Okay so I like this one guy. We'll call him Bob.
My bestfriend, We'll call her Sally likes him too.
Bob has liked Sally for a week or so now and my bestfriend Sally has a boyfriend. She doesn't liker her boyfriend and is going to dump him today or tomorrow to go out with Bob.
I don't want to tell Sally I lik Bob because Bob likes her, Sally likes Bob and I don't want to screw anything up. Should I just wait until they break up or do I say something?
Bob is also a year older and I don't want to look like a fool.
Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? blublue24 answered Monday October 13 2008, 7:04 pm: Well all I can say is you just have to leave it alone. I mean, since they both like each other it'd be kind of unruly if you just butted in without letting someone know. But of course you can definitely tell your friend about how you feel so that there won't be any difficult situations in the future and I'm sure that when you tell her, she won't take it so hard because you're letting her know ahead of time, it's more of a show of trust.
Dontyoufakeit13 answered Monday October 13 2008, 3:07 pm: I think you should just let it go, I mean if bob likes sally then theres really nothing your going to be able to do :(
And you should just be a good friend and let her be happy since they both like eachtehr, it will be hard but im sure youll be able to move on :) [ Dontyoufakeit13's advice column | Ask Dontyoufakeit13 A Question ]
nearly911 answered Monday October 13 2008, 2:50 pm: hi darlin
i think u should sit down with your friend and tell her how you feel about this guy. tell her you dont want to mess things up for her but you just wanted to tell her how you really feel.
dont worry about lookin like a fool im sure he will take it as a compliment.
how about havin a girlie sleep over and tell your friend then. if she is a real friend she will understand that you dont want to ruin things for her your just tryin to be a friend by sharing your feelings with her.
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