your not enjoying it as much as you used to. try spicing it up with a bit with, for example, body paint, try painting it on each other and licking it off each other, its really senseual. or using toys, or role plays or in a hot tub. just be a bit more adventurous and you should get wet again as you get turned on more.
it could also be caused by a hormone imbalance that will right itself in time!
in the mean time use lube and that should sort out he problem inthe short term.
ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx!
totally normal and nothin to worry about!
My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!
yuor hyemn probably just broke but dont worry you can do this horse riding, cycling or with vigarus exercise.
either that or he scratched the inside of your vagina and thats whats bleeding but dont worry if he has this will heal quickly.
just tell him to be careful next time! just dont let this experience put you off!
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why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing
it itches becuase you skin is sensative thats all. if you dont want to ask your mum then go and buy yourself a waxing kit and do it yourself! there really easy and dont cause irritation if you do it properly! just remember to read the instructions carefully!
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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.
dont be scared of it! i mean its natural so just relax. yes its true it will hurt a little becuase you are so tight being a virgin and all because nothing has been up your vagina so when he does penitrate you and you skin streatches then it will feel a little uncomfortable but this will only be for the first few times. this feeling may last a few days but it is nothing bad. and you may bleed a little,some people do and some dont. this is just because you hymen has been broken but this is nothing to worry about either. the worst case is tht you will spot for a few days.
the first time you pee after you've had sex for the first time it may hurt a little its just feels more uncomfortable than actual pain itself. and no it wont last for weeks!
by the way congratulations on the wedding and i think its really good you've both decided to wait until you were married!
remember relax! its natural! the more tense you are, the tighter you are and the more it will hurt!
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Ok..this guy..I really like him and like everyone had told me that he likes me too..then my bestest friend like came with me to see him and they were all dancing and like they were flirting but she has a boyfriend ((of 5 months)) and like i think she is gonna ruin what me and ((we'll call him mm))MM have and like i dont want that to happen..should i just like not take her back or what should i do!? please help i rate high!
talk to your friend and explain the fact that you really like this guy and didnt likethe way she was acting around him. she probably didint even know it was making you unhappy and im sure that that wasnt her intention. and as for the guy, i think you should tell him how you feel about him. just get it out in the open and you'll feel much better for it and you will know how he feels about you so your not trying to guess why he is doing things. maybe he didnt know how u feel and so didnt see a problem with the way he acted. but ye i think the bestthing to do is to talk to both of them!
good luck!
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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex
...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am
some people bleed and some dont,thats just the wat it is! well if it is weird for him, and it shouldnt be because its just what happens and you cant do anything about it, then he isnt mature enough to be having sex if he doesnt understand it. dont worry about it! you may bleed a little for a few days and be a little sore but thats it!
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