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My name is Kaylee. I'm currently fifteen, and I'm mature for my age.

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I call myself mature because I know a lot. I'm not very book smart, but I've been through a lot and I want to help others like others have helped me.

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I work out a few times a week, and dread not being able to go the first couple days of my period out of fear of leaking.

Which tampons work best for an active lifestyle?

Playtex sport tampons work amazingly.

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17/f, My guy friend asked me out by a note about a year and a half ago and i never responded. I liked him then and I still really like him now. He's on my myspace and I've e-mailed im a few times and told him everything each time a little at a time and told him why and everything but he never responded. The last e-mail that I sent to him was a little over 2 weeks ago. I don't know why he's not answering me and I think about him all the time. He's the sweetest guy that I have ever met and I know that he really liked me because he would always tickle me and try to make me laugh. He's like the only guy right now that I can trust and I just really want to be with him but I don't know if he still wants to be with me. I know he read all the e-mails because they all said read. I just don't know why he is doing this by not answering my e-mails and just ignoring me when we are at school when he sees me. Also, I'm scared to go up to him at school especially because he's never alone and is always with his friends. Please help, thanks!!

Maybe he hasn' even read it yet. Go onto myspace and then go to your inbox, and somewhere on the side should be the word "sent" click on it. You can check the status of your sent messages here to see if someone has read them or hasn't yet. if he's read it and hasn't responded, he either doesn't like you anymore or he doesn't know what to say. if he hasn't read it, then just wait it out.

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For our project we're supposed to answer these questions and one of them is who do you look up to and why.

I decided on friends but I can't really tink of a reason WHY. I know it's there but I can't get it out >.

My friends always give me confidence. They're always so open and out there and normally I'm a bit more reserved, but they make me open up and I love that. They're also always there and I can always talk to them about anything and I know that they won't judge me. Some of my friends are also a few years older than me, so I look at how they handled big changes like graduating from high school and going to college, etc.

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I am a girl and I have guyish short hair and I cannot do anything to it because I don't really know what products to buy so if someone could explain me some hair things to do and what products to buy I would love you forever. (I really wanna make my hair into a mohawk kind of.)

I would use anything bedhead. They have like a hairglue/cement sutff that makes your hair stay like that. It's like hair gel, but it works a lot better.

I've always seen it sold at cvs and walgreens.

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Does he have an official myspace? Or a website that it run by him? Thanks in advance.

He has an official myspace. he updates his blogs and pictures and everything. Just search for it on myspace.

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for about two months i have had these bumps on my cheek in the same area. They are redish/ white and are for sure not pimples. One of the bumps seems to be growing and looks like a white bubble. It hurts just a bit when I press on it. I am 25 and my mother had skin cancer on her cheek when she was thirty. Does anyone have any clue on what it could be? Please do not tell me to go to the doctor because I have no health insurance and am extremely broke. thank you

Um well it could be cancer if your mom had it. And unless a doctor sees you, there's no way of knowing what it is, or probably even treating it the right way...

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kayy so i really like this guy but how do i tell him i like him becuase he has a girl friend
thanks
loveboys

If I were you, I wouldn't tell him until he's single. Odds are, he's probably going to tell his girlfriend and it's just going to create drama and cause a lot of problems.

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Ok, so I hope this doesnt sound too minor, because right now it is major to me.

One of my best friends went away to boarding school, so I don't see her very often at all. When she did live here last year full time, we still didnt see each other often because we went to different high schools and I live an hour and a half away. Anyway, my friends that are closer, well I hang out with them alot. And one time, she had a sleepover, and I wasnt allowed to go, because my dad said I had no way of getting back home, but I ended up staying over my other friend's who were closer's house, and my best friend was understandably offended. One of the people who I usually hang out, well, we like each other, and we're finally going on a date this sat. night. And this is supposed to be the date of all dates (the determining factor basically), and we've been planning it (well he) for two weeks. My best friend from boarding school just texted me and told me that me and my two other friends would be hanging out at her house on Sat. night since her bday was two weeks ago, and now she's down here. I had no idea she was coming, she just texted me! And I don't see her often (well, she is coming down for thanksgiving in two weeks), and I don't want her to be mad, because I'm hanging out with the guy. I know she won't understand that it's an important date, and he put alot of thought into it, I dont know what we're doing because he said its a surprise (so its that serious). But I don't want her to think I'm a bad friend. Help! should i postpone the date and hang out with my best friend, or should I go on the date, and just her when she comes back?

In most cases I'd say never choose a guy over a girl, but you did already have plans with him for awhile and it would be kind of rude to just cancel something he's been planning for weeks. Try to talk to your friend about it. She may seem a bit upset because you don't get to see each other much, but hopefully she'll understand. And if she doesn't, maybe you could try to talk to the guy about rescheduling, maybe he'll be understanding.

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I was talking to my best friend yesterday and the idea of having a bank account came up. I am over 18 and have been working as a cashier at the local Walmart for awhile. Walmart offers a direct deposit to the back account of my choice, but I don't have a bank account right now. I've just been getting my Walmart check every two weeks and cashing it at my mom's bank (BB&T bank). I think it would help me keep better track of my money if I had it placed in a bank.

I asked my mom today if she thought I should get a bank account started up and she said it didn't sound like such a bad idea. She told me to find a bank that I felt was good and to see them one day this week about opening a bank account. I'm sure she'd suggest BB&T but she's been with BB&T for a long time and she is crazy about the BB&T free online banking. I am really afraid about going to a bank though since I don't know anything about bank accounts and I do NOT want to make a bad move, especially with how the economy is!

So, how do I start a bank account and where should I get one at? I know BB&T is where my mom banks but is it a good decision to go there or will they be filing bankruptcy like other banks have recently? What are some good banking choices? I know some of the big banks are BB&T, Citibank, Bank of America, and Chase but I have no clue if any of them are really safe to place my money in.

What questions should I ask when I talk to someone at the bank about creating a bank account? What do I need to know?

Well first off, maybe have your mom come with you. She'll know what kind of questions to ask them about the interest, etc. Ask her if she can do research at different banks online before you go. She'll probably understand everything. Make sure you bring your social security card with you.

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i just got my tonsils out exactly a week ago and they say the 5-7th days are the worst... but i have scabs in the back of my throat and all i wanna do is sleep, talk, and eat real food again.. how do i get these scabs out? i have tried eating, it hurts to much. i spit every 2 min and i drink like a dehydrated horse! if anyone has any suggestions let me know.. please dont guess id rather have someone who knows what their saying tell me what to do.. thank you

Alright. I got my tonsils out about ten years ago when I was six. The best thing to do is to leave it alone. I know it sucks and it hurts so a lot, but just do exactly what they tell you to. Take all your medicine when you're supposed to. And eat ice cream!Well try going for the sherbert because anything with choclate will probably burn your throat. That helped me out a lot. This all may seem really obvious. I dunno, but leave the scabs alone! =]

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why do ppl use foil when they dye their hair?


also, i wanna get high lights i AM A BRUINETTE and i want lighter highlights on the sides of my hair near my ears and also like little random big ones stripes on the bangs part.. how do i achievee this!

If I were you, I'd have a hairstylist do it for you because if you mess up, then you're stuck with that for a little while and that sucks. They'll determine what looks good on you, etc. Just explain to them what you want. =]

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I am a 17 year old male.
I play guitar and can do an awesome SKA upstroke.
I'm trying to put together a ska band but am unsure about writing songs, like how would I go about writing music and lyrics for a ska band?
Also would it be extremely devastating to a ska band to not have trombones?

If I were you, I'd look at all the ska bands that you listen to. Look directly at the lyrics so you get a sense of the style/poetic devices that they use.

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i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
thanks
loveboys

I'd move on. It sounds to me like the reason why he said "you're still sexy" is because he'll probably use you as a backup in case things with the other girl don't work out. You should have more respect for yourself then to just be a backup hun. =]

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can you die from Multiple sclerosis?

I hope this helos. The website has a lot of info.

http://www.nationalmssociety.org/about-multiple-sclerosis/who-gets-ms/index.aspx

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15/F

Okay, big problem. For my birthday, that was in mid-October, I got my first diamond necklace. (worth over 200$) And today I realized that I don't know where it is. What the eff should I do first. My mom will freak!!!

HELP A.S.A.P.

If I were you, I'd look EVERYWHERE(and I mean EVERYWHERE) before you tell her because she might never trust you with something big like that for awhile.. When did you realize that it was missing? You really need to backtrack every step you took. If it was in school, I'm sorry, but I doubt that you'll get that back. Most kids are jerks.

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how old do you have to be to buy earrings to gauge your ears at hot topic?

What the girl said below me is correct about cleaning them. I just never did which is really bad but nothing happened. There's no set age to buy them either. You can also get them at Spencer's. Anyways, they're kind of expensive so what I did was I eventually started skipping normally every other size to save money. I started at a size fourteen. There wasn't much pain. Just like the other girl said, don't try to shove huge ones in your ears. If you want to do it properly, it should take a little while. I started at 14 in the summer before last and I'm at a 2 now. You can always go a bit quicker with putting in bigger ones than I did, just don't completely rush it.

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hey so i can't figure out how to get music on my phone...i have songs saved in limewire if that helps..

When you got your phone, it should've come with a "getting started" cd and a synching cord so you can add music from your computer onto your phone. Another way is if you have bluetooth for you computer, you can use bluetooth to transfer songs onto your phone. If not, you can always have a friend bluetooth a song to you. The centro kind of sucks when it comes to that. You can't make anything else your ringtones besides what it comes with, unless you either record it, or you buy it from the media store on your phone. That always made me mad lol.

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i have a palm centro and it froze and i was wondering what button do you press to turn it off?

I have a palm centro and it freezes a lot, mostly when I'm checking my email. I wait about thirty seconds to see if it will unfreeze and if it doesn't, then I take the back off and then the battery out and then put it back in. That's the only method that I've found to work. If you have any other questions about the centro, leave them for me in my inbox. I hope I helped =]

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how a woman know when the guy throw an sperm to her

I'm not sure if I compeltely understand what you are asking. =/

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what are they? because im scared that i'm going to get charged on my next phone bill (cellphone bill) that my dad pays.. and he warned me that if he had any surprise charges that i'd be in big trouble, so here's the story, last night, i voted for the mtv vmas coming up through text messaging and it said standard rates apply so will i get charged?

If you have unlimited texting, then you don't have to worry. It depends on which phone service you have (ex. verizon) because they all have different prices for standard rates. I have AT&T and I think it's ten cents every text message, but if you have an unlimited texting plan, then you're fine. You won't be charged for those.

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