are guys weird about kissing after oral? i'm new to the whole sex thing but i've never done oral with my boyfriend so as like something different before sex i was thinking about some oral but not all the way. i know i could ask him but i was just wondering what most guys thoughts were, i don't care if girls answer eitherr. thanks.
it depends on the guy. i had a boyfriend who afterwards joked about it and was like "i'm not kissing you ever again." and laughed it off, but obviously that wasn't the end of kissing.
it was just like not kissing right off.
it depends on who the guy is and how they react to sexual stuff in general.
i guess some guy wouldn't care if you kissed them right after, but some are probably really picky would prefer that after your mouth had been in "certain" places it not touch theirs.
you'll just have to find out which type your boyfriend is.
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Hey i'm 15 years ikd and my boyfriend and i have known eachother for three years but only started dating two months ago. i know he's itchin to move to 2nd base but i'm kinda unsure. i mean only 2 months?? isn't that way too soon? and dont tell me it depends on how i feel i need a good non-slutty opinion of when you should begin to let your boyfriend touch you in that way
well, i mean i know you really like this boy, or at least it sounds like it. you usually have to like someone to feel the need to do this stuff. but i really just think that 15 isn't the right age to be doing this stuff.
you can't even drive yet, and you're already feeling the need to make it halfway through the ball park??
and two months is a little soon. a lot happens in a relationship in two months, but i think you need to realize you don't have to grow up so fast. enjoy being young and have fun without feeling the need to be sexual. it's a big responsibility. first and foremost, make sure you're ready and good and responsible to handle the emotional ties it will all bring up that weren't there before.
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what are good songs
meaningfull
ones that really make you feel the emotion the artist is conveying
im into like alternative stuff anywhere from like mayday parade, dashboard confessional, secondhand serenade, the maine, etc things like that if yah get my vibe. i also randomly like michelle branch and taylor swift. ok well yeah any songs you suggest ill appreciate
all songs by brand new, bright eyes, iron&wine, death cab, broken social scene, lucero, anna nalick, vannessa carlton, relient k, bloc party are good.
if you like any of these and want suggestions for m favorites i'll be glad to give you songs for some of them. but just take a look at these lyrics of some of these and let me know..
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is there any pills or weightloss supplements that you dont need a prescription for, or that you can just buy at the store?, thanks.
Alli gives you the runs if you eat anything sugary at all. My best friend works at a pharmacy and she told me this because her uncle i the pharmacist.
there are probably a variety of diet pills out there, but the main thing is that when you take them, they all suggest you work out and eat healthy with them.
I am currently taking Slimquick. There are a few different kinds of this pill, and they can be foun din health and nutrition stores, walmart, drugstores and aren't prescribed.
I have been taking them for probably two weeks now, and I have felt a definite appetite decrease. I had a sudden urge to work out and to get into shape too, so I'm currently taking these, eating less than i've ever eaten day to day and i haven't had any side affects. some people say they've lost the weight without the workouts, but that's just something i really wanted to get into.
i take the original ones that aren't organic and don't have hoodia. they have blue on the bottle and box. I think you'll be satisfied with them. I'm not sure how much I've lost yet, but I feel certain they're working.
You can order them online too. just look em up. They are like 30 dollars a pill so they aren't like the 80 dollar expensive ones.
good luck!!
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Has anyone else noticed that questions are the same? I mean I love this site, but latly i've been getting bored because every question is the same!! It bothers me. Like 13 year olds talking about boyfriends, friends, and sex. It's like how difficult is your life at 13?! Anyone else feel the same? ANd how can i make this site more interesting for me?
i agree with the both of you.
i understand the whole "13 year old" thing.
i wasn't having sex at thirteen and i certainly think it's crazy that they are the ones asking for advice.
it's also crazy to say you're like 12 and in love.
maybe you like someone, but not love.
you can't even drive or go out together.
so how is that dating??
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okay so like im usually like insanely comfortable with guys. like i can kiss them and hook up and whatever but like its weird when it comes to like anything more. im usually up for anything, like i always feel fine saying ill do stuff with a guy and ill be so comfortable with him and totally game for doing stuff but then literally at the last second i stop him and i dont know why. like i always get mad at myself for not letting it happen. how do like i get over that?
I don't think you can just get over something like that. It takes time. Your mind and body are mentally and subconsiously sending you signals to halt your sexual experiences because it's a big step and maybe you just aren't ready yet like you want to be and feel you are. When it happens it'll happen and it'll be the right time then, just not when you're trying to do it with whoever. Maybe it's also because you're saying its with "various guys" and if you were with someone you trusted and cared about then you'd have an easier time letting loose on such a big thing. You shouldn't trust just any guy you know with something like this, because you are putting a whole heckload of trust into them by letting sex happen, and sometimes they take it wrong and it makes you sound like a bad person.
Be careful. Good luck.
And don't feel the need to rush into anything!
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hey im 17
theres this guy i reali like , and we meet up and havve sex, i no its not right blah blah, but he turned around and said to me this morning he want to make sure he cums in me , he never used protection, which i totally dont argree but i still shag him, he tld me that he wants a kid because its the only way he wil stop him frm getting into troble, so i think hes just having sex wit me to get pregnant , but im no where ready to have a kid, if been thinking about it but no im 17 i just want to settle down , im not even with this lad, i dont no what to say to him? if i say no then i think im going to lose him or hes going to have sex with someone ? i realy want to be with him , i just keep thinking to myself if i keep havin sex with him that he will get with me but i done no .
This guy has blatantly told you that he wants a baby to save himself, which isn't very smart.
I know you like the guy, but you're going to have to be strong and bow out quietly. He's not interested in a relationship, or he would have tried to work one out with you in the beginning.
I suggest that you stop having sex with him, because you've said you don't want a baby and that you're way too young to have one.
If you want a boyfriend, then find someone who isn't just trying to get your pregnant and actually cares about you.
Besides, relationships shouldn't be founded on physical stuff. They should be formed on trust and character and interest before anything. You need to be strong enough to handle the situation and to get out of it before something you regret happens and if he has sex with someone else, well it'll be them that has the kid not you!!
The longer that you stay around this guy the more likely that you're going to have a kid and the worse your emotional ties to him gets. Sorry, but some guys just aren't the relationship type, and he seems to be that way.
Be careful. Good luck!
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hey im 17 and latey my boob keep goin numb like every hr sumtimes its actually hurts its never my left boob, just on the side, is this normal??
No, this is NOT normal. I'm not sure what it could be. Maybe check yourselves for lumps too. I suggest that you go to the doctor and let them check it out, because if it is anything serious you'll want to get a handle on it before it gets any worse. They'll be able to help you determine what it is that's wrong with you.
I hope it's nothing horrible.
Good luck and please go to the doctor!!
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hello. im 16 years old, turning 17 after 1 month and couple of days and a female.
well if you wonder what i look like, you would notice my piercings, um black hair , dark brown eyes, almost pale skin, tall enough.
well i hate something called depression, i\'m always happy but not really from inside, i want people to help me out and tell me i\'m fine and i\'m not going to go insane well i know that part i mean i\'ll never think of suicide or something that\'s stupid no! i need to solve my problems
well first of all i tried liking my sister, i tried convincing myself that i just don\'t like her now because she is being a bitch but i lover her because she is my sister , but the truth is i can\'t just lie to myself so for the first time i\'m going to admit, i thought of murder before , i\'m not some psycho person who is gonna murder someone no i just thought of murder before and i thought of murdering my sister and that i would feel so good about it.
i have two insane parents who made me to choice between them and if i choice one of them i cant speak to the other , i choice my mom because i can drink and smoke at home, i actually love them both but i hate them also the same level both, so i dont like my mom more than my dad or something no! but my mom gives me freedom more than dad
well common factors between them is
both alcoholics , i dont care i have drinking problems myself which i\'m gonna discuss
both got caught with rolled cigs in there cig packs i wasnt shocked at all honestly just pretended to be
i live in a house, ughh i cnt even know where to start, i bet if you come over you might go deaf , you know i wish one day would pass peaceful, the o nly days that would pass p eaceful is the days i would sleep all morning of a sleeping pill
i love my brother well i loved my brother until i got to know him and i found out he is a total asshole , he is my half brother btw (mom got married three times and dad two times) active people haa??
ookay next to m y feelings and problems enough with my parents problems thats getting to me
on christmas i went to a party , i had too many drinks like all the time , i made out with a very close friend of mine and we dont speak anymore
on new years after midnight i was one year single cuz my boyfriend dumped me after midnight exactly , i was drunk and he called me, we made out in his car and i gave him a blow job (first time ever to give a blow job or see a real dick before)
on jan 8 my friend\'s birthday, whom i made out with in his bathroom , and gave him three lovebites o n his stomach but
before that (you know when u get drunk and you happen to tell someone , something that is bothering you well, it happened with me but with the wrong bitch) i told this gurl what i did with ma ex because i felt guilty and she told everyone , when i was making out with the guy in the bathroom, he asked me to give him a blowjob , well me being stupid thought he was just asking but then i got it, after i found out everyone is been talking (didnt give him the blowjob because he is an asshole )
after the party , my bestfrined wasnt speak to me from new years event , and i totally broke in tears infront of him, (drunkkkkk btw i never cry infront of people or i never cry ever) and i punched the wall that made my little finger bone go above the other one , and the operation is gonna cost my mom 3000$
i lost my ipod, 50$, make up bag and my friend\'s phone (the make up bag and 50 $ dont matter but i lost them ) i dont remember how and when?
i always say i\'ll stop but next day i drink
im drinking everyday, i got a d- on my math exam because i had a hang over and for sure the night before i didnt study
on nov 21 i said \"i\'ll stop weed\" i did but on new years and jan 8 and 2 , i smoked up
i cant get professional help because my mom thinks its totally fine, its a teenage time and laughs about it , she thinks its normal
please anyone tell me something useful, ive been helping alot of people on this website but i cant help my own
I'm really sorry it seems like you're having a really rough time right now, and your parents and family aren't much of a support system. It's a big step that you've even asked advice on something like this because it means you see the kind of life your parents have lived and you want better for yourself.
I've never been in a situation like yours, but I can tell you that maybe you need to find somewhere else to stay. I know you say your dad would be more strict on you, but maybe that's what you need. You say you've tried to stay away from alcohol and smoking but you always end up drinking everyday anyways. Would your dad let you do these things? If he wouldn't let you, you should consider staying wiht him. Maybe he'd be harder on you, but if you don't get out of the lifestyle you're in, you'll be like them. I'm not trying to make you feel worse, but I think if you got away from these bad things and they weren't made so openly available to you, then you'd be better.
I know this sounds so not fun, because I did this, and I didn't love it. But one thing you could do is to get a job to get you out of the house and make you more dependent. You said your house is loud and you have to take pills to keep you asleep and instead of being at home around alcohol and the chaos, you could gain some responsibility and be making your own money. Then when you got off work you could come home and do your work and you wouldn't have excess time to think about drinking. I think it's safe to say that your parents have their own problems, problems in which you've just stated you don't want to have yourself, so you have to make mature, smart choices and pull yourself out of the hole. Just because you don't have the best homelife, doesn't mean you can't get through it and make something of yourself. This includes working harder in school, bc if you get away from the drinking, then you will be able to focus more on your school work, and that gets your into college, that's the most important thing in your life right now.
And the friends thing. You know that if your parents are alcoholics, then you're susceptible to being one too in the future. I suggest that no matter how cool those parties are that everyone's going to that you skip out on them until you get settled with your life, because you dont' wnat to do things you regret. Giving blowjobs and having sex and making out with guys when you're drunk is not how you want it to happen I'm sure. I feel sure that if you keep yourself occupied and away from the bad things in your life that you can concentrate on the more positive things, and you could probably keep up with important things such as your ipod and your friend's phone.
For whatever reason's your friends aren't talking to you, you should try to talk it through with them. Your best friends are all that matters. As long as you know what kind of person you are and get them on your side, you don't need anything else. So many times high school is all about acceptance and I think what they don't realize is that when you go to college you aren't defined by high school anymore. You're with a whole new set of people and what nickname you had in school or whatever no longer matters. Be strong, and don't murder your sister. When she acts like a bitch just remember that you're not her, and you don't have to be like her. You can be the better sister to her and the better person.
Hang in there. And if you need anyone to talk to, send me a message. :)
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Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
Well, I don't know if you are a girl or a guy, but I think it depends on that a lot. Guys tend to be more apt of having a friend with benefits than girls. Girls have emotional ties that really causes them to be hurt from relations like these. If you are a girl who wants this from a guy, there are still guys who can get their feelings hurt by caring more than they should. If you're a guy, I don't suggest doing this to a girl. Either way, make sure the person knows that you only want someone for fun and comfort, but not to be serious with, although, it is risky. Usually in situations like these, someone always gets attached. Keep in mind that we can't help how our feelings develop for someone, so even if one of you is going into it thinking "hey i got a makeout buddy" you may come out of it wanting more because that close of physical contact is personal and will make you care a lot for someone.
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hi im 15/f and im a freshman at my school. last year i dated this guy kyle and hes now 14/m and is in 8th grade.. but we dated and fought then made up for about 4 months then we started seeing other people. i hooked up and did some things with this one guy trying to get over kyle. but it just made me miss him more so i decided to try again with him and he asked if i didnt anything with anyone els i told him what i had did and he holds it againts me all the time. but we broke up again and didnt talk at all untill a month ago. and thats when i fell head over heels for him once again.now were dateing and spending every weeknd together we havent done much witch is awsome. but we havent bc hes still mad that i did things with another guy. weve been dateing for 2 weeks so far and its great but it seems like he cant get over i did things wiht another guy. so i was woundering how can i make him stop holding it against me and start trusting me more?
The first thing you need to realize is that guys really DO mature slower than girls. You are dating a younger guy, so that will always be difficult in the teenage years. I know from my past that guys who are younger are more apt to get jealous and act crazy about stuff that can't be helped. They haven't reached the maturity level of understanding yet that is needed for a decent relationship.
You're 15, so you shouldn't worry about not "doing stuff" with this guy. Yes, people do do things when they are this young sometimes even though they shouldn't, but you should just be happy to be with him. You don't have to do anything with him to be happy with him.
Second, you and this boy weren't even going out when you did these things, so it's really none of his business what you did. He's probably just having a hard time thinking of you with another guy, which is how guys of all ages are. Usually when you're with them they want you for themselves and that's all they see.
If you continue to date him, all you can do is tell him that obviously he's the only guy you want to be with or you would be with that guy. Explain to him that you don't spend all this time with him for nothing, and that it's not about to change. And assure him that the past is the past and there's nothing to change it, so he should be happy he has you now and the two of you could be happier if he let it go.
Good luck!
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I'm a 26 year old male would-be author who hasn't been able to find work in the year since he graduated, nor got his book that he worked on published.
I feel like a drain on my family, friends, love life and so on.
I feel like a failure in every sense of the word. And I feel as if I lost faith in so many things, mostly myself, and that my life has run its course as far as mattering goes.
How can I regain my will to try, to persist, to basically live?
I am currently a college student studying psychology and a minor in creative writing. I want to be a writer more than anything in the world! I do my research on all of my favorite authors, just searching for advice and information that they might lend out to aspiring authors.
Writing is hard. It isn't a learned talent, but an inborn one. And those who do finish novels and books and want them published will eventually get it done if they want it bad enough. I don't know what genre you write, but I do know that it only takes on person to want to read it. There are tons of publishers and editors out there who would probably really enjoy what you've written.
Don't get down because you've hit a rough spot, you have to keep going. My favorite author says that if you get rejections to keep your head up, because all of the most well known, wonderful authors have had rejections before reaching their goals and getting their books published.
I'm sure your friends and family don't hold any of this against you. You are still searching for your big break. You can't give up. I still have a bit to go before I can seriously send my work out, but you're ready. You have to be willing to do whatever it takes to make it. That's how being exceptional is. Take day by day and concentrate on what you can make of each day that will make you happier. Find things that you think are fun to fill up your free time so you're not sulky and impatient. But please be persistent and don't give up, and you'll make it!! :)
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17/f
There's this guy, we'll call him N. Well, I've liked him for a very long time. I told him eventually, he didn't feel the same. Okay, cool. We were friends. Still are. But now, ever since him and his girlfriend (er, now ex-girlfriend) broke up, he's been flirting with me like there's no tomorrow. But then, when he's texting me updates about the game, he stopped texting back so fast. So my friend Tyler sent me updates. Well, N told me the same thing Tyler did, so I told him that Tyler told me. He then replied "Okay, just making sure pal."
It's stuff like that that always throws me for a loop. Is he just looking for a fun time, or what? I mean, him and his girlfriend only broke up cause he's going to University in September. I'm just really confused and I feel like I'm in grade school again.
Please and thanks for all the help.
So basically I understand the boat you're in. I'm in my first year of college, but my school is only an hour and a half from my hometown. There's this guy from my hometown who I grew up with and we've talked on and off ever since the beginning of our junior year, but never dated. He always knew I liked him, and I always got the feeling he liked me, but nothing ever came of it. I would put my feelings out there, we'd flirt, but then we'd stop talking sooner or later each time and he'd end up dating someone else.
I never could figure out what was going on. Was it me? Was I not good enough? Why did he act like he liked me, but nothing ever happened?
Until I came home for a month for Christmas break, and he's of course, single right now, so we've been texting for over a month since before I left school for break.
Anyways, nothing has come of it this time. This is the longest we've ever talked, and we've definitely talked about dating, but he doesn't want to date until he transfers to my school this fall.
It seems to me that this guy is sort of the same as my guy. He seems to want some fun when you're around and he's around. When he's tied up with someone else you won't hear from him (in flirtatious/possible dating terms) and then when he's free you get a bazillion texts from him b/c he's got all the time in the world.
I think maybe it's just that flirting is fun and it makes you feel good. It's nice to feel liked by a boy or girl, and this guy wants someone to talk to. I can't read guys' minds, especially your guy, but I think you should tiptoe around it and don't get your hopes up, b/c it sounds like he's just being fun.
Maybe try having a conversation with him about what it is he's looking for right now. See if he's happy single or whatever. Play it up and find his intentions, but be careful. You don't want to like him a lot like before and get your feelings hurt.
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i don't really like doing sexual things.
sure, they feel good...but after it all im wet and i feel so gross. is this normal? and when my boyfriend was fingering me it kinda felt good but i couldnt relax because im pretty tight and i kept thinking he was gonna accidently do something wrong...(first time fingering someone)
so is this normal?
16/f
There is nothing wrong with you. Of course this is normal. We all start out the same. When you haven't had an excess of sexual experience and someone is fingering you and you can't relax so much, it's not your fault.
This kind of stuff isn't going to be extremely orgasmic and dreamy when you're first starting out. Guys have it easier than us. They can get off easier. We have to work at making it comfortable for ourselves, and it doesn't happen the first fair few times someone fingers you. So yes, its normal to not feel like it's the biggest turn on and the best sensation ever.
And the wet thing is way normal too. You can go to the bathroom or somewhere and clean up afterwards. You don't have to wallow in it, because it isn't too great.
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My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude?
Well, yes, the majority of guys are interested in pornographic stuff, but that's not to say that girls can't like it too. I don't think its weird of you to like it. You are a sexual being just like him and any of the rest of us in the world, and it's your right to be interested and curious in it.
Some people like their sexual side more than others and there's nothing weird about it.
I think he is being a prude. Maybe you can make it possible to just indulge in this stuff without him and without telling him. Does he have to know everything you do as long as it's not being unfaithful to him??
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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female...
This guy does sound like he's just trying to find someone. If he only wanted you and seriously loved you, then he'd be only after you. Obviously he just wants someone to have someone regardless of who it is. You say you're in a good relationship with a guy who you know loves you now, so why are you fooling with this guy??
It doesn't matter what you tell him either. You don't even have to respond to him. You shouln't worry about what he wants. He may be a good guy, but maybe he's only interested now because you're taken and he can't have you. Isn't that how it always is, it drives them crazy when you're over it and you're happy with someone else??
Nobody asks someone out if they know they're going to say "no" just for the heck of it. I'd just leave this guy alone or it may jeopardize the relationship you're in now.
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There's this girl I was friends with in highschool and then after highschool she moved in with her grandparents in another town so she could go to the college there and ever since she moved our friendship had been different. It's like we are not best friends anymore. I've noticed that every time she calls me all she wants to talk about is drugs,drinking,parting,and sex and we get into arguments over the phone everytime she calls becouse I don't want to talk about that kind of stuff and when she lived here we never got into any kind of fight ever and lately that's all we do is fight and argue. Then about 3 weeks ago she called and said she was coming over to hang out for a few hours but I kept having to call her to see if she was coming and she said she was hanging out with somebody that use to be one of my friends to but she said if she came over that friend of hers that I don't like had to come over so I said she can't come over becouse I didn't get along with that other girl and then she was going to bring her over to my house even after I told her to. Then last night she came over just to talk and didn't even let me know before she came and when she came over she looked like she was high on something. what should I do?
It sounds like this girl is headed down the wrong path. I know you had a great friendship with her before, but you can't help it that she's made poor choices with her life.
Maybe the next time you talk to her you should (make sure she's sober first) talk to her and explain to her that you're worried about her.
Tell her that you would like to help her and that you miss her friendship. If she doesn't take this seriously and she doesn't want your help then that's all you can do.
If she laughs it off or gets defensive, then I think it would be best if you parted different ways. She's an adult now, and she has to want to work out her problems. If she doesn't then there isn't much you can do and you shouldn't stick around and let her treat you badly and hurt you.
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Okay well I'm in grade 10 and there's this high school near our house that I could have gone to but instead it took me forever to convince my dad to let me go to this other high school I wanted (which he finally agreed and I've been there since grade 9).
But my little sister is going to enter high school next year and things are getting a bit complicated. She wants to go the original high school that we were supposed to go to. But now, my dad's convinced that my school is the best one in the province (always in newspapers about things).
He told one of her friend's parents that he's taking her to my high school, so now that parent is making their child go to my school too. (Which she didn't want her to). Now all her friend's parents are making them go to my high school and I don't know what to do! I feel like it's my fault.
Well first of all, I go to a catholic high school, so uniforms are not going so well with her (she has so much clothes so that would be such a waste NOT to wear them every day!). The school I was intended to go to is a public school.
My sister just told me that one of her friends was bawling because suddenly her parents told her that she's also being forced to go to my school (catholic). Like it's such a sensitive topic and I feel that it's my fault because I convinced my dad about sending me there in the first place so now he just won't stop spreading it around.
Another thing, I wanted to go to the school that I am in now because I wouldn't be with my family and my sister's annoying friends won't be there to bug me and embarrass me. My brother also wants to go to a different high school when it's time. So I had it all planned; 3 siblings, three different schools, good.
But now we're all going to the same school and it's bothering so much! Yes, I may sound like a bad sibling right now but really, it's in their best interest; I don't really like them and it’s almost tolerable but if I see them even more during the day now, I think I may start to hate them, which I don't want to happen.
And my conscience is killing me about my sister's classmates. Almost 1/4 of them are getting forced by their parents to go to my high school now when they were all (including my sister) going to go to that public high school.
I'm thinking of going to the house of that friend who was bawling and have a talk with her parents (they said that my school was better and that the public school has a bad drug reputation, but a lot of people in my school does drugs too), but
I'm really shy outside the house and I'm not sure...do you think I should? Or would that make it worse? And what should I do about all this pent up anger on my dad? It's taking up all my energy to keep it all inside right now because I just want to shout THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT in his face for creating havoc among my sister's friends in their last year of school together and mine. And what do you think I should do about y sister? Brother? I was talking it over with my friend and she said, "Well it's not your parents' choice of which school you go to, it's your life." And my sister doesn’t know anyone so she's already depressed and miserable.
Okay, woah, first off, you are two years or more older than these kids. You shouldn't be concerned about them going to this school. Maybe it is really the better school, and if these parents want their kids to go, then you have no place in trying to convince them otherwise.
I don't think you should go to their house and talk to them, because they didn't make the decision because you went there, they made it based on their own analysis of the school and decision. It's simply not your place to tell them otherwise what to do with their child.
Also, these are your siblings who you're talking about. Maybe they do get on your nerves, but you aren't in the same grade, and won't have the same classes. You need to rise above this. Besides, you can't honestly expect your parents to send all of your to different schools because that's seriously crazy and too complicated. I think you're stressing over stuff that doesn't need to be stressed over.
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its been four months since I've been with my boyfriend .I lost my virginity to him Im 17 and his 20 years old.we started dating in september 20,2008 and had sex for the first time on november 11,2008.
we were at his house in his room around october of 2008 and we were making out and he tried to take my shirt off and i said no he was upset and kept asking me what am i waiting for this happened twice . the third time i told him i was ready for his own sake and he went to get a condom and we were ready to go and i told him that i wasnt ready so he was like its okay im not going to pressure you a month later which was november 11,2008 we were making out and i felt like i was ready for me this time and we did it.thinking back im wondering did he force me im still with him and i really care about him he treats me right and im happy .
Well, it does sound like in the beginning there was some pressure. And maybe deep down you weren't ready. But in the end when you did have sex with him, it doesn't seem that he forced you, you just were ready to give the part of yourself up.
See its like this: when you first get into some serious relatinoship with someone and esp. if they are your first love, then you do love them with everything in you, and you end up doing things with them that before you hadn't so much planned on being ready for because you DO trust them and you do wnat to give them every part of you.
I think there was some pressure there, but you weren't fully pressured. The intensity of the emotions in the relationship changed your mindset as time went on and finally you were ready.
This is completely normal.
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You can find my hair here www.myspace.com/Da_2nd_Generation
I hope it works on my hair, Oh by the way can't I get eletricuted if I use a flat iron when my hair is wet?
Your hair doesn't look too majorly thick. My hair is naturally wavy, and it looks like your hair is about the same as mine and I straighten mine nearly everyday. My hair is choppy and straight, but it's above my shoulders though.
I think it looks like it would work for your hair. When you go to the hairstylist, ask them if you straightened it after you got it cut if it would look like this, but I'm fairly sure you can pull it off.
And no, you won't get electrocuted by straightening your hair wet. I have a wet-to-dry straightener where you can straighten wet or dry. If you straighten it wet it sizzles a little as it dries your hair. I don't think it is the best method of straightening for your hair, but it's the one I use the most because it's easiest.
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