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The boyfriend =]


Question Posted Friday October 5 2007, 8:57 am

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move

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HiChick answered Friday October 5 2007, 6:35 pm:
You could talk to him about it or about holding hands when you two are just walking together grab his hand and when he looks at you just giggle and squeeze his hand a little. To show you what to kiss him without talking about it you could just kiss him on the cheek after hugging him bye to give him a good signal. Or even kiss him on the lips if you want depends on what you feel like. you are gonna have to make the first move unless u talk to him about it but its funa nd i dont know why you wouldnt want too. good luck, best wishes, and i hope i helped! :D leave me a message for more help if you need it! Im always here! ;)

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kimberlyelizabethx0x answered Friday October 5 2007, 6:07 pm:
First off making the move is just as hard for the guy and it is for the girl. You said that he is really shy. So he might not ever make the first move. Also make sure you let him know that its okay for him to make the first move.

I know that you don't want to make the first move, but you might just have to if he is very shy. Just grab his hand when you are walking. Who knows, if you do that, then maybe he will make the second one! (:

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Em231 answered Friday October 5 2007, 4:47 pm:
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think i can help ya
so you want to hold hands and kiss thats fine I know
that you been together for a while and you praboly
want it to go a step higher huh so this what I say
talk to him tell him you want to hold his hand the kiss will happen when it happens!
I hope I helped!
Em231

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christina answered Friday October 5 2007, 2:35 pm:
If you don't wanna make the first move, & your boyfriend is shy, then there's really no chance for your relationship to move forward. You've been dating for a little while, and it's obviously time to start doing these things. You're comfortable around each other, right? If not, then you need to break the ice & make the first move. I know you don't want to, but it's obvious that he won't so you need to. Just grab his hand when you guys are walking down the hall together & when he walks you to a class, kiss him. He might not expect it, but he might like that you're taking control; so try it out. I promise that there's nothing to be afraid of, so make your move. =]

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blackrose13 answered Friday October 5 2007, 1:29 pm:
It will happen when it happens. One time You guyz will be so close to the point that you wont feel uncomfortable with eachother and itlhappen
dont worry about it
hope i helped =]=]

-IceicebabyM-

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