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what do i do? i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
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You DONT wait on a guy, that doesn't choose you over another girl. Move on, and if he says your sexy, than another guy will feel the same and come to talk to you one day. ]
Move on.
Guys say things like that because they know you like them and they want to keep you as a "back up" plan. This means that when he cannot find a "good enough" girl for him then he'll settle for you for awhile. Usually the guy leaves you for other women, and you're left very heartbroken.
If he truly wanted to be with you then he would be pursing you. Don't listen to him trying to lead you along, this is how "friends with benefits" while someone is in a deep relationship starts out. Someone tells someone else that they just think you're the cats pajamas but they can't be with you because of XYZ. This is crap and it's the WORST thing to do to someone.
Spare yourself the heartache and move on before you get in too deep.
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Well if you really like him i guess, but if he likes another girl, and says that he thinks your "sexy", then he might end up liking you for the wrong reasons. You want him to like you because he likes you for who you are, not just your looks. If i were you i would wait for awhile, and still be open to other guys. See what happens and if its going no where, then he obviously really likes the other girl. Hes in your situation, think of how you feel, and try to think of how he feels. hope i helped and good luck
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listen i know what you going threw i say move on and keep it pushin because if you sexy like you say you are then you shouldnt have a problem getting a new crush or you never know someone just might try to holla at you ]
well i was in this situation once but i never really looked at it in any other way .....but i never thought of it as move on because i thought i was in love but then thinking of it made me think that there is more fish in the sea and if he is making me hang on to him he aint worth it ...
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Move On. You don't need to wait for someone. plenty of "fish" in the "sea" ]
Move on. :] You should never wait for anyone. ]
I'd move on. It sounds to me like the reason why he said "you're still sexy" is because he'll probably use you as a backup in case things with the other girl don't work out. You should have more respect for yourself then to just be a backup hun. =] ]
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