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is he using me?
okay i really like this guy and he flirts with me alot and asks me what i would do to him but he nevers says anything about dating..so how would i ask him if we would be having a relationship or if he would just use me for action?
thanks
loveboys
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OK, I think you should ask him how he feels.
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Love boys,
I've dealt with a few of these myself.
And let me tell you: this boy is obviously not looking for a relationship.
If a guy starts talking to you and jumps right into asking you "what you would do to him" firs thing, then he's not looking for anything more than a hook up.
And don't ever stoop that low with any guy just because he seems charming(its the charm of a player) because in the long run, you'd rather guys want to actually date you because you're a great girl. Good guys don't want girls who have been with every other guy. Always have respect for yourself over what guys want.
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Okay well Obviously he is using you.
Next time he asks Jus ask him.
And Word of advice.
have some self respect, Dont let a boy ask you "what you would do to him"
If you start a relationship like that
It will never last.
Not trying to be mean here.
im jus being honest.
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Hun if he hasnt said anything about dating you then dont even bother. its just another player trying to get some action. he may be charming in his ways but its another way to get you naughty faster
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Well this sounds like your typical player, but a bold one, he doesnt mind being flirtatious and al about the goodies, but he doesnt mention anytrhing about a relationship. What you should do is since he's so bold to air out what he wants you should be bolder and ask him where your relationship is going and if there is one, and mention to him that he aint getting nothing until your ready.
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Well if he's asking you questions like that already, then it doesn't exactly sound very promising.
Next time he says something like it, you should say "I only do things with people I date"
Big enough hint, no?
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