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my sis is blackmailing me and im sick of it
im being blackmailed by mty sister because i got arrested yestrday for ditching but my mom and i are keeping it a secret to my dad but my sister just keeps making me her maid if i dont do anything she tells me she yells out "DAD!! you know what **** did yesterday!!!" and then gives out keywords about what happened she ses it out loud and i cant stop crying because im falling for it. i have no other choice i dont want her to tell my dad so i ALLLWAYSSS have to do what she has to say!!! icant stop crying because she keeps controlling me and im so tired of it.. its never gonna end!! any adice? i need to stop this. what can i do! i hate it when she treats me like this!
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if i were you, id just come right out and tell your dad. im sure sooner or later he would find out anyway. you may get into a little more trouble but just deal with it, its not gonna last forever. that way you get your sister to shut up..or your other option would be to just let your sister tell him and when he confronts you about it, tell him shes lying and make sure she has no proof that you got arrested. or your other choice could be to find something to hold against her, maybe that could work.
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Tell your parents first before your sister does. It's always better hearing from the person themselves rather than finding something out from another person.
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Tell your mom on her, and let your mom tell her that she would get introuble if she told your dad.
How old is yer sister like 5? haha.
Dont worry about it jus tell your mom to tell her to stop that way she will have to listen to your mom.
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Telling your mum seems to be the only sensible option here.
Yes, what you did was wrong, but your sister can't keep taking advantage of you for it.
Tell your mum how your sister is behaving about the situation and no doubt she will get in a bit of trouble herself, so she should stop.
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Hun, you got arrested!
What your sister is doing is completely wrong, but for goodness sake, you are lying to your parents about getting arrested.
Two things are likely to happen here:
One: Your sister will continue to abuse you until it bores her and she will tell your parents, or they will find out some other way. They will be furious that you lied to them, and they will punish you even harder for your deceit.
Two: You tell them the truth about what happened. Apolgoize a lot, promise to change and beg their forgiveness. Your sister looses her control over you (maybe she even gets in some trouble herself for lying to them) and you get punished, but not quite as badly as you would if they find out on their own.
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