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How can i talk to him?
well I like this boy alot for like 4 years and my friends tell me i need to talk to him and make a move. But i dont know what to say to him. How can i start talking to him, or what should i say? Because im so nervouse talking to him and we dont really talk that much so how can i start a conversation. And plus he knows i like him.
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If you have liked this guy for 4 years you probably know more about him than just about anyone. Before you begin talking to him you should think about what your expectations are. The best way to approach it is to think that he's a good kid who you want to be friends with. If you have that kind of a mentality he won't feel any pressure and neither will you. Watch how he interacts with his friends. Are they always joking around, loud, or serious and quiet. I wouldn't change your personality, or anything, but if you notice that he's a pretty quiet kid, don't go up all loud and rambunctious. Don't put too much emphasis on things. You have liked him for so long, you can't expect miracles in one conversation. You shoulld try to plan the basics of what you are going to say so you don't get too tongue tied. Any person likes to be asked for advice, so if he's happens to be into a sport, tell him that your brother/father loves it, and you want to get the rules so you can get into it with your dad. If he is smart in one subject, tell him you are having trouble understanding it, and maybe he could help you out. It is kind of a disadvantage that he knows you like him because that will be in the back of his mind, but you can turn that into an advantage. Think about yourself. If there was a guy who you knew had a crush on you, but then he approached you as if he was only interested in a friendship, you would be like, "hey, wait a minute, I thought he liked me, but maybe he doesn't anymore." Then you would actually start to wonder about the guy, what he's thinking, etc. One of the hardest things in the world is to put yourself out there, especially when you have strong feelings involved, but you have nothing to lose so relax.
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First off just relax.I know that talking to a guy is sorta scary, especially a guy that you really like.So when you see him walking in the hall go up to him and just start a conversation.( i know that is easier said than done.) but try to start talking about something that you know he is interested in or, im not sure if you have any classes with him, but if you do ask him about something that was going on in class or something along that line. I know talking about school might not be the most interesting thing to talk to your crush about but at least this will get things moving along. It will show him that you are interested. Overtime hopefully you will talk more often. Then that is when you can maybe exchange number and start hanging out. But most importantly, just remember to be yourself. :)
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