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Is it wrong to want someone close by but not want to date? Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
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As long as both people know that you aren't commmitted, then not at all. ]
i don't think there is anything wrong with just hooking up with someone. everyone likes the idea of having someone there but not being commited to them. Just make sure the person you are hooking up with knows that it is nothing more than just hooking up. The last thing you wanna do is lead someone on. ]
No. Its not wrong as long as your not leading anyone on thats its something more. Everyone wants companionship. Its only natural to want that. As long as someone knows you just wanna be like that and not "date" and that you all can see other people then its fine. If someone thinks its something more though and finds out the hard way then it could be damaging to your rep. ]
Well, I don't know if you are a girl or a guy, but I think it depends on that a lot. Guys tend to be more apt of having a friend with benefits than girls. Girls have emotional ties that really causes them to be hurt from relations like these. If you are a girl who wants this from a guy, there are still guys who can get their feelings hurt by caring more than they should. If you're a guy, I don't suggest doing this to a girl. Either way, make sure the person knows that you only want someone for fun and comfort, but not to be serious with, although, it is risky. Usually in situations like these, someone always gets attached. Keep in mind that we can't help how our feelings develop for someone, so even if one of you is going into it thinking "hey i got a makeout buddy" you may come out of it wanting more because that close of physical contact is personal and will make you care a lot for someone. ]
honestly, no..just because you want to feel loved and important doesnt make you a slut or anything like that. if you feel that you are leading the boy on, make it clear to him that hes just somebody to have some fun with...everyone feels that way at some point...it is totally normal ]
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