Question Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 11:03 pm
For a while now it seems like my life has been on pause. Nothin is happening to me, im not saying im sad, more like bored with life. Im very active though, im training to fight, i workout whenever i can, work every day, hang out with friends almost every night. I dont have a girl friend but that only leads to pain and hate in the end. I have a few girls that i like and talk to very often but it seems like id give them up in a heart beat for something more.Its not that i dont care about these people, it more that im waiting for something. Does anyone know whats wrong with me, because i have no clue what i want or need anymore?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? kimberlyelizabethx0x answered Thursday January 8 2009, 8:59 pm: First off, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. From what you said you sound like a normal teenage guy. You are involved in activities and have friends. As far as the girl part, i sorta understand where you are coming from. Me being a girl, i am very picky about the guys that i date. You said that you have girls that you talk to and that you sorta like. Well maybe you are just waiting for someone that you feel totally comfortable around or someone that you can have strong feelings for. Or maybe right now your arent meant to have a girlfriend. I know this is going to sound corny but when it's meant to happen it will happen. You'll find a girl that you really care for and she will return those feeling toward you too. In the meantime, just have fun with your friends and try to not let it bother you so much. Your time will come, don't worry. :) hope this helped! [ kimberlyelizabethx0x's advice column | Ask kimberlyelizabethx0x A Question ]
kristamikele answered Thursday January 8 2009, 12:22 pm: You have to read the book, "Oh The Places You'll Go," by Dr. Seusse. And remember, there is no pause button. Your life is going on, and it is all about your point of view. It seems as if you have ambition and asperations, and maybe you are growing up a little, so all of the fake things that used to pass are no longer satisfying. The absolute best way to change your life is to help another. I know it sounds cliche, but if you were to mentor a kid, maybe help them learn to fight, or do something else that helps out another person, you will get more out of it than you can imagine. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
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