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I like this guy, but my best friend likes him too
ok i have this really good friend(we will call her sue) who really likes this guy(we will call him joe) and has liked him for like 5 years and is seriously obsessed wiht him. but the problem is that i now like Joe and my other friends want me to go out with him but i dont want Sue to get mad at me. and i no for a fact that Sue would hate me for life for she wanted to kill this other girl that was going out with him for a while. Also my friends who want me to go out with Joe have been talking with him and they said that he said that i should not care what Sue thinks and i kind of have the feeling that He will never go out with sue anyway. advice on what i should do please? thanks. <3
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you have the right idea , you shouldn't go out with joe .dont go out with joe and tellsue that no madder what in the whole wide world ill[but really you]will be there for you .tell her you should try going out with someone to get her mind off of joe .and tell your friends that your never ganna go out with joe .
try to keep in mind that everyone has feelings so try not to hurt them to get in the way to get you out of the crossfire betwine joe and sue tell sue that she should try someone else and tell her that joe told me that he would never go out with you ,gracefully care for her because you love her .
god bless you and hopefully everything works out for the best tell me what happens if you take my advice your welcome :]
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Don't go out with him, unless Sue says she is okay with it. Even though you know she'd be lying. Don't ruin a friendship for a guy, it's dumb. Maybe find a guy for her, then she wouldn't mind as much. If you do go out with him, do not talk to her about it. good luck!
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It depends how close you are with sue. Because if you are pretty close...you should prolyl back off. Because you should think about how sue would feel. Talk to joe about it..and explain that to him. Maybe if you talk to sue about it...she will reconsider killing you if you do..=)
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Hmm. Well try talking to sue i mean cause if she really is a good friend of yours she should let you go for him. and if you do and she gets mad, shes your good friend and shouldnt b mad at you at all let alone "for life" if she still says no, wait a while and see if she becomes less obsessed. if not i guess you should try a dif guy because you should never let a guy go between you and your friends. the friends are there for the long run and guys can break your heart pretty fast (not that he will nessicarily but im just sayin) good luck!
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Well if sue is your really good friend and she liked him first then i dont think you should go out with him cuz you have to look at it like if you liked a guy fora really long time and what if one of your friends liked him for a lil while and then they went out. wouldnt you be mad? maybe you should talk to sue and tell her how you feel about joe and tell her that you know she likes him and you dont want to mess anything up and if she realy is a good friend she will be fine with it and be happy that your not goign to do anything unless she says you can. and you will feel alot better that she knows that you like him and that your not goign to do anything...and in time your feelings for joe wil go away.
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Hmm.. if you want to be a good friend dont go out with him. There's plenty of boys out there that you might like and like you back but you do not have to go out with the guy that your really good friend has liked for FIVE years! Not only will she be mad but that would hurt her feelings a lot and I personally would care more about what Sue thinks then Joe. But she needs to understand that she doesnt own him and she cant just get really pissed off at who ever goes out with him. If he doesnt like her then he needs to tell her because she will keep getting hurt and jelous && mad!
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