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now days its really hard to figure out what kind of girls are into...well, not really. But its hard to figure out if guys like skinny girls.I know that all guys like different kinds of girls, but do you guys out there think skinny girls can be hott? not nasty skinny, but healthy skinny
okay,
do not listen to the other columists that wrote you here, i dont even know why the one chick under me is on this site, i mean what the hell is that supposed to mean?
no im not overweight,yes i used to be,
but NOT ALL GUYS ARE INTERESTED IN SKINNY GIRLS.
some guys like them thick from the bottom small from the top
some guys like them big nd meaty
some guys like em skinny
Seriously
If you dont know how to answer this question dont even bother clicking the
"answer this question" button.
Anyways
HOPE I HELPED :]]]]]]]]]]]]
I know this sounds disgusting but will I be okay if my dog licked my vagina? Seriously- will I get any diseases or illnesses? Isn't it true that dogs mouths are cleaner than humans? I would like some advice from a knowledgeable person. I was just experimenting and I'm worried that I might get sick or get an infection,
No,It is Definetly NOT okay
And neither are you
Go get some help
You Really Need it
Im not trying to sound mean,
Just honest.
The smallest things make me cry. I am an emotional wreck even watching movies I BAWL! I don't want to be like this, When thinking of how much I love my bf I cry, When thinking of Lonelinee I cry. I like my life and where it is going I don't knwo why I am like this. Of coarse there are things that could be better and things I wish for but who doesnt? How do I control these tears and feelings. I don't want to cover it because It is healthy to ezpress yourself but how do i control it?
Okay well
Your exactly like me by the way haha.
i have that thing about when i think about the boy i like, i just want to start crying
Its normal i guess haha.
But the thing is
If you cry about everything
you should really look deep down inside yourself and see exactly WHAT it is that is bothering you
Because maybe there are alot of things bottled up inside and it reflects on the most dumbest things you know? :]
im thirteen and i wanna masterbate. ive tried to do it before. do you just stick one of your fingers up ur vag. and how far up? like are you suposto get and oragasm? because iddint
Word of advice.
Dont..
Just dont.
okay i really like this guy and he flirts with me alot and asks me what i would do to him but he nevers says anything about dating..so how would i ask him if we would be having a relationship or if he would just use me for action?
thanks
loveboys
Okay well Obviously he is using you.
Next time he asks Jus ask him.
And Word of advice.
have some self respect, Dont let a boy ask you "what you would do to him"
If you start a relationship like that
It will never last.
Not trying to be mean here.
im jus being honest.
okay me and my mom just had a conversation about me having sex for the first time. she started crying and was upset that i had lost it so young. but we have such a good reltionship that it doesnt feel like it could affect us at all. shes been acting really close to me now but im kind of afraid she'll hold it against me. do you think she will?
Shes your mom...
She really shouldnt.
Hi im thirteen & i have these two guy friends that are older then me like one 16 and the others 17 . And they wanna hang out with me . But im not sure if i wanna hangout with them cause im younger and + my mom probally wouldnt aprove of me hanging out with them once she heres there ageses . Everytime they ask me to hangout with them i always have to make up an excuse that i cant that im grounded or something like that ... & there both nice . But i don't know what to do . ?
should i lie and hangout with them and sneak around or should i just keep putting them off . Please help ! Im in a giant state of confusion & id apreciate it greatley .
- torii babiiee *
Sweety
They are only 3 years older than you.
Its okay man
i mean
im 14
and i hang out with college people,16,17,18 year olds.
But they are rlly rlly cool and out there
It doesnt matter what ages people are
it depends on the people
and if they get along
Age is just a number
so tell your mom that you like these kids and maybe so ur mom could feel more 'comfortable'
she should meet em.
I'm almost 17 and desperate to lose weight.
I eat healthy food a lot & I've been more active.
Help/Coach me on how to lose 30 lbs like you.
Do you think I can be fit by summer ?
Hahah, I should tell you I'm 5'4" & 140lbs. I just want to be thin again.
I got a job at a Pizza Hut but I never eat junk food after this place.
Help me!!
hehe you wrote me on my b-day! hah.
:D Im sorry it took soo long to answer you back
i havnt been on this for ages
anyways
Your not fat at all btw
haha.
But if you want to lose weight RUN. ALOTTTTTTTTT
i mean i lost more than 34 pounds in 3 months .
So yeah im sure you can lose it before the summer
Dont eat alot,
Eat what you want,Just not always like Once or 2wice a week junk food.
if your serious about this its going to be hard as hell.But if you rly want it youl do it.
Run everyday or 6 times a week.
Lose around 300 calories on your treadmille If you have one.
Thats good ,that you eat healthy food and ur more active
So,
Eating healthy+Not too much+ Excerice+Determination= Weight loss like crazy
im telling you :D
haha.
If you need anything ask me! (:
Hope i helped
Am i a slut if ive been fingered and eaten out at age 11?
Do you think your a slut?
17/f
okay so ive been gaining ALOT of weight lately, ever since school started. im a junior, and i used to be around 120, 125 pounds. well now im afraid to step on the scale. im not huuuuggeee, its just that i dont fit well in my pants or shirts anymore. id like to lose a lot of weight for when i go on vacations and when spring and summer roll around. ive never ever been the skinniest girl, always a little chunky, but this is getting out of hand. its making me tired all the time, all this junk food, and its honestly puting me into depression. i was fighting depression last year, but it went away once i started feeling better about myself. once school started, that just ruined it.
ive tried working out, i dont know any specific good exercises to do. whatever dvds or sites that tell me to do certain things, i cant. im not flexible like they expect you to be. i want to get down to about 110 pounds.
has anyone lost a major amount of weight on here? i need some advice on what to eat, how to exercise, etc.
what types of food can i eat, besides salad because i already eat a major amount of that. i need things that i can eat in the morning, a quick breakfast. something that i can bring to school to eat at lunch besides salad. and for dinner i eat what my mom makes in a healthy proportion, around the size of my fist.
last year i was really good with not drinking pop at all, but once i drank a can i was addicted again. im finally getting back into the routine of just strictly water, and maybe a pop once or twice a week.
what are some healthy snacks, besides fruits and vegetables, that i can eat? also, what are the best fruits and vegetables to eat and snack on?
i just need to put myself of a healthy diet so i can actually get the energy to work out.
i loveee to work out, but im always so tired, so i hope eating healthy will boost my energy.
also, does anyone know exercises that i can do at home without really having to buy anything? something besides crunches and pushups, which i will do. i have an exercise bike and i go on that when i have the energy to, and a treadmill also.
ive just been really depressed and irritable, and im pushing away all my friends by being so angry all the time. i think its mainly my eating habits and me gaining weight and being tired all the time.
i just never have time to make anything for lunch or breakfast, so when i get home from school i go on a food binge and it makes me sick and i feel like im going to throw up. of course im not stupid, i know its not healthy and it needs to stop.
also, what are some good vitamins to take, im already taking viactiv chocolate chews. but should i take vitamin c, vitamin b? i dont know what is really neccessary but i want to put my body back on the right track before senior year, and i want to look and feel good.
pleassseeee help!! thanks!
Okay look,Im 14 right, and i just lost over 30 pounds.. How? Let me tell you.
I Didnt eat so much, i ate like 3 times a day, and if i got hungry in between, i just ate an apple, a cucumber,a carrot, you know all the healthy things, in the morning id have like a little sandwitch or oatmeal with some cinnabon and milk, and for dinner id have whatever myh mom was cooking [Because i was the only one in my house losing weight] but a small amount of everything she made, a night, i would have an apple and a yogurt,And i worked my ass off while working out, since you have a bike and a treadmille, Your lucky, I have also a treadmille and i went on it EVERY SINGLE DAY for 3 months, and it worked like a charm. Seriosuly but you cant be easy on yourself honestly, if you want to acheive something you need 2 work your ass off and not be a little girl,you know haha.
Id lose 300 calories on the treadmille and yeah it worked really good, Patience is the key to losing weight, and so is determination, If you dont have nor patience nor determination, then you wont be able to acheive ANYTHING ,trust me.
DO NOT, and i repeat DO NOT eat so much junk food, you could have chocalate like 2wice a week or 1 time a week, or a bag of chips,You will definetly see resutls, MASSIVE results, When i came back to school [I Was doing the whole process of losing weight during thwe summer] Everyone LITTERALY went like this :O
If you REALLY want this, LOl, which by the way i could tell you really do by the way your writing
you will keep up with the hard work , and the effor you have to put in this.
Im not going to tell you its easy because its rlly hard, If you feel tireed ,get your ass up and work hard, i used to feel REALLY REALLY tired aswell, but i REALLY wanted it so i did it ;]
Good luck and if you need ANYTHING jus write me back id be glad to help you.
Bye
how can I loose weight?
Run,ALOT .
it helped ALOT for me.
Not only that,
Eat like 3 times a day.
if yer hungry in between eat an apple,cucumber,anything healthy :)
TRUST ME .
You WILL lose weight :) if God wills :) GOODLUCK
i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
thanks
loveboys
Move on. :] You should never wait for anyone.
what does atm mean?
At the momment.
im 13 ive been single 4 about 3 weeks, and its been ok i guess should i go after someone or not?
im 13, And i have never been in a relationship before , why would you go After somone? have some dignity.
I was just curious to know, who you want to win the election '08?
My mom and i want obama, but literally the rest of my family wants mccain. I just would like to see how many people want obama, and how many want mccain.
All answers will help :]
Thanks!
Definetly would choose OBAMA :))))
im in a white family, and my mom is raceist. my best friend is black, n i showed my mom my group picture of before homecoming, and she was like omg who is that n poined to her n im like ..thats sammy my best friend. now she doesnt trust me at all and keeps askin if shes comin whenever i go somewhere. im staying friends with her wether my mom likes it or not, but what can i do i hate this? i dont see anything wrong with people from different races bein best friends and neither does sammy. only my mom does. im 14/f shes 15/f
Sadly enough, People who are rasict to other races are always those who grew up to believe the southern white people always mantain a higher standard then any other race. As so, this is the reason this world has war. You need to let your mom know that you are hanging out with sammy, wither she likes it or not. The fact of the matter is not that you cant hang with sammy but to show your mother that we arent living in the 70's anymore, or before that. That the rasict period already left us and she needs to let it leave her aswell. What shes doing/saying is wrong on many levels, and she needs to learn to accept people and set a better example for her daughter/children.
Talk to her about it. Let her know it isnt right, and that your right, things worth it in life are things worth fighting for.
Okay so I like this one guy. We'll call him Bob.
My bestfriend, We'll call her Sally likes him too.
Bob has liked Sally for a week or so now and my bestfriend Sally has a boyfriend. She doesn't liker her boyfriend and is going to dump him today or tomorrow to go out with Bob.
I don't want to tell Sally I lik Bob because Bob likes her, Sally likes Bob and I don't want to screw anything up. Should I just wait until they break up or do I say something?
Bob is also a year older and I don't want to look like a fool.
Help!
I think you should just let it go, I mean if bob likes sally then theres really nothing your going to be able to do :(
And you should just be a good friend and let her be happy since they both like eachtehr, it will be hard but im sure youll be able to move on :)
So me and my friend not talking because some people was saying that i was saying stuff about her and they almost ruin my relationship with my friend so i went up to my friend and we was talking but now we not the same we act like normal friend so wat should i do???
Well you should tell your friend that since your her friend she should beleive you and to stop beleiving what others say.
She should beleive you not them,So yeah, jus tell her if she was REALLY your friend Then she woudlnt beleive all those stuff and wouldnt act diffrent.
what is the best diet that you have tried and had the best results
Honeslty, i dont think you should diet i think you should jus watch what you eat,
i wanted to lose weight aswell but i ate in small portions, i didnt really eat so much,and if i did it would be fruits nd trust me with excersize i lost alot of weight :) iknow this isnt exactly the answer you wanted but im jus tellin you.
im being blackmailed by mty sister because i got arrested yestrday for ditching but my mom and i are keeping it a secret to my dad but my sister just keeps making me her maid if i dont do anything she tells me she yells out "DAD!! you know what **** did yesterday!!!" and then gives out keywords about what happened she ses it out loud and i cant stop crying because im falling for it. i have no other choice i dont want her to tell my dad so i ALLLWAYSSS have to do what she has to say!!! icant stop crying because she keeps controlling me and im so tired of it.. its never gonna end!! any adice? i need to stop this. what can i do! i hate it when she treats me like this!
Tell your mom on her, and let your mom tell her that she would get introuble if she told your dad.
How old is yer sister like 5? haha.
Dont worry about it jus tell your mom to tell her to stop that way she will have to listen to your mom.