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ok i have this really good friend(we will call her sue) who really likes this guy(we will call him joe) and has liked him for like 5 years and is seriously obsessed wiht him. but the problem is that i now like Joe and my other friends want me to go out with him but i dont want Sue to get mad at me. and i no for a fact that Sue would hate me for life for she wanted to kill this other girl that was going out with him for a while. Also my friends who want me to go out with Joe have been talking with him and they said that he said that i should not care what Sue thinks and i kind of have the feeling that He will never go out with sue anyway. advice on what i should do please? thanks. (link)
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It depends how close you are with sue. Because if you are pretty close...you should prolyl back off. Because you should think about how sue would feel. Talk to joe about it..and explain that to him. Maybe if you talk to sue about it...she will reconsider killing you if you do..=)
*beckah
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Ok so on the fourth of July, my cousin annie and i went to the mall early in the morning to catch the early bird sales. we went like really early. then her mom drove us back to our grandpas houses where we had to clean up the house..(windows, etc..they havent been cleaned for years!) anyways, we were sooo TIRED..and then my other cousin julie came over and I didn't want to ignore her..like i said "hi" and stuff and i chatted with her a little but not a lot because we had to clean up and she was just standing there doing nothing! ..ughh so anyways, blah blah blah..she went home crying to her daddy about how i didn't tallk to her and i avoided her the whole time (BS). and usually, she is suppose to call me everyday at 4:15..but she stopped for some reason..i didn't know what was wrong..until i found out she was mad at me a week later..she is still avoiding me now! what do i do!? (link)
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Well call her and explain to her what you just explained to us. If she doesnt care..then thats her problem. You shouldnt have to worry about cousins being mad at you for dumb reasons. Other then talking to her..not much more you can do..hope i helped..
*beckah
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I'm really nervous bout starting highschool, especially the meeting new people part. I'm outgoing, but only when im with people that i know. How will i be able to make friends(and i dont mean join clubs and stuff, i mean like talking to ppl). Whats a good way to make conversation. Just please help me, or at least gimme some support. I will rate 5s. (link)
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Hey hun! I am also going into high school! Just dont worry about it...because everyone is going to be nervous about meeting new people, because all the freshmans are new! (well most lol) ! So just dont worry about it ! Just try talking about school..or something..hey , maybe you will find something in common! Im me at x3beckahx3 if you want! hope i helped! much love,
*beckah
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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
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Im sorry, that really sucks. Try finding people who are also scared of meeting people...and who are made fun of..that way, you both will have someone to talk to. Hope I helped!
beckah*
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i want to make a shirt for my best friend, because her birthday is comin up... shes very religious and i want to put some sort of quote on it...so does anybody kno any short bible verses, or religious quotes?? thanks for your help!! (link)
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I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
-Philippians 4:13
For nothing is impossible with God.
-Luke 1:37
Put a cross on it? I dont know...decorate it pretty...lol...hope i helped!
*beckah
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I am going to be a freshman this year, and I have just started talking to this guy. Well, He is going to be a junoir and i know him from my sister--who is going to be a senior.
I have started having feelings for this guy. We talk alot online, and he is really sweet. But there are two problems. 1)He has a girlfriend 2)He still see's me as a kid.
Now both of those are really..hard. Because I think he see's me more of a little sister, then a friend. And it is so tough to deal with. Because I know i am not brave enough to tell him how I feel. And I know he doesnt feel the same. What should I do? (link)
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Hi. I left the question...okay i just wanted to set some things straight. I do NOT want to take her boyfriend away...Because I know they are in love. But I just need a way i can cope with my feelings...=(
*beckah
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It get the worst razor burn down there. Help please? (link)
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Do you just shave with nothing? Because that usally causes it. Or an old razor.
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ok what does it meen when you pop your cherry?!?!? can somebody please tell me! (link)
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It is acually called a hymen...it is a thin piece of skin in your vagina, that breaks during your first intercourse. Some girls pop them while fingering, or even a tampon. But not all girls have them either. Hope I helped!
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im not sure what i should do, a few weeks ago my bf stayed at his mates house who is 39. my bf is 16. his mate let my bf smoke a LOT of weed and he was so drunk he couldnt controll himself.(this has happened a few times whilst stayin at this guys house) my bf has now told me that he is goind to move in with this guy, trouble is it is about 45 mins away from where i live and im afraid i wont get 2 see him anymore. i have spoken 2 my bf and he has just said that he wont do anything stupid but i just dont wanna lose him... any1 got any advice? please? thank you lucee xXx (link)
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Tell him what you just told us. That you don't want to lose him. Make sure he knows you trust him, but that you just don't want to lose him. I hope it all works out darling! =D
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Ok..alot of the time when I call my friend she is "busy". It seems like she only hangs out with me when she wants to..What is her deal? And recently she got mad at me for the stupidest thing ever!! What is going on??
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Thats the same thing that happens with my friend hunny. Just talk to her about it...or just find new people to hang out with...thats what I did..and it is so much better that way. If you want to talk more, IM me at x3BECKAHx3
*beckah
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In my family, my sister and I each have our fair share of chores. I sort the laundry, she puts the loads in and washes them. She loads the dishwasher, I unload it. The thing is, I'm 17 and my parents keep doubting that I'm capable of living on my own. They think im so stupid I dont know how to load a dishwasher or how to work the washing machine. I do, I just dont do it because its not my job around here. And just because I dont cook all the time, they think I wont be able to live because I don't know how to cook anything. All of this is so untrue. I am capable of all these things and much more, I just dont put them to use around the house and I admit it, I'm too lazy right now. But when I'm on my own, I definitely wont be. I'm sick of them doubting my intelligence everytime. And it's not only chores, it's in school as well. I make the highest grades in most of my classes, but I dont make straight A's. I am so much smarter than they think and I'm sick of them treating me like an idiot. Even after I prove to them I can do these things, they STILL continue to doubt me. I've tried letting it go and ignoring them, but it's gotten to the point where I cant anymore. Help? (link)
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Try explaining to them about how you feel. I know that seems corny, but really, try it! MY family does that to me all the time. If they still don't listen, talk to someone else about it, a friend, and then bring you friend with you to talk to them about it again, and if they STILL don't listen, explain to them that it really hurts your feelings when they don't listen to you. I know, I know...corny as hell. But darling, trust me. It works. Good luck!
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