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i need advice!
So me and my friend not talking because some people was saying that i was saying stuff about her and they almost ruin my relationship with my friend so i went up to my friend and we was talking but now we not the same we act like normal friend so wat should i do???
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Your friend needs a little time thats all. If she is a good friend she will find out soon enough how these other so called friends really are. My suggestion is just be you, if you know the things that where said by others are not the truth. What goes around comes back around you know. Their true colors will shine through eventually, and I am almost sure your friend will see that she can trust you once again. Its hard to deal with other people who like to start trouble for whatever reason. It will take time, but I am sure you guys can work it out, and get back to being as close as you once where. I would tell your friend how mush you miss her, and that you would never do anything to hurt her in anyway. I would also let her know how much it hurts you, yourself that she believed them over you. Friendships require maintaince from time to time. Just look at this as a small bump in the road. Just give it a little while and give her time to process it all. The heart to heart talk is very important for both of you, so I do recommend doing that for sure. This way you have done all you can do and have made the effert. I hope this helps some, let me know how it goes...
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Well you should tell your friend that since your her friend she should beleive you and to stop beleiving what others say.
She should beleive you not them,So yeah, jus tell her if she was REALLY your friend Then she woudlnt beleive all those stuff and wouldnt act diffrent.
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talk with your friend about this,clearify her misunderstandings.if you hav already done this then i think u shud try to spend more time with your friend,do lot of things together which both of u like to do...while spending time with your friend try not to talk about what hapened...crack jokes. talk abot good old memories that you both had...it wil take some time,trust in your friendship, everything wil get better again.
look,i dont know anything about you n your friend.every person is not the same..if you tell me more about you and your friend then i can suggest you more.when did this happened? gender? your country? age? both of your hobbies? what kind of person you both are?
if you get any good result then please let me know. this is 1st time i am giving any advice online... but i wil say you that it is only you who can solve your problem...but if you stil cant get the way out then i m here to help you.and do let me know what happened.ok?
you can mail me rabindra_008@yahoo.com
take care
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