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so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!
ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf)
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well, just ask what he likes to do and what his favorite tv shows, etc. are and if you have any of the same intrests, and start another conversation when he says something you like. like say he likes rock music, and so do you. you ask him what are his favorite rock bands and he replies and if he says a band you like tell him that you like it and ask which song is his favorite, etc, etc. sorry if its sloppy and not too comprehendable. im horrible at explaining things at times.
good luck
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try to be confident but not to confident!guys like it when girls are a little confident.they dont like it when girls are always complaining about something they dont like about themselves so try not to do that.to start a convo just be like-"hey what did you make on that test/quiz the other day?And go from there-or you could ask if hes playing any spring sports.-Compliment him on something-it could be the littlest thing like his handwriting or some peice of jewlry he might be wearing-talk about something funny that happned that day or yesterday that you both know about or something he might not know about but you think is funny-be like--"omg did you see when(blank)tripped in the halway this morning!it was sooo funny!or tell him some jokes you think are funny!just be yourself and try to keep the convo going because the minute you rely on him to start a convo is the minute he becomes bored and uninterested!well good luck and i hope this helped!!!!!
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Well, if he has a girlfriend, then I suppose you shouldn't date him. I mean, if you put yourself in the girl's shoes, its kind of cruel, isn't it?
You two should just be friends. Don't worry about being shy, just be yourself and have fun. Maybe, one day, you'll be dating him!
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Well if they arent together then i think you should go for it. First, have your guy friend introuduce you to him. Then talk to him. Get his number and maybe hang out a couple of times. Try to start out slow, you dont want to rush things. After you hang out a couple times and talk, you will know if he is liking you too. He will text you first and ask you to hang out. Then just go from there. You might be surprised though, after you talk and hang out you might not be so crazy about him. But you never really know until you try (:
And as far as if you guys will be together, you are going to have to take that by ear too. Like i said, make a good friendship with him first, then go from there.
I hope this helped.
Make sure you keep me updated. And good luck girl (:
If you need anything else let me know.
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