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" align=left hspace=10> Hey! My name is Kimberly and i am 17 years old. I'm a very outgoing girl and i love to have fun with my friend. I play basketball, shop, and i'm in love with the beach. My family and friends mean the world to me, and i would be no where without them. I've learned a lot about myself and who my real friends are in the past year.
I love helping people if its anywhere from what outfit to wear to which boy they should date. Yeah, i have made mistakes in my past but i have learned from them and it has only made me stronger. So feel free to ask me anything and i will try and help the best way i can. :D
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Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
i don't think there is anything wrong with just hooking up with someone. everyone likes the idea of having someone there but not being commited to them. Just make sure the person you are hooking up with knows that it is nothing more than just hooking up. The last thing you wanna do is lead someone on.
do you personally think its slutty for a girl (age 17 if it matters) to have sex with a guy she is not in a relationship with? ...can you go too far on the first hookup?
Well for me personally i wouldnt have sex on a hookup. I think sex is something that you should share with someone that you really care and love. I know that might sound dorky or something like that, but i guess that's just how i was brought up. As far as it being slutty, i would have to say yes. I know many girls in my school that go around having sex with random guys at parties.Yeah, that's what guys want now but in the end guys wanna settle for the girls that dont go around giving themselves to guys left and right. But that's just my opinion.
well I like this boy alot for like 4 years and my friends tell me i need to talk to him and make a move. But i dont know what to say to him. How can i start talking to him, or what should i say? Because im so nervouse talking to him and we dont really talk that much so how can i start a conversation. And plus he knows i like him.
First off just relax.I know that talking to a guy is sorta scary, especially a guy that you really like.So when you see him walking in the hall go up to him and just start a conversation.( i know that is easier said than done.) but try to start talking about something that you know he is interested in or, im not sure if you have any classes with him, but if you do ask him about something that was going on in class or something along that line. I know talking about school might not be the most interesting thing to talk to your crush about but at least this will get things moving along. It will show him that you are interested. Overtime hopefully you will talk more often. Then that is when you can maybe exchange number and start hanging out. But most importantly, just remember to be yourself. :)
For a while now it seems like my life has been on pause. Nothin is happening to me, im not saying im sad, more like bored with life. Im very active though, im training to fight, i workout whenever i can, work every day, hang out with friends almost every night. I dont have a girl friend but that only leads to pain and hate in the end. I have a few girls that i like and talk to very often but it seems like id give them up in a heart beat for something more.Its not that i dont care about these people, it more that im waiting for something. Does anyone know whats wrong with me, because i have no clue what i want or need anymore?
First off, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. From what you said you sound like a normal teenage guy. You are involved in activities and have friends. As far as the girl part, i sorta understand where you are coming from. Me being a girl, i am very picky about the guys that i date. You said that you have girls that you talk to and that you sorta like. Well maybe you are just waiting for someone that you feel totally comfortable around or someone that you can have strong feelings for. Or maybe right now your arent meant to have a girlfriend. I know this is going to sound corny but when it's meant to happen it will happen. You'll find a girl that you really care for and she will return those feeling toward you too. In the meantime, just have fun with your friends and try to not let it bother you so much. Your time will come, don't worry. :) hope this helped!
i heard that for guys, saying a girl is cute is more of a compliment than saying a girl is hot, because "cute" is like someone you can bring home to mom and "hot" is someone you just wanna look at or $%#@! haha is that true?
the guy who said it to me was 24 but i just assumed he called me cute bc he didn't think i was hot but didn't wanna insult me, and then just came up with an excuse haha.
i definitely think that cute is a better compliment than hot. when i think of cute i think of a girl that guys want to settle down with and has respect for herself. when i think of hot i think of trashy slutty girls that guys just wanna fool around with. so cute is good. :) hope this helped.
Hi I am 16.f. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. He is my first true love, and everyone says 'youll never forget your first love' and everything, like our relationship will never last. But what if I TRULY think he is the only one I could ever be with. I know I am young, and of course I wouldn't get married now, and I have time to think about it but on one hand I can't imagine a future with anyone else, but on the other hand EVERYONE seems to think that just because I have never loved anyone else means I wont last long with him?? Is it possible that I just happened to find the perfect guy right off the bat? Has anyone had an experience like mine??
i have never experienced something like this but my best friend is right now. she is only 16 and she is completely in love with her boyfriend. if you and your boyfriend really love eachother and it is meant to be, you will end up together. In the next couple of years you will be growing up and changing. But the most important thing is, stop listening to what everyone else is saying. Just worry about right now and enjoy the times you have with your boyfriend and friends. hope this helped.
ok so i was at a party that got busted and I ran away, the thing is they have a list of everyone who was there, is it against any rules/laws to run away from cops at a party? will i get in any trouble? btw im 16 years old
Im pretty sure you wont get in trouble from running. Because first off, its not like the police said directly to you, stop and you kept running. Plus, most of the times when they write kids names down it is to call their parents and let them know what has been going on. So i would just take a deep breath and relax. Everything is going to be cool (:
So there's this guy (there always is..) who I half-like. (I say "half" because I have all the symptoms of liking him.. but can't possibly actually do so). Either way: He really is the sweetest guy and soo much fun to be around!
Now to the problem: He likes me. Not HALF-likes me. He really likes me. I've been through this before (hundreds of times) so I know what my options are:
A: Keep spending time with him, watch him fall for me, then reject him and break his heart when he asks me out.. and lose him forever.
B: Stop spending time with him to ultimately spare his feelings.. and lose him forever.
C: Tell him the truth, slowly see how things change between us and get awkward.. and lose him forever.
D: Say yes when he asks me out, because after all I do "half-like" him.. (well, I guess this is the option I've never been brave enough to try with any of the other guys.. but I'm pretty sure it follows the pattern and ends with..) .. and lose him forever.
You wanna make my day by adding a fifth option?
Thank you! :)
Well, since you do "half" like him. Spend more time with him. Get to know him and let him get to know you. Become real good friends first. Thats always best. After you guys spend time together you might be surprised how your feelings might change for him. They might get stronger or you might realize that you just wanna be friends. This way, you arent really hurting him if you guys just hang out as friends. But just make sure he knows that as of right now you just wanna be friends cause the last thing you would wanna do is lead him on. Just take things slow and most importantly follow your heart girl. Hope this helped! Lemme know how things work out for you. Best of Luck! (:
13/f
I have been babysitting for my step mom's home daycaring service for 2 summers now. A couple of weeks ago I told her that I would work for her. Last week an offer came to my doorstep, someone my sister works for neeeded a baysitter. My step mom gives me $12 and day while the other #30 - $40 a day. I am going to high school next year and I am planning to save my money for college. I told my step mom that I can work for her the days that I am off and she got upset. My dad said that I should have stuck with my step mom... but this isn't all for me... this is for my furture of dreaming to go to vet college and become a vet... Now my dad wants to talk to me... what should I do???
First off, i can see where your step mom is coming from. She is a little upset cause she probably depended on you and liked having you help her around the day care center. And i totally understand from where you are coming because you wanna save your money for things that you want to buy or even college! But girl, youre 13 years old. You should be out there having fun while you can! (: im 16 years old and i just got a job about 5 months ago and thats all i do anymore. Anyways, just talk to you step mom and tell her that you want to save up and that you will do your best to keep trying you work there. Good Luck! (:
so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!
ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf)
Well if they arent together then i think you should go for it. First, have your guy friend introuduce you to him. Then talk to him. Get his number and maybe hang out a couple of times. Try to start out slow, you dont want to rush things. After you hang out a couple times and talk, you will know if he is liking you too. He will text you first and ask you to hang out. Then just go from there. You might be surprised though, after you talk and hang out you might not be so crazy about him. But you never really know until you try (:
And as far as if you guys will be together, you are going to have to take that by ear too. Like i said, make a good friendship with him first, then go from there.
I hope this helped.
Make sure you keep me updated. And good luck girl (:
If you need anything else let me know.
okay so i had two dreams in one night
the first one was a nightmare
where me and my family were up at a cabin
and i kept seeing images of a dead girl
then we were at a beach there and i was terrified my grandma was gonna get drowed by the waves
she didnt but the waves kept coming at me
then we were back at the cabin and they were all about to leave to go somewhere without me but i was too afraid to stay home alone so they called this perky loving babysitter.anyway,they left then the dead girl or whatever took over some kitchen appliance and shot something at her and she died.i tried to call but my phone wasnt working.i ran down to the beach and thought i was safe,but then some live little girl came up i think she was possesed,and threw the appliance at me.then i woke up.
-second dream-
i was able too go back in time,i went back to when i was in like second grade,seeing myself that young alone was amazing,but at first i was with my family playing in the yard and i then i saw me down the street ran after me and little me ran away.i finally caught up when my birth mom came and asked me what was going on and why i was chasing her daughter.i told her she wouldnt believe me but she insisted she would so i told her i told ehr i was from the future and called her the name only i did.she said then i would know that last night they went through s terrible time.I sat there and talked to her then to my younger self and gave her tons of advice.then i told her ide be back a week or day before she went into 7th,and i went back and got supplies and then came back a week before i went into 7th and gave little me even more advice.i brought my camera and took tons of pictures.i was gonna leave but i couldnt no matter what i tried.i was stuck there and stayed in this weird room.i tried to get out everyday.I got ina fight with this girl i talked to barley in elementry that were taunting me.i got up and was about to fight but then said it wasnt worth it.the guy ive liked was with them too.then i kept trying and then woke up.
if you need any personal details ask and ill send a message
if you can help with one or both of these thatd be fantastic.or even parts of them.
thanks in advance
i have weird and strange dreams all the time that never make sense. Honestly, no one really knows what your dreams are really trying to tell you. I know that when my grandma passed away i had several dreams with her in it. I so believe that dreams try to tell you something that might happen in the future. But no one really knows how to explain them. haha. im sorry if this really doesnt help you, but i tried. goood luck
first i put clean face:
1) Clean& Clear-Blackhead clearing[scrub]
2) Neutrogena-Deep Clean[oli free]
3)Olay-age defying
4) sometime Dove[white]
is that good to use it all same time or one?
and also i have Clearasil-acen control[Pore Cleansing Pads] SOMETIME.
yea, is it good? or pick one!
my face is pimple, oncely acen, and OILY the most, and also after i washed them all then my face goes DRY which lotion or whatever help me less dry?
help thank
honestly, i think you should try and stick with one brand of products. using all those different ones at once could actually make your skin worse. I use clean and clear and i think for the most part it works very well. hope this helped. (:
What do you think of them? Im 16 and sometimes i want one really bad and sometimes idk. What do you think? Are tehy cute or not? I cant decide please dont say 'dont get it if you arent sure if you want it' beucase its not a permanent thing and can always be taken out
If you want it then go for it girl! I mean if you think they are cute then nothing should stop you from getting one. I have mine done and i love it. Just be careful where you get it at. Make sure its a good and clean place! (: hope this helped.
poop at school? I'm sorry this is such a wierd question, but I feel very embarassed if I have to poop at school so I usually try to hold it. It seems like I'm the only one that does it at school.
And, what is a good way to hide it? Especially if theres other people in the bathroom.
What if I have diarrhea at school?
Thanks.
HAHAHAHA.
well, me personally i can't stand using public toliets. but when you have to go, you have to go. But i mean im sure you arent the only one that uses them and as far a hiding it, just get toliet paper or something to cover the noise.
hehehehe. hope this helped! (: (:
So Halloween is tomorrow and I STILL don't know what to be. I can't really go out and buy a costume tonight so what are some ideas for a costume that I can just get out of my closet?
Thanks! :)
A really cute and eat one is a cat or something of that kind. You could just use plant paint. (or eyeliner) to draw whiskers. Then just wear a black shirt and pants.
Or you could do something like dressing up as a school girl. Everyone has a button down shirt, mini skirt, and knee socks.
You could even just go really simple and get a white sheet and cut two holes in it and be a ghost! (:
that's all i can think of right now. hope it helps.
Okay I'm going to explain this the best way I can.
Me and my boy was together for 4 months, but we broke up because of his parents, and well, we got back together, but now he's living 1 hr away from me, he use to live right around where i live but now he's moving 1 hr, away, maybe even almost 2 hours, but hes gonna come down on weekends and stuff, but he's living by himself, so it's probly gonna be hard to call me, but we can talk on the cell you know
do you think this can work? I love this guy so much, he makes my heart race, and gives me butterflies, makes me smile! ah i'm in love! this can work righttttt?
Even though it's going to be hard and you might not see him that often, i think anyone can stay together. If you guys are really that much in love like you say you are, then you both will make time to see and talk to eachother. There will be times that it will get really hard, but if it's meant to be, then everything will be fine!!! Hope this helped. Good luck girl! (:
So i was on msn and someone told me this girl(an ex classmate) i used to like just broke up with her bf. i msned her and asked for her number which i got. now should i ask her on a date? or did she just give me her number cuz we r ex classmates and she din wanna b rude? fyi the time gap thing doesn't work with her, she goes into a new r/s 2 days after the prev one is over.
Thanks for any help
Well it's obvious that she did want to talk to you, beacause if she didn't then she would have never of given you her number. So i would just start off slow. Text her first. And just talk with her. Then once you guys talk a little maybe call her and ask her on a date. Hope this helps! Good Luck! (:
how should i make out? like wat should i do with my toungue? how should i move my tounge? thanx in advance.
Just be natural and soft. There isnt really a right or wrong way to kiss. Believe me, it will just come to you. Just don't think about it too much and you will be fine! (:
Okay well I love music and I want to be a Lyrics Writer and be able to sing them.So I really want to sing but I am a little shy and am a afade that people will make fun of me you know and there is a talet show at my school so lease help me.
Girl! Don't be afraid what people think of you. Be your own person. Do the talent show! As far as the being shy thing, all you have to do is just practice. The more you practice the better you will start to feel about singing in front of people. Start with a small group then little by little get bigger. Rock it girl! (: Good luck.
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move
First off making the move is just as hard for the guy and it is for the girl. You said that he is really shy. So he might not ever make the first move. Also make sure you let him know that its okay for him to make the first move.
I know that you don't want to make the first move, but you might just have to if he is very shy. Just grab his hand when you are walking. Who knows, if you do that, then maybe he will make the second one! (: